The Lion’s Den.

NBC has canceled "The Book of Daniel," about a troubled Episcopalian priest and his family, but not because it had a gay character (one of Daniel's sons). Religious conservatives were successful in mau-mauing advertisers to flee because of far more controversial plot elements. Foremost among these: Daniel's conversations with Jesus, who gently encourages him to do the right thing ("now would be a good time to stop," he tells Daniel, who is addicted to prescription pills). This wasn't the judgmental storm trooper that fundamentalists like to envision. And so one of TV's rare attempts to deal with spirituality in everyday life, as lived by imperfect men and woman, bites the dust.

More: Some interesting comments, many arguing the show was poorly conceived and quite rightly pulled-and that social conservative activists had little to do with its demise.

Bush and Brokeback.

More evidence that Brokeback is becoming a cultural touchstone. While answering questions at Kansas State University, President Bush had this exchange (from the White House transcript):

Q: You're a rancher. A lot of us here in Kansas are ranchers. I was just wanting to get your opinion on "Brokeback Mountain," if you've seen it yet? (Laughter.) You would love it. You should check it out.

THE PRESIDENT: I haven't seen it. I'll be glad to talk about ranching, but I haven't seen the movie. (Laughter.) I've heard about it. I hope you go -- you know -- (laughter) -- I hope you go back to the ranch and the farm is what I'm about to say. I haven't seen it. (Laughter and applause.)

While being ever-mindful of his conservative base, it sounds like Bush was still having some fun with the question. But to read the AP account picked up by 365.gay.com as well as most of the mainstream media, you'd think he went into shock.

More: Ok, the video coverage is a bit more revealing. But this is George W.-when answering questions on his own Social Security reform, he hems and haws and looks awkward. Sorry, but I'm not offended by his response here.

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Through the Gender Glass.

Columnist Norah Vincent, who has contributed some writings to IGF in the past, has a new book that got big play Friday night on 20/20 and a positive New York Times review. In Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey Into Manhood and Back Again, Vincent (who is an out lesbian) spent several months transformed into "Ned," to discover what men are really like. She concludes men aren't so bad, but hurt from a lack of intimacy. From the Times review (by Vanity Fair contributing editor David Kamp):

introducing herself to some guys in a bowling league, she's touched by the ritual howyadoin', man-to-man handshake, which, "from the outside . . . had always seemed overdone to me," but from the inside strikes her as remarkably warm and inclusive, worlds away from the "fake and cold" air kisses and limp handshakes exchanged by women.

...Norah-as-Ned commits to [the bowling league] for eight months, becoming the weak link on a four-man team of working-class white men.... The resultant chapter is as tender and unpatronizing a portrait of America's "white trash" underclass as I've ever read. "They took people at face value," writes Vincent of Ned's teammates, a plumber, an appliance repairman and a construction worker. "If you did your job or held up your end, and treated them with the passing respect they accorded you, you were all right."

Neither dumb lugs nor proletarian saints, Ned's bowling buddies are wont to make homophobic cracks and pay an occasional visit to a strip club, but they surprise Vincent with their lack of rage and racism, their unflagging efforts to improve Ned's atrocious bowling technique and "the absolute reverence with which they spoke about their wives."

On 20/20, some of the bowlers indicated they had once or twice speculated about whether Ned was gay-though apparently that didn't result in any coldness or hostility that Vincent picked up on, despite any homophobic cracks.

By the way, reviewer Kemp's "white trash" characterization has already gotten heated blogosphere comment: Some feel it shows NYT/Vanity Fair insularity, others (including instapundit) think it was meant as a poke at that very elitism.

Another view: My partner was struck by how basically conservative Vincent's message was-the bowlers were genuinely nice, both to each other and to their wives; women have the power in heterosexual courting; men and women really are different. Vincent says "I found out identity is not something to tamper with"-living as a man eventually sent her into a hospital with depression, because she really is a woman and she had exhausted herself trying to seem like a man.

But over at salon, Andrew O'Hehir dismisses as "bizarre" Vincent's assertion that "male human beings and female human beings [are] as separate as sects"; in other words, that men and women are fundamentally different, in no small part because of the unique power of male sexual desire. Which to me seems a perfectly reasonable observation, and not at all "bizarre" outside the precincts of liberal feminist fantasia.

Good and/or Bad News.

Good news headline: Judge Strikes Down Md. Ban on Gay Marriage. Bad news subheadline: Constitutional Fight Ignites.

If the judiciary route leads to a constitutional amendment banning both gay marriage and civil unions, will activists admit that suing for marriage (rather than working for legislatively approved civil unions, or even full marriage) is counterproductive?

More bad news: Virginia's Democratic governor, Tim Kaine, says he opposes the scope of the constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, civil unions, and anything resembling partnership rights, which is working its way quickly through the Virginia legislature. But he says he'll nonetheless sign the measure as written, putting it to a referendum.

Virginia's gay lobbies worked hard to elect Kaine, whose Republican opponent was a vocal gay-marriage critic. But the proof is in the pudding, which here seems rather thin indeed.

More/Virginia: Blogger Tim Hulsey gives Kaine no slack:

he followed the Clinton playbook all the way to the Governor's Mansion. Now that he's elected, Kaine continues to follow the Clintonian example-by betraying his Gay and Lesbian supporters first.

Ouch!

More/Maryland: Many of the state's leading Democrats are hoping that the Baltimore circuit court judge's ruling is reversed, quickly, so the Republicans can't demagogue it.

Lesson Learned?

The New York Times takes another look at ABC's killed-before-it-aired reality show "Welcome to the Neighborhood," in which racially and culturally diverse couples tried to overcome their would-be neighbors' prejudices and win a house. A gay couple, Stephen Wright and John Wright, with an adopted child, won. As I noted at the time, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) joined those cautioning ABC against running the show (some racial-grievance groups were upset). The Times piece makes GLAAD's lack of support seem all the more ludicrous: one of the anti-gay neighbors eventually admits he has a gay son, with whom he is reconciled after getting to know the gay contestants. As the article recounts:

For Stephen Wright, who was recruited for the series through his church, which has a predominantly gay membership, the outcome has been bittersweet. On the one hand, he has yet to achieve his goal of telling his family's story before a big audience. "We opened our souls and the life of our family, and we did it because we thought we could make a difference," he said.

But Mr. Wright said he took solace that through their participation in the series, he and his partner had had a positive impact on at least one relationship, that of Mr. Stewart and his son. "We said at the outset that if we changed one person's heart or mind, it would be worth it," he said. "We have empirical evidence we did that."

"And," he added, "we won a house."

Since this whole sad episode, GLAAD has come under new leadership. Here's hoping the mistakes of the past are not repeated.

More: I should note that the Times article suggests that the network may have pulled the show fearing that Christian conservatives (whose support ABC/Disney needed to promote its Narnia flick) would be upset that the gay couple won by gaining acceptance. ABC denies this, but I'd say if you think you'll tick off the social conservatives and the racial and gay activists, why run it?

Revisionist history: Former HRC spokesperson Wayne Besen, picking up on the Times story, criticizes "evangelists" for killing Neighborhood, a show that "was exactly what America needs to see," but fails to mention that GLAAD and the racial-grievance groups were most vocal in demanding the show not be aired.

The Devil’s Own.

A very disturbing Washington Monthly profile of blogger Markos Moulitsas Zuniga of The Daily Kos, hero of the Democratic left, and an unvarnished hate-monger:

In June 2003, after television cameras caught a cheering, thousand-strong mob in Fallujah dragging the charred, dismembered bodies of American contractors through the streets, Moulitsas linked to the reports and said of the contractors: "I feel nothing...Screw them."

... If the episode hurt him, it wasn't evident from his readership numbers, which continued to sky-rocket.

He's like Father Coughlin (or worse), preaching that political hatred is a virtue. He makes Limbaugh and Hannity look like intellectuals. And he's shaping the Democratic party.

Marriage = Wealth.

"If you really want to increase your wealth, get married and stay married," says Jay Zagorsky, research scientist at Ohio Sate University. The reasons: (household) economies of scale and marriage's stabilizing factor. It's just more evidence of why the anti-gay-marriage forces are fundamentally unconservative.

As to the headline "Marriage Builds Wealth More than Being Single," one wag commented: John Kerry could have told them that!

Queer Posturing, Brainless Boycott

First published on January 19, 2006, in Bay Windows.

In a January 9th e-mail to members of the International Advisory Committee (IAC) of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC), IGLHRC Executive Director Paula Ettelbrick and her board liaison for IAC, Adrian Coman, asked for input on whether IGLHRC should join the LGBT World Pride celebration scheduled this summer in Jerusalem. They stated that the consensus of their staff and their board's program committee was not to participate.

They explained, "While IGLHRC sees as its mandate the promotion of human rights everywhere, and would typically wish to support local organizations and activists, and participate in any world conference where the discussions and goals included LGBT rights, as a human rights organization, we do not feel it is appropriate to participate in a 'world pride' event in the middle of an occupation and in a location were our colleagues from the region could not travel to Israel to participate."

Helpfully, the e-mail, which was forwarded to me, includes a couple of Internet links for further information. One of them is to www.boycottworldpride.org, which reveals that the boycott effort is spearheaded by a group called QUIT, for Queers Undermining Israeli Terrorism.

Given IGLHRC's stated commitment to promoting human rights everywhere, you might suppose that they have also boycotted notoriously oppressive countries like China and Cuba. You would be wrong. In 1995 in Beijing, IGLHRC was represented by Julie Dorf and Rachel Rosenbloom at the United Nations Fourth World Conference on Women. And in 1998 in Havana, IGLHRC's coordinator for Latin America and the Caribbean, Alejandra Sardá presented a paper at the Third International Women's Solidarity Meeting.

So totalitarian capitals like Havana and Beijing are fine, but the sole democracy in the Middle East, which happens to be the place to which gay Arabs in the region flee, is the target of a "queer" boycott effort, essentially because it has dared to defend itself from neighbors bent on wiping it off the map and driving its Jewish inhabitants into the sea. As Barrett Brick, the former executive director of the World Congress of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Jews, observes, "I am most amused by the comment about Israel being a location to which regional colleagues could not travel. It is the Muslim countries that ban entry by Israelis and people with Israeli stamps in their passports."

Contrary to leftist propaganda, the Israeli occupation of the West Bank was not the result of expansionist greed by Zionist imperialists, but a response to an attack against Israel. The occupation is therefore entirely justified. The same cannot be said of Israeli settlements in the occupied territory, but on the other hand several democratically elected Israeli governments have sought in vain to trade land for peace with neighboring tyrants. If more Arab leaders emulated Anwar Sadat of Egypt and King Hussein of Jordan in choosing peace, the region could be the focus of rebuilding instead of destruction. But as Israeli diplomat Abba Eban said after Geneva peace talks with Arab countries in December 1973, "The Arabs never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity."

The foolishness of the queer left's boycott of Jerusalem World Pride 2006 is nothing new. In May 2002, QUIT participated in a pro-Palestinian rally at UC Berkeley. A Palestinian objected, saying, "Gay people have no place in society, whether in Palestine or in the U.S." When someone took issue with him, he replied, "You are a cultural imperialist." How's that for solidarity?

This is the left's idea of gay pride: demonizing Israel, which protects gay rights, while romanticizing a homophobic Palestinian culture that teaches its children no greater aspiration than to murder people by blowing themselves up.

The justifications for various boycotts aside, I generally oppose them because they tend to hurt the wrong people, and I believe that engagement works better than disengagement. When singer Paul Simon broke the ANC cultural boycott of South Africa with his Graceland tour in the 1980s, he was widely denounced. Yet his collaboration with South Africa's Ladysmith Black Mambazo inspired millions and catapulted Ladysmith to international acclaim and success.

With the voices of Ladysmith director Joseph Shabalala and his colleagues gracing numerous television commercials, members of QUIT would no doubt say this only proves that Ladysmith has sold out to the global forces of capitalist oppression. But if you prefer the misdirected radicalism of spoiled American leftists to the enchantment of Ladysmith, you are more than tone deaf.

My own partner is a refugee from another part of Africa, and our travel budget for this year may not take us to Israel for World Pride. But I know where my heart will be, regardless of what decision the folks at IGLHRC make.

I'm going to Graceland.

Oppose Alito?

The analysis of Supreme Court confirmation hearings has become the post-Cold War equivalent of Kremlinology, the study of Soviet behavior relying on exquisitely subtle clues to draw grand conclusions about the future. Is that Chernenko standing next to Brezhnev at the May Day parade? Is Andropov wearing a fedora?

So in the confirmation hearings of Judge Sam Alito, commentators carefully parsed the phrase "unitary executive" that he used in a single speech five years ago. They alighted when Alito described the "one-person/one-vote" principle as "settled law" but described Roe v. Wade as a "precedent entitled to respect." Did this signal he would vote to overrule Roe?

Did Gorbachev wink when that SS-25 ICBM passed by? Or was it just something in his eye?

All this speculation arises because nominees have learned that the way to get on the Supreme Court is to say nothing and to say it in as moderate and monotone a manner as possible.

Over more than two days of testimony before the Senate Judiciary Committee, Alito said almost nothing. When asked about this or that precedent, his stock response was to describe the holding of the Court, say it was entitled to respect, and then say he could say no more because the issue might come before him.

This convention of obscurantism in the Supreme Court nomination process puzzles me. I don't see why a nominee can't express a general view about a precedent or doctrine (without promising how to vote) when it's perfectly acceptable for a sitting justice to announce in one opinion that he supports (or opposes) a precedent and then to decide future cases related to the same precedent.

Notwithstanding the deliberate opacity of the confirmation process, is there anything about Alito that should give gay Americans concern?

The national gay groups all oppose Alito, and did so even before his confirmation hearings. But they have pretty much taken themselves out of any serious debate about President Bush's judicial nominees. Their position is basically this: "We have a specific pro-gay agenda, which we understand to include the right to abortion without restrictions. We want to advance this agenda, to the extent possible, through the courts. We oppose any nominee for whom there is no affirmative evidence that he fully supports our agenda and is willing to advance it judicially."

Since no Republican judicial nominee is going to meet this test, national gay groups might as well announce that they will oppose any and all judicial nominees for the remainder of the Bush presidency and be done with the matter. Their opposition will be ineffectual, as it has been on all of Bush's nominees. But at least we could dispense with the charade that they actually care about, and have "analyzed," an individual nominee's record.

The best that the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund could do to muster a case against Alito was to point out that he is a conservative, that he thinks there were excesses of judicial activism in the 1960s on matters like criminal defendants' rights, that he opposed Roe in 1985, that he has a "strong allegiance to 'free enterprise' " (quel horreur!), that he interprets certain employment-discrimination laws more narrowly than Lambda would, and that he would not always remove the displays of menorahs and creches from public land.

Where was the gay-rights issue in that litany?

I see nothing either very promising or very threatening in Alito's record when it comes to gay issues. That's not to say he couldn't turn out to be an imitation of Justice Antonin Scalia on gay rights. That would be terrible: Scalia has been actively hostile and even disparaging on the subject. But Alito could also turn out to be surprisingly receptive to certain gay-rights claims, as Reagan-appointee Justice Anthony Kennedy has been.

At his hearing, Alito announced that he supports the constitutional right to privacy that is the underpinning for the Supreme Court's decision in Lawrence v. Texas striking down anti-gay sodomy laws. He further suggested that he believes this right extends to unmarried people. He was not asked to comment beyond that.

While he supports federalism and "limited government"-more right-wing ideas Lambda finds troubling-Alito told the Senate that he could not think of any reason why Congress could not pass a law protecting gays from employment discrimination.

There's more. Alito appears to be very strong on free speech, which has been critical to the gay-rights cause. As a federal appellate judge, he supported the transfer of a gay student to another school to escape harassment. After the hearing, even NGLTF observed that Alito "registered immediate, palpable and sincere horror and disgust" at the anti-gay statements attributed to an alumni group of which he had once been a member.

Alito is not going to bring us gay marriage, but neither is anybody else on this Court. He will probably not vote to strike down the military's exclusion of homosexuals-also probably a strong majority view on the current Court. He will defer to Congress and to the states, to a very large extent, on what public policy toward gays ought to be.

That is, reading between the lines of his testimony and making predictions about his future conduct as compared to what his predecessor's might have been on specifically gay issues likely to come before the Court, Alito's appointment probably leaves us about where we were before.