Marriage Arguments: Some Better Than Others.

Writing in the Sunday New York Times Book Review, William Saletan, chief political correspondent for Slate, looks at new books on same-sex marriage by gay activist and organizer Evan Wolfson and gay historian George Chauncey. Says Saletan, too often advocates of marriage equality fail to address the fear that drives opposition to gay marriage. As he puts it:

Every movement that seeks to change society faces two great tasks. The first is to discredit the old order. The second is to offer a new one. Without the assurance of a new order, the debate becomes a choice between order and chaos, and order wins. ...

This larger menace -- the abolition of moral discrimination -- is what frightens reasonable people into joining the antigay resistance. They worry that marriage is losing its meaning and being supplanted by less stable relationships. Wolfson and Chauncey vindicate their fears. Chauncey welcomes the spread of domestic partnership benefits.... Wolfson praises California for extending "family protections" to unmarried heterosexuals. ... Neither author asks why couples who can marry but choose not to do so deserve such protections.

In contrast, Saletan notes that gay marriage advocates such as Jonathan Rauch and Andrew Sullivan understand "marriage as a way to mainstream gay culture," not just a series of government benefits that ought to be available to anyone who shacks up. Concludes Saletan:

We can absorb gay marriage into our society not because it's gay but because it's marriage. It's compatible with the moral distinctions we already understand and treasure. We don't have to honor every lifestyle we tolerate or treat cohabitation like marriage. It's the enemies of gay marriage who want to make this debate an all-or-nothing, order-or-chaos proposition. Let's not help them.

My two cents: Time and again, gay activists dismiss anyone opposed to the profound socio-cultural changes the movement for gay legal equality represents as a "bigot" or "hater." Well, some may be, but most are work-a-day folks who fear the breakdown of the norms they believe knit society together. Addressing their fears and not stoking them (as some "queer liberationists" delight in doing) is a vital step too often ignored.

HRC’s Choice.

Just when you think the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) couldn't veer farther off course, they do. The featured speaker at the upcoming 8th annual HRC National Dinner in Washington, D.C., is none other than the Rev. Al Sharpton, perpetrator of the 1987 Tawana Brawley rape hoax/slander and organizer of demonstrations in 2000 against Freddy's Fashion Mart, a Jewish-owned Harlem store that Sharpton denounced as a "white interloper," after which the store was set on fire by an arsonist, killing seven people.

Here's an online account of Sharpton's sick, sad history. Way to reach out to the mainstream, HRC!

Michael Jackson, Yale’s ‘Queer Theory’ Poster Boy

[On Sept. 23-24, 2004, Yale University's Larry Kramer Initiative for Lesbian and Gay Studies co-sponsored, with the university's Department of African American Studies, an interdisciplinary conference titled "Regarding Michael Jackson: Performing Racial, Gender, and Sexual Difference Center Stage."]

With a two-day scholarly conference on Michael Jackson, Yale has taken one more step into the depths of academic nihilism.

While I am hesitant to agree with the Yale Daily News' laudatory editorial asserting "scholarship shouldn't be deemed irrelevant or unimportant solely because its subject is contemporary culture," I can at the very least understand a seminar on Michael Jackson sponsored by the African-American Studies Department, touching on issues of racial identity. But what I cannot countenance is the leadership of the Larry Kramer Initiative for Lesbian & Gay Studies in hosting this celebratory conference on a man who is widely, and rightly, viewed by society as a disturbed individual who engages in questionable sexual activity.

The Larry Kramer Initiative (LKI) was founded in 2002 in honor of Larry Kramer, the noted author, playwright and AIDS activist. Meant to foster research and learning about gay issues historical, conceptual and political, LKI has increasingly drifted off into academic irrelevance due to its hosting of outrageously esoteric lectures and its heavy reliance on "Queer Theory," which thrives on themes of marginalization, segregation and oppression.

Modern LGBT-studies is a mish-mash of "social construction," essentially arguing that gender and sexuality are merely "performed" behavior and that homosexuality is not a biological condition. Queer Theory relies heavily on equal doses of Marxism and post-modernism, ranting on about oppression and the need to erase all forms of sexual limitation. It's a revolutionary doctrine, regardless if you want to be a part of the fight or not. As Hunter College art history professor Wayne R. Dynes put it:

For those opposed to "hierarchy," the concept of a core identity is unacceptable simply because it privileges the center over the margins, and is therefore a trope of domination.

Queer Theory thrives on the emphasis of sexual peculiarities and social marginalization, and there is no better representation of these two features than Michael Jackson. Attending the symposium last week, I sensed a general attitude of smug triumphalism amongst the conferees. There was a sensed mutual understanding, and appreciation, for the absurdity of this event. It was an act of academic resistance, and to Queer Theory enthusiasts, life as a queer person is just that, one big act of resistance. Queer Theory posits that the role of gays in society is to be subversive. By embracing the gender and sexuality-bending figure of Michael Jackson, then, queer studies advocates relish in their sexual deviancy.

If one were to randomly walk into a class at Yale, the thinkers that he might hear referred to by a professor would be individuals like Plato, Hegel and Kant, just to name a few. Yet in his opening remarks last Thursday, visiting LKI Professor Seth Clark Silberman cited such intellectual luminaries as the "E! True Hollywood Story," New York Magazine dilettante Simon Dumenco, Steven Spielberg and Moonwalk, the King of Pop's autobiography.

One of the conference organizers was introduced as having an interest in, among other rigorous academic pursuits, "Whiteness Studies." Todd Gray, Jackson's personal photographer from 1979-1983 and a professor at California State University, made a half-hearted attempt at academic legitimacy by citing Hegel's dialectic and Foucault's theories on colonialism in his presentation on the gloved one.

The papers presented at the conference, two of which were, "The Interface as Hieroglyph: Michael Jackson between Peter Pan and the 'Man in the Mirror'" and "Michael Jackson, the King of Melodrama: Innocent until Proven Guilty," demonstrated the arrogance of this whole pursuit as the assembled academics disguised the lack of intellectual worth inherent in the subject with an overdose of academic jargon.

Professors of queer studies might be surprised to find that most of their gay brethren do not view themselves as comprising an oppressed yet sexually rebellious vanguard. Most gay people, at least the ones I know, do not define themselves first and foremost as gay, and certainly not as "queer." We want to be viewed as normal Americans. We want to marry, maybe even have kids, heck, even live in the suburbs with a nice back yard and a golden retriever. Being gay is just a part, one of many parts, of who we are.

But to the academic queer theorists, who are still stuck in 1970s gay liberation mode, this desire to join the mainstream is the greatest threat to their existence on the margins. Gays who seek acceptance by straight people are suckers for "heteronormativity," you see, and criticism of the excesses of gay culture - multiple and anonymous sexual partners, the constant use of victimization rhetoric, an obsession with sex and the body in general - is oppressive.

Every straight friend of mine who heard about LKI's sponsorship of this conference plaintively asked me why any gay person in his right mind would ever want to be associated with Michael Jackson, a man who, in his disturbing relations with young boys, represents the worst and oldest smear against gay men - that of the pedophile. Gays just want to be part of the American family, but queer theorists are unwittingly doing the homophobe's work in trying keep homosexuals in the irrevocable position of social outcast.

What is most outrageous about this conference is not the fact that it happened, but that LKI spent resources that could have been used to host events exploring the social effects of gay marriage, gay child rearing, or gays in the military. Those issues, not hopeless theorizing about a serially alleged pederast, are of actual concern to gay people and, more importantly, are worthy of intellectual inquiry.

Imagine that. Gay people who do not want to be defined by their difference, but by their similarities. How queer.

HRC Drones On.

The House of Representatives is set to vote this week on the Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA), a political ploy by right-wing Republicans to bash gay-supportive Democrats, since the Senate's anti-amendment vote (with Kerry and Edwards absent) dooms the measure for this session. Our own Dale Carpenter has written an excellent paper for the Cato Institute explaining why this debate should remain in the state legislatures and the federal government has no business regulating family life. It's an argument aimed at small government, pro-federalism conservatives who should oppose the FMA.

Meanwhile, Cheryl Jacques, head of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), during a conference last week with journalists quoted in the Washington Blade, lobbied against the FMA by saying:

"This is nothing but a political effort to draw attention away from Congress' failure to do something about the economy, the hemorrhaging of jobs, rising health care costs and national security."

Let's reflect on this tactic. HRC ought to be doing whatever it can to move moderate and libertarian-minded Republicans to oppose the FMA, arguing against constitutionalizing the marriage ban in a way that might sway them. Instead, she uses language that mirrors Kerry's critique of Bush's domestic agenda and calls for more expansive government. This tactic can only have one outcome: to antagonize those very Republicans whose votes she should be soliciting!

Jacques is a partisan drone who hasn't made a right call since taking the helm at HRC earlier this year. It's time for her to go.

He Just Can’t Make Up His Mind.

The Washington Blade's Chris Crain says about John Kerry's pronouncements on gay marriage:

Kerry opposes the Federal Marriage Amendment backed by President Bush...but he backs those in Massachusetts and elsewhere who are amending their state constitutions to accomplish the same end.... Kerry's public support arguably gave political cover to enough swing votes to affect the exceedingly narrow vote by the Massachusetts Legislature in favor of the constitutional ban.

After Missouri voters passed a constitutional ban on gay marriage this summer, Kerry told reporters he would have voted with the majority. Later, when he was under the impression that the Missouri measure banned civil unions as well, he switched positions and said he would have opposed it. Still later, when his campaign learned that the Missouri amendment actually took no position at all on civil unions, Kerry demurred entirely....

As with his shifting stances on Iraq and other issues, Crain writes, Kerry's "congenital inability to state a clear, principled view and then stick to it is costing him dearly and may decide the election."

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Too Clever by Far.

The National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) sent out an e-mail earlier this week that read as follows:

The year is 2010. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have been guaranteed the rights granted every American by the Constitution of the United States. And, as predicted, the homosexuals have taken over. Old Glory's gone pink. Hedonism reigns. And ass-less chaps are standard office attire. Welcome to the United States of Gaymerica.

Click to enter:

http://ga4.org/ct/BdzNfRd1NQlI/gaymerica

The clink is to a webpage that continues the theme. Bizarre, to say the least, but it turns out this is a weird NGLTF call to vote on Nov. 2 styled as a parody of anti-gay propaganda. Unfortunately, NGLTF seems unaware of how easily its satire could be used by anti-gay wingers in real anti-gay fundraising letters proclaiming, "See, this is what gays really want."

In fact, the rightwing is still circulating a 1987 Gay Community News manifesto that declared "We shall sodomize your sons" and "Tremble, hetero swine," also said to have been meant as darkly humorous but which subsequently found its way into the Congressional Record as evidence of the "gay agenda."

Elsewhere, NGLTF is worried that, according to its press release, "Bisexuals Overlooked in the Debate on Equal Marriage Rights." It states:

when the Washington Post wrote about the first same-sex couple to marry in Massachusetts...the headline was wrong. One of the two, Robyn Ochs...emphasized her orientation as a bisexual in speaking with the reporter, [but] this was never mentioned....

As if focusing on bisexuality would help make the case for marriage equality clearer!

Free Speech and Hate Music

First published on September 22, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

It is by now pretty well known among gays and lesbians that several Jamaican reggae or "dance-hall" performers sing lyrics that are viciously homophobic.

That fact, however, seems not to have reached people in the entertainment business who sponsor and support these performers.

Recently the British gay advocacy group Outrage! mounted a campaign to induce performers such as Beenie Man, Bounty Killer, Elephant Man, Capleton, Sizzla, T.O.K., and Vybz Kartel-to stop singing those lyrics, charging that they promote homophobia and legitimize anti-gay violence.

Here are some of the lyrics. In the Jamaican patois batty means buttocks and battyman means gay or queer. Chi chi means gay or lesbian. Other translations are in parentheses.

From Beenie Man:

"Hang chi chi gal wid a long piece of rope." "I'm dreaming of a new Jamaica, come to execute all the gays." "Tek a Bazooka and kill batty-fucker." "All faggots must be killed." "We burn chi-chi man and then we burn sodomite and everybody bawl out, say, 'Dat right!'"

And from Elephant Man:

"Dance wi (we) a dance and a bun (burn) out a freaky man. ...crush out a bingi (queer) man." "Battyman fi (must be) dead! Gimme tha tec-nine (pistol), Shoot dem like bird." "Battyman fi (must be) dead! Get a shot inna yu head, inna mi big gun collide" (when meet my big gun).

From Vybz Kartel:

"Bow (blow-job) cat, sodomite, batty man fi (must) gat assassination," "Faggot fi (must) get copper (bullet) to di heart, A wet yuh up wid di Maggy" (I shoot you with the Magnum). Or T.O.K.: "From dem a drink inna chi chi man bar, Blaze di fire mek we dun (kill) dem!" And Sizzla: "Shot battyboy, my big gun-boom" and "Boom! Boom! Batty boy them fi (must be) dead."

The lyrics are no different from the murderous anti-black and anti-Semitic lyrics of underground skinhead and neo-Nazi rock groups preaching "racial holy war" and the extermination of minorities - whose CDs are for sale on the Internet. But dance clubs, concert promoters and record labels that would never sign a neo-Nazi group welcome the reggae homophobes.

The excuses vary. One agent said the lyrics were "metaphors" although he did not linger to say what lyrics about gleefully bashing, burning, shooting and hanging homosexuals might be metaphorical for.

A club hosting Capleton and Beenie Man objected that no one complained before and, anyway, it is "very difficult to understand what they are saying on stage." But then the club added, "They won't be using those lyrics when they play here." That is gratifying. But if the lyrics are really so difficult to understand, why bother assuring that they won't sing them?

A New York Times writer claimed that the violence of their anti-gay language is just a rhetorical gesture - a way to "gesture to religious and cultural injunctions against homosexuality...while also reminding listeners of their 'bad man' bona fides."

Suavely argued! But the singers seem serious. When Virgin Records issued a supposed apology for Beenie Man's homophobic lyrics, the performer's manager repudiated the apology. Another performer was identified by a witness as a participant in a Jamaican gay-bashing incident.

Perhaps the most specious defense of the lyrics is that we should tolerate them because we must preserve everyone's right to free speech. But the defense is without merit. Constitutional protections for "free speech" only guarantee that speech is safe from interference by government authorities.

Anyone can freely espouse any cause, write letters to a newspaper, post notices, distribute flyers and handbills, rent a room or lecture space and make a speech saying just about anything short of sedition and incitement to riot - and governments may not interfere.

But the Constitution does not say that people must be paid for their speech. "Free speech" does not mean that a private club, organization or lecture hall is obligated to pay someone to speak their piece or sing their songs. No agent is obligated to promote them, no lecture series or concert manager is obligated to book them. The Constitution guarantees "free speech" not "paid speech."

The only reason a dance club or commercial entertainment space engages a performer is to make money. And there are only two reasons club managers would engage a homophobic performer:

  1. They agree with the homophobic views, or
  2. They do not care what he says so long as people buy tickets.

In either case, others are free to try to discourage this and future exhibitions of homophobia by reducing the performer's and dance club's income. They can persuade people not to attend, picket the event in orderly fashion, pass out explanatory literature, tell their objections to newspapers, and name and shame club owners and concert managers for their complicity with inflammatory bigotry.

A friend shares the following story. A Holocaust survivor was once asked what Jews had learned from Nazi persecution. He replied, "When someone says they're going to kill you, believe them."

Another Marriage Ban.

On Saturday, Louisiana voters overwhelmingly approved a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages and civil unions, one of 12 such measures on ballots around the country this year. Poll watchers say it's likely anti-gay-marriage advocates will win all 12, and win most of these easily, although the proposed ban in Oregon has a shot at losing (and maybe in Michigan, too).

The Massachusetts Supreme Court's Goodridge ruling, declaring that the Bay State must recognize full same-sex marriage -- rather than civil unions with the rights associated with marriage, as in Vermont -- will be viewed as a move that went too far, too fast, and triggered a wave of state actions that actually set back the cause of marriage equality for decades (it was George Bernard Shaw, I think, who said the road to hell is paved with good intentions).

Or maybe the success of these anti-gay ballot initiatives will show that states are quite capable of stopping same-sex marriage if they want to, derailing the pressure for a federal Constitutional amendment.

In any event, the battle for marriage equality is going to be long and hard, with many setbacks but also a few victories (Massachusetts voters may allow their same-sex marriages to stand; other states will add or beef up their domestic partnership laws; the next generation is going to be far more comfortable with gay equality than today's average voter.) Better strategies, pursued along less partisan lines and attempting to appeal to voters not already on the liberal left, could be put into play. In time, federalism allows what works to spread and exposes what's hidebound. Not today. Not tomorrow. But eventually.

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Kerry Clarifies.

In an interview published in the Dallas Voice, a gay paper, John Kerry says he was wrong to endorse a Missouri state constitutional amendment, recently passed by voters, that will ban same-sex marriage and civil unions in that state. Apparently, he was misinformed about the matter and only supports amending state constitutions to ban gay marriage, while civil unions are ok. Of course, this is very close to what Bush recently said, so I guess Kerry is courageously making sure he doesn't get to Bush's right on this matter -- not that gay Democratic activists would complain or anything.

Being uncharitable, one could say that Kerry has once again done a political recalculation and flip-flopped -- though this time in our favor. Can he tell religious conservatives he supported the Missouri amendment before he opposed it?

And yes, I realize Bush, unlike Kerry, supports the Federal Marriage Amendment, which would ban same-sex marriage and civil unions (though Bush, disingenuously, disputes it would nix the latter).

Also of note, Kerry's daughter, Vanessa, has told AIDS advocates her dad would double spending in that area. But it's odd that during a week in which Kerry the candidate spoke extensively about his health care agenda he didn't feel compelled to go on record with this promise himself. Maybe he's made so many promises to double spending in so many areas -- while balancing the budget, of course -- that he decided this was best delivered at a distance and below the media spotlight.

--Stephen H. Miller

DADT — Don’t Ask.

Gay service members returning from Iraq and Afghanistan say that the Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy is "meaningless and unenforceable" and "prevents gays and lesbians from bonding with their peers," according to a new survey reported by the AP.

"All the policy meant to me...was that I still had to hide," says one former soldier, who adds, "All it does it put more stress on people." Some service members told researchers they feared that confiding in doctors or chaplains would place them at risk for being discovered and discharged. Yet many said younger service members with whom they served, on learning of their orientation, typically had no problem with it, even if the military brass did.

Neither Bush nor Kerry has shown a willingness to revisit a policy that prevents brave and able men and women from serving their country without the burden of having to lie and hide. Kerry originally made promising noises, then quickly backtracked once he encountered resistance and now speaks about the importance of "unit cohesion" (but hey, he's been promised the gay vote for free by our activist "leadership," so what the heck). As for Bush, his interest now is to placate the hard religious right in search of even more evangelical votes, although it's worth remembering that Cheney did once famously deride the gay ban as "a bit of an old chestnut."

It's certain Kerry, given the need to overcome his past stinging criticism of the military, won't touch this hot potato. Bush could pull a "Nixon goes to China," but there's little to suggest he would.