Canadian Marriage Isn’t Done Deal.

Canada could become the third country (after Belgium and the Netherlands) to fully legalize same-sex marriage, but a potentially bruising fight in parliament awaits, reports the Toronto Star. While the Canadian Supreme Court has ruled that the government can legalize same-sex marriage, this actually disappointed many activists who hoped the court would rule that the government must grant recognition to same-sex couples. Of course, as we've seen elsewhere, using court decrees to override the democratic process doesn't always work out so well in the end.

Belgium and the Netherlands both began with domestic partnerships/civil unions that were eventually merged into full marriage, so it will be instructive to see how the Canadian strategy plays out. I hope gay marriage is embraced by the people and their elected representatives. But I wouldn't expect U.S. gay marriage opponents to weaken their resolve either way.

Meanwhile, New Zealand goes the civil unions route.

A New Course?

In a welcome development, the Human Rights Campaign is reevaluating its failed strategies. Reports the New York Times, HRC's board has:

concluded that the group must bow to political reality and moderate its message and its goals. One official said the group would consider supporting President Bush's efforts to privatize Social Security partly in exchange for the right of gay partners to receive benefits under the program.

A sensible idea, but of course one that immediate elicited howls of protest from gay lefties.

If the Log Cabin Republican's leadership had been savvy, they would long ago have embraced social security personal accounts as a GOP-initiative that was good for gays, and perhaps even made some strategic alliances within the party. But, of course, they didn't. Gay Patriot West has more to say about LCR's identity crisis.

Lesson Not Learned.

Lambda Legal has emailed a press release ballyhooing that a New Jersey appeals court has heard its case "seeking marriage equality for same-sex couples." Says the release:

the judges asked us whether we're seeking to change the definition of marriage in New Jersey. We explained that there will be changes ahead and that judges haven't shied away from change when it brings the state in line with its constitution. We've seen similar change in Massachusetts recently, when same-sex couples began legally marrying there. The sky didn't fall and the world didn't crumble, and that's what we'll be seeing in New Jersey, as well.

Which brings to mind the question, What planet do these people live on? If 13 states passing state constitutional gay-marriage bans this year in the wake of Massachusetts wasn't enough (11 did so on Nov. 2), it's likely that a decision by a liberal NJ court ordering same-sex marriage could be just the extra impetus that backers of the Federal Marriage Amendment need to write their ban into the U.S. Constitution. Will Lambda be celebrating then?

Arguing for the rights of marriage through civil unions or domestic partnerships as an first step - and one that actually has the electorate's support - would have been the saner course.

Lesson Learned?

The Devil's Advocacy blog notes the Human Rights Campaign's plummeting clout on Capitol Hill under it's "only Democrats matter" strategy of late:

While HRC supporters characterize their shift to the left in the past years as a natural shift in strategy, the numbers tell a different story. In the 107th Congress, the HRC asked Members of Congress to sign a pledge that they wouldn't discriminate in their offices on the basis of sexual orientation; 68 out of 100 Senators signed.

In the 108th, however, the HRC broadened their pledge to include gender identity ... [T]he concept of a protected class for transgendered folks isn't as bipartisanly supported; this year, the HRC lost 46 of its previous pledges.

Many say this is progress, but in a town where politics is perception, the perception of progress is slipping.

It certinaly is.

Without Rose-Colored Glasses.

Abner Mason, an openly gay Bush appointee, argues in the Advocate that Bush's support for an anti-gay marriage consitutional amendment shouldn't overshadow his:

preelection statement on ABC's Good Morning America that he supports civil unions for gay couples....While making clear his opposition to same-sex marriage, Bush said he disagreed with the Republican platform, which opposes civil unions. ...

At a minimum, the president merited praise for his public recognition that gay relationships deserve respect and support. There was none. His announcement was met with deafening silence and, from some gay leaders, sharp criticism that condemned Bush's decision to back civil unions....

I guess it could be said that gay activists (including, in this case, the Log Cabin Republicans) never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity. (Hat tip: Gay Patriot).

Also in the Advocate, Dr. Gary R. Cohan observes of gay activists:

These ambitious, well-intentioned, but dangerously naive baby boomer leaders grew up in a fast-food culture of instant gratification. They acted on impulse -- "Let's go for the gold!" -- and in the process have torpedoed 20 years of forward movement in a single election. We need to express our disappointment with some serious introspection, more judicious philanthropy, and a major reorganization of our civil rights strategy.

And, he adds:

We presumed we could skip the usual prerequisites of winning the "hearts and minds" of the American public. So swept-up in the moment were we that we ignored an important fact: Even decent-minded straight people were having difficulty grasping the concept of "gay marriage."

This is the type of reevaluation that we most need right now.

Be Careful What You Wish For

First published December 8, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

Two current court cases go far to illuminate the old adage "Be Careful What You Wish For" because, no matter whether it's welcomed by liberals or conservatives, a decision they won yesterday may come back to haunt them today or tomorrow.

A few years ago in a case called Boy Scouts of America v. Dale, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the right of the Boy Scouts to expel Scout leader James Dale because his homosexuality conflicted with what the Boy Scouts suddenly discovered was their fundamental value of heterosexuality. The court said that organizations may legitimately exclude people whose conduct or beliefs conflicts with the organization's values and its public message.

Many conservatives welcomed the decision because it enabled a popular organization to uphold its values by excluding people (gays and atheists) whom conservatives, too, regarded as immoral.

But then on Nov. 29, the Third Circuit Court of Appeals in Philadelphia ruled in the case of FAIR v. Rumsfeld that the so-called "Solomon amendment," which prohibited colleges and universities from receiving federal funds if they bar military recruiters from campus because of the military's anti-gay policy, violated the schools' First Amendment right to exclude groups they considered discriminatory.

The precedent the court cited was Dale: "Just as the Boy Scouts believed that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the Scout Oath, the law schools (that brought the case) believe that employment discrimination (as by the military) is inconsistent with their commitment to fairness and justice," the court said.

In short, law schools have a right, in the first place, not to associate with discriminatory organizations like the military. But in addition, the court ruled, pressuring the schools to allow such discriminatory groups on campus interferes with the schools' ability to convey the message that discrimination is wrong.

So of course conservatives who had been gleeful about the Dale decision are upset that the precedent Dale established was being used to give other organizations the same freedom from government interference that they wanted for the Boy Scouts.

Then on the same day, the U.S. Supreme Court heard oral argument in the case of Raich v. Ashcroft, involving the right of patients to use marijuana for medical purposes when recommended by their doctor and state law allows the practice. Medical marijuana is not an inherently gay issue, but enough gay men with AIDS find marijuana helpful that it is of gay interest, at least.

This particular case was brought by two women who used medical marijuana, one who grew her own, the other who received it free from friends.

The Ninth Circuit Court in San Francisco held that since the women's activity was not commercial nor did it cross state lines, it was not covered by Congress's constitutional authority to regulate interstate commerce, so federal efforts to prohibit the women's activity were unconstitutional. That decision was welcomed by liberals, who are generally sympathetic with medical marijuana, if not full drug decriminalization.

The women's case was argued before the Supreme Court by distinguished libertarian law professor Randy Barnett of Boston University. Using the same argument that was successful with the Ninth Circuit, Barnett told the court that the prohibition of "activity that is non-economic and wholly intrastate" was not essential to the federal government's regulatory functions.

But according to the New York Times, the justices seemed doubtful about that argument and seemed to accept the federal government's claim that the case was similar to a notorious 1942 case called Wickard v Filburn, which held that under the Commerce Clause the government could regulate the amount of wheat a farmer grew for his own use on his own farm.

As the argument went, all wheat production took place within a "national market" and if the farmer had not grown his own wheat, he would have to buy it from someone else, which would be commercial activity. So by not engaging in commerce, the farmer was engaging in commerce. Judicial sophistry has seldom risen to such heights. George Orwell, call your office.

To be sure, we could say that the Court was gripped by wartime hysteria. And we can recall that the Supreme Court had been thoroughly cowed by President Roosevelt's court packing threats of a few years before. But the Wickard decision was gleefully welcomed by liberals as confirming the right of the New Deal to centrally direct people's economic activity.

But sadly for medical marijuana users, Wickard is still the law. Barnett was probably itching to tell the Court frankly that it should once and for all overrule Wickard, as indeed it should. But Barnett's obligation as the women's advocate was to make the most palatable case to the current mix of justices and that required trying to evade Wickard by distinguishing his case from that one.

If, as likely, the women lose, liberals who once celebrated a ruling that increased government control of people's lives may well rue a decision now used to prohibit activities they sympathize with.

The Supreme Court should affirm both appeals court decisions. Unfortunately, the present Court will probably find ways to reverse both.

Gay Representations: Only So Far

I finally caught up with "Alexander," in which director Oliver Stone makes amends, somewhat, for his virulently homophobic conspiracy-theory flick "JFK." Alexander the Great is portrayed as bisexual, but clearly he feels real intimacy is what men physically share at night in bed, while women are for making heirs.

Still, the love between men is something that's talked of, save for one kiss and a few hugs, while the one heterosexual bedroom scene is quite explicit. A cop out? Well, in the Washington, D.C. theater where I saw the film with a mixed-race audience, the mere discussion of manly love elicited derisive cat-calls. So I guess Stone and his producers know their audience and how much (or rather, how little) of same-sex physicality they're willing to watch in a big-budget epic.

At the same time, nonsexual gays keeping popping up all over the small screen. The latest: On TBS's new reality show, "The Real Gilligan's Island" (in which two teams of castaways compete "Survivor" style), one of the "professors" turned out to be openly gay. Of course, didn't the original sitcom professor always seem gay (having shown little interest in Ginger or Mary Ann)?

Just as Americans, save for the hard religious-right flank, seem OK with domestic partnerships but not marriage, they seem OK with gays in the media but only if they're de-sexed ("Will & Grace" being the ultimate example). Over time, the comfort level with both gay marriage and physical displays of affection should increase, but it won't happen soon.

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Letting States Decide.

It's been a busy week, so I've ignored a lot of news. But belatedly, last Monday's Supreme Court decision not to review a challenge to Massachusetts' gay marriage ruling is of some significance.

I have come to believe the original, split decision by the Bay State's highest court requiring state recognition of same-sex marriages was an invitation to backlash with terrible consequences. Example: this week, Michigan was forced to end domestic partner benefits for state workers because of their state's anti-gay marriage constitutional amendment, passed Nov. 2. Even so, it would be supremely wrong for the U.S. Supreme Court to have invalidated Massachusetts' decree. Ultimately, this is a state matter and must be left to the interplay of state legislatures, governors and courts. That's why the Bush administration is wrong to try to federalize marriage laws with an anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment that would bar any state from recognizing same-sex unions.

What was done wrong in Massachusetts cannot be easily undone without making matters even worse, but there appears little chance that any other state would now follow Massachusetts' lead and decree the "M" word for gay couples. As my colleague Dale Carpenter points out in his new column, the California model is far more likely as an evolutionary scenario, and one that's unlikely to galvanize the forces of reaction in a way that sets back the clock on gay equality for years to come.

Eight Ways to Move Ahead

First published, in slightly different form, December 2, 2004, in Bay Windows.

Pull yourself together, we have work to do. Despite the recent upheaval at the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) and the drubbing that same-sex marriage received at the polls in November, we need to prepare for new battles. Here are some suggestions for charting the course ahead.

Protect our hard-won gains.
Republican Senator Rick Santorum of Pennsylvania and others want to undo four decades of court victories for privacy rights, from contraception to abortion to sodomy. The public policy question is not how one views those things morally, but whether the state should be able to intervene. While our allies in the Senate are defending our privacy rights against theocratic judicial nominees, talk to your family and friends, write a letter to the editor - and remember our allies the next time they run.

Defend the marriage equality beachhead in Massachusetts.
The U.S. Supreme Court's decision not to hear a challenge to the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Council's Goodridge ruling, which required state recognition of gay marriages, is good news. The Bay State's experiment can be a powerful example, as thousands of same-sex couples embrace a legal commitment in a state with the lowest divorce rate in the country. So save some year-end money for MassEquality.

Take the long view.
The passage of all 11 anti-gay state amendments is not a sign that we should give up, but a reminder that our fight for equal marriage rights will take a long time. Other priorities will have their adherents, such as anti-discrimination and hate crime laws, which is fine. The fight against military discrimination that weakens our national defense cannot be set aside. But the fight for gay families is fundamental, and must continue.

The focus in each state will differ depending on the situation. In some states, civil unions are more feasible. In others, legal challenges to the denial of couples' contracting rights are needed. In deepest red state territory, basic organizing is still needed. Work your support networks. Statewide groups can consult one another via the Equality Federation. Litigants can consult Lambda Legal and the ACLU.

Discourage "Lone Ranger" lawsuits.
An ill-advised case in Arizona, in which plaintiffs (a Phoenix gay couple denied a marriage license) refused to take advice from gay legal experts, is a cautionary tale for other couples whose hearts are ruling their heads. It makes little sense to vent your outrage at injustice through a lawyer if the results are likely to be even worse. (In the Phoenix case, the Arizona Court of Appeals found that there is no right to marry a same-sex partner under the state or federal constitution.)

Every case is not a good test case, and bad rulings only erect new barriers. Urge your friends to take a strategic view and to cooperate rather than charging off on their own. One useful thing we can all do is tell our stories.

Learn to criticize without adopting a scornful tone.
Insults do not substitute for evidence and argument, whether we are admonishing our allies or trying to persuade new voters. It is hard to remain civil when our passions are involved, but injecting poison into our discussions is a recipe for defeat. We can only win new supporters by reaching out to people who do not already agree with us. This requires addressing their perspectives and connecting with them as human beings.

Stop the partisan double standards.
After the election, Human Rights Campaign Executive Director Cheryl Jacques renewed her snub of moderate Republican Senator Arlen Specter for his procedural vote to send the Federal Marriage Amendment to the Senate floor, even though he publicly stated that he would vote against it on the substance. Yet HRC did not similarly reject Democrat John Kerry, who supports putting discrimination into the Massachusetts and other state constitutions. This blatant double standard will not make HRC's job any easier in the 109th Congress. With Jacques out, HRC can improve its credibility as a fair-minded advocate by choosing a more savvy and less partisan new leader.

Drop the cheap slams against black-tie dinners.
We will need a lot more fundraisers before we are done. If you know a better way to raise money, do it. If you know a more deserving organization, support it.

Stand up for your own values.
Given the harm that the radical right is doing in the name of faith, flag, and family, it is inexcusable that we have let them claim the rhetorical high ground on these issues for so long. If you want to see how a winning Democrat talks about these issues, read Barack Obama. But even he needs to get some letters from gay families.

Setbacks notwithstanding, the tide of history remains with us, because our cause is just and our country is America. But we must keep our oars in the water.