If Log Cabin Republicans are the moral equivalent of Jewish
Nazis, what does that make the Stonewall Democrats?
For years, gay Republicans have taken it on the chin from their
homo brethren for allegedly contributing to their own oppression,
for too easily accepting crumbs from the GOP table, and for failing
to get the hint that they're not even welcome in the kitchen.
And ever since President Bush threw his weight behind amending
the Constitution to ban gay marriage, the knives have been out and
sharpened for any and all gays who ever dared to affiliate with the
GOP.
The sad irony is that all this vicious criticism is undeserved.
When it comes to political courage, the Log Cabin track record this
election season easily outstrips that of its Democratic
counterparts, and actually outperforms the allegedly non-partisan
gay rights groups.
From the day the president announced his support for an
amendment, Log Cabin's leaders have thrown almost all their energy
into thwarting the leader of their own party and even working
against his re-election.
Under the direction of Patrick Guerriero, a former Massachusetts
legislator, Log Cabin launched a national ad campaign against the
amendment effort, protested outside the Republican convention, and
accepted dozens of invitations to appear on national television
criticizing the president and the GOP leadership in Congress.
Guerriero penned a
column that argued against Bush's re-election, and then Log
Cabin broadened the battlefield, announcing it would file suit
challenging the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" restrictions on gays in the
military.
If you shrug all that off as exactly what a gay rights group
ought to be doing, then your inclination is right even if your
conclusion isn't.
In fact, Log Cabin is the only national gay rights group in this
critical election year that has consistently
taken issue with its own friends and allies in defense of our
civil rights.
It's almost unfair to compare Log Cabin with the Stonewall
Democrats, its supposed partisan counterpart. Judging by their
respective behavior, they're not even in the same category.
Log Cabin has proven its mettle this year as a gay rights group
that lobbies the Republican Party. The Stonewall Democrats, on the
other hand, have acted more like a Democratic group that lobbies
(and recruits) gays.
When John Kerry came out in support of an amendment to the
Massachusetts Constitution that would overturn marriage equality in
the one state where it exists, the Stonewall Dems were stone cold
silent.
When 20 percent of the Democrats in the U.S. House voted in
favor of the federal marriage amendment, the Stonewall Dems were
stone cold silent.
Instead, the Stonewall Democrats criticized
House Republicans - a justified slam but hardly courageous.
What about the 36 Democrats who voted against our most basic
freedoms?
Where was the arm-twisting from the Democratic leadership? Dick
Gephardt, the top House Democrat, has a gay daughter, but it was
his counterpart, Tom DeLay of Texas, who was out front on marriage
equality, albeit on the other side.
There's no excuse for Stonewall's silence. The party's platform
is committed to gay rights and opposes the marriage amendment. Gays
are a critically important fund-raising and voting bloc.
Stonewall ought to call non-supportive Democrats to task for
failing to support their platform and betraying an important
constituency.
The supposedly non-partisan national gay groups are no better.
Like Log Cabin, the Human Rights Campaign has a former
Massachusetts legislator as its new leader. But Cheryl Jacques
still acts like she takes her orders from the Democratic whip.
For example, when Dick Cheney ducked a question during the vice
presidential debate about rising HIV infection rates among
African-American women, Jacques issued
a statement calling his ignorance on the topic "inexcusable."
And it was.
But what Jacques failed to see, through her partisan-colored
glasses, was that John Edwards was every bit as neglectful in his
response, spending his entire answer talking about unrelated issues
and health care in general.
It used to be that the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force could
at least be counted on to take both parties to task on our behalf.
Matt Foreman, its leader, vowed to the New York Times that gay
groups would never back a candidate who supports writing anti-gay
discrimination into a constitution state or federal.
When John Kerry did exactly that, the Task Force to its credit
did release a statement taking him to task. But less than four
months later, the Task Force was lauding
the Democratic nominees as "the most gay-supportive
presidential ticket in American history."
The gay rights movement is easily the most compliant political
lobby in this country. Our opponents readily criticize their own
allies when they cross their interests or don't push their
agenda.
Gay groups smile and say, "We understand. Of course supporting
our rights is too unpopular to justify politically."
Perhaps if John Kerry is elected, and like Bill Clinton betrays
his pro-gay rhetoric, these groups will understand the lesson that
Log Cabin has learned in the last four years.
There will always be an excuse why now is not the time to
fulfill our promise of equality. It will never be politically
expedient.
And politicians will never do what they have not been lobbied to
do.