All Brokeback, All the Time…

I'm not going to keep posting what are likely to be gazillions of interesting pieces on the film, but here are two before I sign off.

Gene Shalit's pan calls the film "wildly overpraised" and labels Jack Twist, played by Jake Gyllenhaal, a "sexual predator." What's the Today show got against this movie, anyway? Actually, Shalit has written supportively about his gay son, but clearly he still has issues with what gay men do under the covers. (Here's a link to view his review.)

On a more positive note, New York Daily News columnist Jack Mathews writes:

Like "Curb Your Enthusiasm's" Larry David, who voiced his tongue-in-cheek objections to "Brokeback" in a recent New York Times op-ed piece, I felt that "cowboys would have to lasso me, drag me into the theater and tie me to the seat" to make me watch a pair of range riders steam up a pup tent.

But I've now seen the movie three times (twice with my wife, if you have to know) and it is one of the most devastating Hollywood love stories of all time.

No word on whether Larry David was ever lassoed into the theater, though.
-- Stephen Miller

Roundup: Still More ‘Brokeback’ Yet Again…

Dale Carpenter's newly posted critique of Brokeback Mountain has provoked spirited debate in gay papers where it's been publshed. My own supportive views toward the film have already been stated, but here are some other interesting takes.

Guest blogger Ross Douthat of the Atlantic, on Andrew Sullivan's site, has positive things to say but also argues that:

The straight men are all either strutting oafs, bitter bigots like Jack Twist's father, or "nice-guy" weaklings like Alma's second husband, whose well-meaning effeminacy contrasts sharply with Ennis's rugged manliness. Jack and Ennis are the only "real men" in the story, and their love is associated with the high country and the vision of paradise it offers-a world of natural beauty and perfect freedom, of wrestling matches and campfires and naked plunges into crystal rivers-and a world with no girls allowed. Civilization is women and babies and debts and fathers-in-law and bosses; freedom is the natural world, and the erotic company of men. It's an old idea of the pre-Christian world come round again-not that gay men are real men too; but that real men are gay.

Blogger Tim Hulsey is critical of some of the critics, observing that:

David Letterman in particular has conducted a one-man crusade against the "gay cowboy movie," and Nathan Lane famously performed a minstrel-show Broadway parody of Brokeback on the Today show.

That the openly gay Lane would attack the film is less surprising than it would seem: I suspect that gay men who have adopted an ironic "camp" sensibility as a personal defense mechanism will prove especially resistant to the film. When I saw Brokeback in D.C.'s Dupont Circle, one young gay man heckled the screen, Rocky Horror style. He sounded like the sort of fellow who was beaten throughout high school, and who learned that a withering wit can be the best defense of the powerless. In a strange way, he seemed to belong on the screen with Jack and Ennis.

And finally, this piece by a gay escort is surprisingly sad, as he predicts a rise in his clientele:

Students graduate, soldiers return to citizenry, and so the one-shot lovers must say goodbye. And like Jack and Ennis, many of my clients went on to pass year after wistful year in a life nature never truly intended. Until something happened. ...

Ostensible business trips to the coast will be scheduled, where men like me lie in wait. After the second or third time a man trucks back home to International Falls from the multiplex, and then maybe the gay bar, in Duluth, the family computer's potential to track down his bible camp paramour may prove too tempting. Men will take risks after seeing this film.

Which may, I suppose, lead back to Carpenter's concerns about hurt wives and abandoned kids (or alternatively, liberated souls now free to love). But whatever your response, a film that provokes reactions this strong is a force to be reckoned with, I reckon.

Twisted Lives, Bad Law.

Yet another religious conservative exposed. Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive! Yes, Pastor Latham is a sad hypocrite (or at least a lost soul mired in fear and self-loathing ). But why should anyone be subjected to a night in jail (prior to release on bail) and face up to a year in prison just for asking another male to join him in his hotel room for sex?

I guess trying to engage a prostitute is the alleged "crime," but I don't think it's routine for males soliciting sex from females (even if they turn out to be plainclothed cops) to face such draconian treatment. Welcome to supposedly post-sodomy law America!

And yes, I realize that Pastor Latham no doubt supported anti-prostitution and anti-sodomy laws, too.

More: The arrest occurred outside a gay resort, as noted in more detail in the posted comments.

Update and clarification: From the AP account, it seems the matter isn't about allegedly soliciting a male prostitute, just soliciting oral sex to occur in a hotel room. Welcome to Oklahoma, where apparently the Supreme Court's Lawrence ruling (voiding sodomy laws) doesn't hold.

Pastor Latham, a member of the Southern Baptist Convention's executive committee, claims the police are lying about the sex request. If that defense doesn't seem plausible, will his lawyers rely on Lawrence? Stay tuned.

Gay Marriage, Less Welfare.

A report on how same-sex marriage would be economically advantageous to New Hampshire, by the Institute for Gay & Lesbian Strategic Studies, finds that "savings from means-tested public benefit programs" would come to $400,000 annually. The report doesn't go into details, but it seems the explanation is that with marriage (as opposed to shacking up), household incomes are viewed by the state as combined, making it more difficult to qualify for public assistance benefits.

Part of the value of marriage is that it legalizes a relationship of mutual support, so those who might individually fall on hard times have a partner they can lean on. And that's a good thing. As long as couples actually do get married, which requires a hefty dose of internalized social expectation in addition to legal equality.

More: Readers provide context regarding the New Hampshire marriage fight, in our posted comments.

The Vatican Stumbles Again

First published in the Chicago Free Press on January 4, 2006.

The Vatican's new Instruction barring gay men from training for the priesthood is a farrago of unjustified assumptions, begged questions, circular reasoning, illogical arguments, stolen concepts and confused metaphors with no basis in either Catholic doctrine or current psychology.

The nerve of the new Instruction in paragraph 4 reads:

The candidate to the ordained ministry, therefore, must reach affective maturity. Such maturity will allow him to relate correctly to both men and women...

"Affective maturity" is not defined but since "affective" refers to feelings or emotions the term refers to emotional maturity.

Then paragraphs 8 and 9 state that:

those who ... present deep-seated homosexual tendencies ... find themselves in a situation that gravely hinders them from relating correctly to men and women.

So although the Instruction evades saying so explicitly, gay men are barred from priesthood training because they are thought to have immature sexual feelings.

Nothing, absolutely nothing, in Catholic tradition or doctrine supports the idea that homosexual desire constitutes any sort of immaturity. Catholic doctrine and tradition had always held that homosexual behavior was sinful but it never argued that that sin was the result of a psychosexual immaturity.

So where does this idea come from? The answer is: Freud.

Starting with an apriori assumption of a natural "procreative instinct," Freud developed a fanciful, Rube Goldberg-like theory of psychosexual development in which a male infant passes through narcissistic oral, anal and phallic stages, reaches an Oedipal desire to have sex with his mother, then fearing castration by his jealous father transfers his love to another woman, thus progressing to a glorious heterosexuality.

Men are homosexual, Freud thought, when this progression is inhibited-Freud never explains how-and the child is fixated at some preliminary stage of development: blocked at a narcissistic stage, or fails to negotiate the Oedipal phase, or fears castration by a woman's vagina, etc.

However bizarre all this seems, the result was that homosexuals were viewed as psychosexually immature. In his 1933 New Introductory Lectures on Psychoanalysis, Freud wrote that homosexuals "have failed to accomplish some part of normal sexual development." And in his 1935 Letter to an American Mother Freud wrote, "We consider (homosexuality) to be a variation of the sexual function produced by a certain arrest of sexual development."

Commentaries on the Instructions distributed by the Catholic news agency Zenit spell out the rationale in even more obviously Freudian terms.

If the Catholic Church now adopts Freud's early 20th-century view that homosexual desire constitutes psychosexual immaturity, then what argument could it have offered before 1900 for barring gay men from the priesthood? The answer is: none whatsoever. So either forbidding (celibate) gay men to enter seminaries is a novel doctrine or else the church has always officially forbidden (celibate) gay men but never had any rationale for it.

Worse yet for the church, Freudian ideology, particularly with regard to sex, is now entirely discredited, added to the junk heap of pseudo-science along with astrology, phrenology, N-rays, phlogiston, etc. Few psychiatrists and psychoanalysts now take it seriously. And no other theory supports the idea that gays are psychosexually immature. So the church is left without an intellectually respectable basis for the view it has just adopted.

And there are further problems with the Instruction. It claims that gay men cannot "relate correctly to both men and women" and that only heterosexual men can develop "a true sense of spiritual fatherhood toward the Church community."

But where has church teaching ever spelled out why or how priests are supposed to relate to men and women differently? So if a priest with an erotic inclination toward women is able to relate equally to men and women-say, with loving, pastoral concern-despite his erotic desire for one rather than the other, it follows logically that a priest with an erotic inclination toward men should be able to do the same. So the church's argument fails.

And since the requisite "fatherhood" is spiritual, not sexual, there is no reason why gay men cannot fulfill that role. One has only to look around to find numerous gay men successfully performing the non-sexual child-rearing and mentoring tasks of actual fatherhood for their adoptive or foster children. So the church is left without a valid argument for its demand.

The Instruction notes the requirement that a priest "should seek to reflect in himself, as far as possible, the human perfection which shines forth in the incarnate Son of God." But this would exclude gay men only if Jesus' perfection included heterosexuality. But there is not a word of biblical evidence that Jesus had any specific sexual orientation. So the church's argument fails.

Finally, paragraph 11 states explicitly that:

in responding to the call of God, the man (candidate priest) offers himself freely to him in love.

It is hardly frivolous to observe that so long as the Catholic Church conceives of its god as male, a gay man will be more readily able than a heterosexual man to make this affective offering with wholehearted, unconflicted commitment.

Brokeback and Straight Neurosis.

TV's Larry David won't be seeing Brokeback Mountain. He says, in fact,

cowboys would have to lasso me, drag me into the theater and tie me to the seat, and even then I would make every effort to close my eyes and cover my ears.

But rest assured, some of his best friends are gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Meanwhile, in Britain's The Guardian, John Patterson remarks that the American western "has always throbbed with latent homoeroticism." And that Brokeback

wouldn't be in the least controversial...were America not unimaginably neurotic and puritanical about sex, straight or gay, in the first place.

He could call Larry David as his first witness.

More: Stephen Hunter, the Washington Post's movie critic, presents a similar examination in a piece titled Out in the West: Reexamining A Genre Saddled With Subtext."

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Wanted: Civil Discourse

From the Ithaca Journal, here is an excellent op-ed on how we might benefit from overcoming our political insularity. Janis Kelly writes that:

All around me in Ithaca I see fairly bright people talking and listening only to each other, confident of the superiority of their own ideas, openly contemptuous of those who might not agree.... This provincial, almost tribal, insularity deprives us of a certain social richness, as well as of opportunities to hone our political thinking....

Most of America is more sophisticated about political integration. There is a tradition of political generosity, of not shunning or demonizing your neighbors who hold different political views. And most people have lots of neighbors who hold different views. That basic decency has broken down in Washington and in segregationist enclaves like Ithaca.

To say the least!

For those who donated during our end-of-year drive (hint: there's still time), many, many thanks. Onward to 2006!

More: North Dallas Thirty (whose website is always worth a visit) takes on some of this site's antagonists whose consistently uncivil behavior even in response to an item about promoting political civility is distressing if unsurprising. NDT writes:

This whole article is about broadening one's experiences in the hopes of finding common understanding, because that is the basis of civility and good behavior. It is hard to hate someone with whom you share something in common.

This is why gay leftists, which seem to be the bulk of the commentors on this board, work so hard to demonize people and shunt people away from such experiences. For even daring to say one thing positive about [black conservative] LaShawn Barber, [a commenter] has been getting pounded and getting called every name in the book. Stephen is getting beaten up for even daring to link to [this article].

Both the knee-jerk gay left and the anti-gay right are victims of a rigid ideology, and both become visibly upset whenever their ideas are challanged. But the persistent comments attacking this site-by some who post repeatedly during each and every day-is the perfect testimony of why it is so important that we exist.

Death of Socarides.

Dr. Charles Socarides, a psychiatrist who gained notoriety for his claimed ability to "cure" homosexuals of their "disorder," has passed into the great beyond. The New York Times obit mentions he was married four times. Since Socarides was often cited by anti-gay "defense of marriage" types, one can only ponder which of his four marriages was being defended.

The most interesting thing about him, however, was that his openly gay son was Bill Clinton's liaison to the lesbian and gay community. Can you say "dysfunctional family"?

Over at Positive Liberty, Jon Rowe takes Socarides death as an opportunity to share some thoughts on the misuse of the mental health profession to enforce social norms.

The Fall of PFLAG.

Among the saddest developments for the gay community this past year may be the transformation of the group Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) from an organization that sought to create dialogue among straights and gays into a knee-jerk, Daily Kos-ite arm of the Democratic National Committee. I can remember several years back speaking to PFLAG's then executive director at a Republican Unity Coalition event, where she was the only representative who chose to attend from any of the supposedly nonpartisan gay lobbies. But that was then. Now, under current executive leader Jody Huckaby, PFLAG deviates no more from politically correct lesbigay leftism.

The language the group deployed to attack the Supreme Court nomination of John Roberts tells all. PFLAG's Huckaby wailed that "We cannot sit back and allow a man with a demonstrated record of hostility towards privacy and minority rights to make decisions on our nation's highest court that will affect this nation for generations to come." Say what? Could that be the John Roberts who did pro bono work on behalf of the gay attorneys arguing Romer vs. Evans, the landmark Supreme Court case which successfully struck down a 1992 Colorado amendment prohibiting localities from enforcing gay-inclusive nondiscrimination protections?

Now PFLAG is working to derail the nomination of Sam Alito, and its press statement disingenuously cites a case in which Alito ruled that a public school non-harassment policy went too far toward curtailing free speech, while ignoring another Alito ruling in favor of a harassed gay student (as I recounted most recently here).

The loss of PFLAG to the partisan left leaves us with no significant national organization that seeks to forge a broad consensus for gay equality (aside, arguably, from the religious groups like Soulforce, God bless 'em). And that's why I think it's the saddest gay development of the year.

More: Reader "Another Jim" comments:

The original mission was outreach to angry, scared, and misinformed parents who've learned that their child is gay. It was basically a self-help group, parents helping parents.

Something began to change when it went from "Parents and Families" to "Parents, Families and Friends." These "friends" seem to be standard issue gay activists, and PFLAG is now fast becoming a clone of NGLTF.

What does this mean for parents, many of whom no doubt are Republicans, who may turn to PFLAG seeking information and support? When they catch drift of the intense anti-GOP politicking, they're not likely to be receptive to the message of openess and acceptance that, once upon a time, was PFLAG's reason for being. And that's a shame.

Yes, it is.

Another Hit from a Liberal.

Iraq-war opposing, Republican-despising, political cartoonist Jeff Danziger (distributed by the New York Times Syndicate) compares the love between two cowboys to a sexual relationship between a cowboy and his horse.

Danziger last year portrayed Condoleezza Rice as Prissy in Gone with the Wind, to the delight of the administration's critics (that cartoon is no longer online, but here's a description). What's a little racism-or homophobia-when you're a LIBERAL?

By the way, to date I haven't seen any of the gay watchdogs criticize Maureen Dowd's hateful Brokeback column. As noted previously, liberal Bush-hater MoDo offered that "'High Plains Drifter' now sounds like a guy who might get arrested in a bus station bathroom." Remember, kiddies, no enemies on the left.

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