I wish I had more time to visit other non-lefty gay or
gay-friendly blogs. Anyhow, blogger Boi From Troy
shares his views on the veep debate addressing gay marriage and
lesbian daughters, as does
Gay Patriot. And here's Ryan
Sager's two cents. These sites are well worth checking out (but
remember to come back!).
Color Blind.
The National Gay & Lesbian Task Force co-sponsored a new study showing that black lesbian couples are raising children at almost the same rate as black married couples, and that black same-sex couples raise children at twice the rate of white same-sex couples. The Task Force concludes that "Black same-sex couples have more to gain from the legal protections of marriage, and more to lose if states pass amendments banning marriage and other forms of partner recognition."
Fair enough, but being the Task Force, they add:
"These facts underscore the hypocrisy and wrong-headedness of the Bush Administration's aggressive attempts to deprive same sex couples equal marriage rights while touting its multi-million dollar 'African-American Healthy Marriage Initiative' as a way to strengthen the African American family," said Matt Foreman, the Task Force's Executive Director. "This report clearly shows that denying the protections that come with marriage disproportionately hurts...gay and lesbian African American couples....
Yep, blacks suffer "disproportionately," of course. And while it's fair enough to castigate Bush over the federal marriage amendment, what about Kerry's support for state marriage amendments -- the current threat. Also, the Task Force makes no mention of the devastating breakdown of straight black marriage that their study reveals (because if they did, they couldn't attack Bush for trying to address that problem and hit him on both fronts).
Something else the Task Force doesn't mention: the marriage amendment received a higher percentage of votes in the House from black Democrats than from Democrats as a whole.
Of the 36 Democrats who voted for the anti-gay amendment, 7 were
members of the Congressional Black Caucus, including Rep. Harold
Ford, D-Tenn., a rising star in the party and one of John Kerry's
earliest backers in Congress. (Of the 158 Democrats voting against
the amendment, 25 were black caucus members, a somewhat smaller
percentage). Which, ahem, seems to suggest some "disproportionate"
homophobia among black Democrats.
Engaging the Enemy.
Jonathan Rauch has an interesting debate with David Blankenhorn,
a pro-fatherhood, pro-family advocate over at the website
Familyscholars.org (Jonathan's latest posting has
links back to earlier installments). The discussion focuses on
federalism and why honest conservatives should support letting
states decide their own marriage laws.
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Edwards, Cheney — and Mary.
I'm not the only one who viscerally felt that John Edwards'
raising the issue of Mary Cheney during the
vice presidential debate had the feel of a sting. Said Edwards
in response to a question about gay marriage (which Cheney had
answered without mentioning his daughter):
let me say first that I think the vice president and his wife love their daughter. I think they love her very much. And you can't have anything but respect for the fact that they're willing to talk about the fact that they have a gay daughter, the fact that they embrace her. It's a wonderful thing.
As blogger Mickey Kaus of Slate's Kausfiles put it, "I got the heebie jeebies when [Edwards] smarmily praised Cheney for having a gay daughter." My interpretation: Hello, socially conservative-leaning independents. Did you know about this.
Addendum: The Wall Street Journal's James
Taranto agrees. From his Wednesday OpinionJournal.com debate
analysis:
At present, a vast majority of Americans oppose same-sex marriage; when it comes up to a statewide vote--whether in a red state or blue--voters typically reject it by majorities ranging from 60% to 80%. This means there are a lot of Democrats who...belong to their party despite its views on social issues.
We don't agree with the gay-rights crowd that "bigotry" is behind all opposition to same-sex marriage, but there's no doubt that some opponents harbor antigay prejudice. Were these the voters John Edwards was addressing when he brought Cheney's daughter into the debate?
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What If Kerry Wins?
First published on October 6, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.
As of early October when this is written there seems little reason to alter my early July prediction that President George W. Bush will win reelection. If Senator John Kerry wins, I will not be unhappy - or no unhappier than if Bush wins - but I will be surprised.
Still, there is no harm in thinking about what a Kerry victory might mean for gays and lesbians. This is not to say there are not other issues than gay ones, even issues that may be more decisive for many gay voters. But other writers have discussed those elsewhere.
There seems little doubt that a Kerry victory, unlike a Bush victory, would tend to facilitate legal and social equality for gays and lesbians. Tend to facilitate; not provide. Both the Kerry campaign and its auxiliaries at the Human Rights Campaign have exaggerated the positive impact of a Kerry victory, unduly raising expectations, but it is true nonetheless, if to a lesser degree.
Kerry announced his opposition to the Federal Marriage Amendment, though he avoided the Senate vote on it. (He might say: "I was against it before I didn't vote against it.") So a Kerry victory would remove one strong source of arm-twisting advocacy when it is proposed in the next Congress. With a Kerry administration, because of any president's ability to buy and trade favors, that is an issue we would have help fighting and the amendment would likely lose by more than last time.
Kerry's support for state constitutional amendments barring gay marriage, as in Massachusetts, is troubling. Presumably he takes that position to balance his opposition to the federal constitutional ban. (He might say: "I favor denying rights at the state level, not the federal level.") But Kerry need not have taken that position.
Even if he did not feel he could safely oppose state amendments, he could have finessed the issue by saying, "I think we should leave that issue up to voters. I trust the voters, don't you?" Gays may believe that the right to marry should not be left up to voters, but Kerry's saying so would have been better than supporting state amendments.
Still, leaving the issue up to states allows gays a chance for eventual victories in a few states and the possibility of state-based gay marriage "demonstration projects." In any case, it will be easier in the future to repeal state constitutional bans than it would be to repeal a U.S. constitutional amendment.
But marriage is not the only gay issue. Despite his opposition to gay marriage, Kerry says he supports civil unions such as exist in Vermont and may be approved in Massachusetts. That suggests that a Kerry administration would support domestic partner benefits for federal employees and might provide mild encouragement to states to pass civil union laws.
Although Kerry has made troubling comments about "unit cohesion," he seems to support repeal of the military's ban on gay personnel. His administration could press Congress to repeal the ban, urge the military to redefine sodomy as forced sex rather than specific acts, signal courts that overturning the ban would not be resisted and publicly defend ending the ban as a wartime necessity.
The administration would support enhanced hate crimes laws and gay-inclusive non-discrimination laws. Even if those laws do not pass, public statements supporting them by a President Kerry and administration officials could promote more favorable public attitudes toward gays. There would be more support for candid and less-moralistic AIDS education. The prudish moralist Attorney General John Ashcroft would be excreted.
Many gay issues from gay marriage to the military's gay ban are already or will be taken up by the federal courts and we would doubtless get a friendlier hearing from federal and Supreme Court judges appointed by Kerry than ones appointed by Bush. Although Kerry appointees would not inevitably be pro-gay nor Bush's inevitably anti-gay, Kerry is less likely than Bush to appoint another Scalia or Rehnquist.
The problems with all rosy scenarios of gay progress under Kerry are twofold. One is, despite Kerry's relatively friendly attitude, his seeming lack of zeal on gay issues. The other, more important, is that both the House and Senate are likely to remain in Republican hands. Even if Democrats regained the Senate, the House is virtually certain to remain Republican, blocking most gay-friendly legislation.
But the chief effect of a Kerry victory would be less a matter of passing legislation than of changing the tone of public discourse about gays and lesbians. A Kerry administration would foster a friendlier political/social climate for us to continue our advocacy efforts. That is no small gain. We can achieve progress in public understanding more easily if our own government is not fighting us.
The other thing a Kerry victory would do is force the Republican party to reassess its Karl Rovian strategy of viewing Christian evangelicals as its electoral base and bending all efforts to increase their voter turnout by promoting religion and moralism and treating gays as a toxic element in the body politic.
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Arnold Is the Future.
California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has angered social conservatives by signing legislation requiring health insurance policies to provide coverage for registered domestic partners, a bill to help law enforcement battle hate crimes (including anti-gay violence), and a measure to legalize the sale of over-the-counter syringes to slow the spread of AIDS. So, he's a liberal, right?
Wrong. The "Governator" also outraged the left (including gay Democrats) by vetoing a string of anti-business measures, including a bill to jack up the state-enforced minimum wage, and "consumer protection" and anti-pollution mandates that would add significantly to the costs of doing business. As the state's economy struggles under what's already one of the most onerous regulatory climates in the country, perhaps the world, unions and liberal lobbyists -- and the legislators they fund -- think driving small businesses out of business (and bigger businesses out of the state) is dandy as candy.
Arnold is so appealing because he's willing to stand up to the professional activists of the left, while standing firm on issues of legal equality.
There's one proposed constitutional amendment I'd happily
support: allowing foreign-born U.S. citizens to run for President.
This constitutional prohibition - a legacy of Alexander Hamilton's
political opponents! - is itself an affront to legal equality that
should be done away with. Here's hoping.
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Sharpton Declines.
Racial demagogue and slander-monger Al Sharpton, scheduled to
give the evening's keynote address at the Human Rights Campaign's
annual National Dinner in Washington, DC, has pulled out of the
event, citing a scheduling conflict (apparently, he's got a gig as
an analyst for the Oct. 8 presidential debate). "We're disappointed
that he can't make it, but of course we understand," HRC
spokesperson Steven Fisher told
the Washington Blade. Perhaps there's still time to get Louis
Farrakhan.
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Marriage Amendment Bites the Big One.
The House of Representatives on Thursday solidly
defeated the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment (now,
apparently, titled the Marriage Protection Amendment). The final
tally came in 63 votes short of the two-thirds majority necessary
to alter the Constitution.
As for party discipline, 27 Republicans joined the opposition to
the amendment, while 36 Democrats voted in favor of the marriage
ban.
Scheduling the vote on the eve of the first presidential debate
seems to ensure that it receives limited media coverage. But that
doesn't matter: this circus has fulfilled its mission -- shoring up
Bush's support from social conservatives. The federal measure is
now deader than a dodo. But the manifold state constitutional
amendments are alive and kicking. That's where the real damage will
be done.
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Much Progress, Despite Marriage Backlash.
I didn't catch last Sunday's "60 Minutes" interview with Fox News' superstar Bill O'Reilly, but I'm informed that O'Reilly told Mike Wallace he was in favor of civil unions for gays (albeit such unions would be open to "all" who wanted them) and favored gay couples adopting as a "last resort," to keep kids out of the system of orphanages and foster care.
Along with Rush Limbaugh, O'Reilly is an icon of populist conservatism. That he breaks with conservative orthodoxy at all on civil unions and adoption is a sign of progress. If it weren't for the hot-button issue of gay marriage and the intense backlash it has engendered (increasingly our "bridge too far," for now), the scope of gay advancement would be much more apparent.
Evidence of this can be found in last Sunday's Washington Post, which began a series of articles on "Young and Gay in Real America." The first installment, which dominated the front page and continued on two full pages inside, told the story of an openly gay teenager named Michael Shackelford who lives in a small town in Oklahoma and longs for marriage with the right man and a white picket fence. Despite the hardships (being taunted and ostracized, and his more activist friend had his car keyed), Michael's life is vastly better than it would have been just a decade ago. He's out -- not entirely voluntarily. He's dated a number of guys -- in a small Oklahoma town! He hasn't joined the Gay-Straight Alliance at his high school, but it attracts about a dozen gay members. He goes to a gay youth group and a gay dance in Tulsa. He sends a note to a classmate (who, alas, turns out not to be gay). He has no qualms asking an Abercrombie clerk if he's gay. He goes to Barnes & Noble to buy a book on how to be gay.
What this shows is how much progress there has been in a
generation. Rather astounding, and mostly beneath the
radar.
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True Conservatives Say, ‘FMA, No Way!’
Rep. Christopher Cox (R-Calif.), chairman of the House Republican Policy Committee, penned an op-ed that dominated Tuesday's Wall Street Journal editorial page. And guess what, it was titled "The Marriage Amendment Is a Terrible Idea."
Cox is no supporter of same-sex marriage, mind you, and he
blasts as "judicial arrogance" the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial
Court ruling earlier this year ordering the state to recognize gay
marriages, but he then calls the Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA)
an assault on the tradition of federalism:
The Supreme Court has frequently opined that the regulation of domestic relations "has long been regarded as a virtually exclusive province of the states." That would change. Not only same-sex marriage and family law in general, but other areas could move into the federal judicial sphere.... Restraint in the allocation of governmental authority to the national government from the states is fundamental to our Constitution.... [W]hen it is not warranted, neither should we succumb to the temptation to federalize what the states have handled will for centuries.
Cox also notes that, "Like the Balanced Budget Amendment..., the
FMA is more symbol than substance, given the near impossibility of
a two-thirds vote. But unlike a requirement to balance the budget,
the FMA would do more harm than good were it to be enshrined in our
charter." Clearly.
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How to Assess Outing
First used during the AIDS crisis in the late 1980s, outing has been mostly moribund for more than a decade. Now a couple of activists in Washington, D.C., abetted by a few media outlets, have revived it. While outing is justifiable under very narrow circumstances, these recent outings have not met the proper ethical and journalistic standards for doing so.
In recent months, activists Michael Rogers and John Aravosis have claimed that more than 20 members of Congress and congressional staffers are secretly gay. Their claims have been reported in a few gay and alternative newspapers, and have been repeated by Internet bloggers. The goal is to expose the hypocrisy of closeted anti-gay politicians and of closeted staff members who work for anti-gay politicians. This will presumably make closeted gays think twice before supporting anti-gay causes, especially the Federal Marriage Amendment.
Aravosis, himself a former aide to anti-gay Sen. Ted Stevens (R-Alaska), has compared the outing campaign to nuclear war. "Mutual assured destruction worked once," he argues, referring to the superpower confrontation during the Cold War. "Maybe it will again."
In the style of a person convinced the world needs him, Aravosis uses an overwrought metaphor. But it is also unintentionally apt. Destruction is the key, for outing has the potential to destroy lives and families. It has the whiff of cannibalism about it. Uplifting the cause of individual rights, it sacrifices real individuals. Defending a movement that has exalted privacy, it destroys personal privacy. Combating homophobia, it relies on homophobia for its power. On its best days, outing is a nasty business.
Nevertheless, outing is justifiable as an ethical and journalistic matter when two criteria are met.
First, the outed person's homosexuality must be directly relevant to some matter of public policy.
Hypocrisy by an officeholder meets this test, as when a closeted politician opposes gay equality for homophobic reasons. An example would be a legislator who declares marriage must be "defended" from gay couples while he has extramarital homosexual affairs.
It is not enough, however, that a closeted politician opposes a gay-rights proposal if the basis for the opposition is non-homophobic. For example, an officeholder might oppose an employment non-discrimination law on the ground that such laws are counterproductive or too costly for employers. She may be wrong; hypocritical she is not.
The relevance requirement would be met by someone like Sen. Rick Santorum (R-Pennsylvania), who has made clear the homophobic basis for his opposition to gay equality. For the most part, the members of Congress outed by Rogers and Aravosis meet this first standard.
But others, including the congressional staff members outed in some gay newspapers, do not meet the relevance requirement. Rarely would a staffer's sexual orientation be directly relevant to a public policy debate. Unlike officeholders, staffers do not vote on public policy. They frequently have no influence on what position their boss takes on gay issues. Many work on matters, like environmental policy, that have nothing to do with gay issues.
The main purpose in outing such people is retributive; it is punishment for aiding the enemy, however indirectly. That is an impulse I share, but it is not a matter of public concern.
Even as a device for helping the gay cause, outing congressional staffers is dubious since they can be useful sources of information about anti-gay legislative strategy only if they remain closeted. It's true that outing might deter a few people from working for anti-gay officeholders. But that's almost useless since there's no shortage of eager applicants to take such jobs.
Second, there must be credible evidence made available to the public that establishes the person is probably homosexual.
We must demand that this burden of proof be met because the cost of error can be very high. Outed individuals may lose their jobs, get cut off from their parents and friends, and lose their families - even if they're not really gay. We must also demand credible proof because, frankly, hearsay about celebrity homosexuality is as common as sand on a beach. Is there a movie star, ball player, or politician who hasn't been rumored to dilly-dally?
Few of the recent outings claimed by Rogers and Aravosis, and reported by some gay newspapers, meet this second requirement. If there is an adequate basis for believing that these outed politicians or staffers are gay, the public has often not been given that information.
In one case, a congressman was outed on the basis of an audiotape provided by an anonymous source who claimed the recorded voice was that of the congressman soliciting gay sex. There was no way to verify the information and no way to judge its credibility. That the congressman subsequently dropped his re-election bid lent some credence to the story, but only after the fact.
In another case, the Washington Blade reported in its July 23, 2004, issue that a named person working for the Republican Party had been "outed by local activists." That was it. While the article detailed the person's ties to anti-gay officeholders, it provided no basis for believing the person is gay other than the unsubstantiated claims of Aravosis and Rogers themselves. That isn't journalism; it's gossip.
The desire to punish the wartime traitor, to make an example of him, is understandable. But we must first be convinced that there really has been treason and that punishment will accomplish more than simply inflicting pain.