Party Puppets.

A damning critique of the now fully partisan Human Rights Campaign, via Chris Crain, referencing this laudatory Boston Globe story. Comments Crain:

How has the hijacking of HRC by Democrats worked out so far? For one, HRC took money out of the fight against ballot initiatives to ban gay marriage, even when they would amend state constitutions. "[HRC leadder Joe] Solmonese said the group decided after the losses of 2004 that they could be more effective by focusing on candidates instead of ballot initiatives," the Globe reported.

So instead, HRC sank money and support in favor of Democratic Party priorities, like winning a majority in the New Hampshire state Senate. In fact, the Globe reports, HRC was the single largest donor on New Hampshire state Senate races. How exactly does that move gay Americans closer to equality?

The effect of the new HRC strategy is to put all the gay movement's marbles in the Democratic Party basket, even though from Bill Clinton and John Kerry on down, the party has almost never taken a political risk for its gay constituents. The Globe story compares the new HRC strategy as akin to that of labor unions. We can all see how powerful they aren't, after sinking themselves into a one-party, no message strategy.

Some lessons need to be learned over and over, it seems.

Countering Bigotry.

With a MLK Day hat tip to Gay Patriot West, here's another interesting take on gay culture, by way of a conservative gay student at Stanford responding to the assertion that acceptance of homosexuality will open the floodgates to sexual anarchy (e.g., polygamy and bestiality).

Writing in the conservative Stanford Review, Yishai Kabaker notes that gays are not politically and ideological monolithic (as social conservatives like to assert), but also advises:

"if the LGBT community wants to eliminate the irrational fear of opening the deviant sex floodgates...., it should vigorously show that it desires the responsibilities of marriage along with the rights."

Many might say it's not our responsibility to prove we're worthy of legal equality, and there's truth to that. But in the real world, pragmatism sometimes requires demonstrations of human dignity in the face of irrational bigotry, not just turning to the courts for judicial solutions. Dr. King, I believe (though quite skilled at pursuing judicial remedies), also understood that.

Values Matter, but Whose?

Here's an interesting piece from the San Francisco Chronicle on A deepening challenge for America's gay men; New movement looks for more in identity, relationships. Excerpt:

Meet the new players in the great American debate about values: Ryan, a 25-year-old newlywed, who is helping other men find husbands; Doug, 50, who is helping gay men in San Francisco create their ideal community; and Chris, 36, whose pursuit of happiness has switched from chasing New York hotties to seeking down-home enlightenment.

They and others across the country are engaging gay men in conversations about their goals and values-both personal and collective-and challenging the sense of who gay men are and what makes their community....

"Gay men are standing in the middle of a tornado, with the pope and the president on one side telling them one thing and 'Will & Grace' and 'Queer Eye' telling them another thing and the gay culture telling them another set of issues," [author Christopher Lee Nutter] said. "I think that very tornado is what has directed a lot of men to say, 'OK, who ... am I going to believe?' "

While many of those quoted urge moving beyond the hedonism of modern (urban) gay life, I suspect others are mostly critical of their fellow gay men not being "progressive" enough politically. Still, the piece does include a reference to IGF as an alternative resource that "aims to elevate the discussion of gay issues."

No Kids, then No Valid Opinions on War?

That's the new line enunciated by Sen. Barbara Boxer (D-Left Coast), who suggested that Secretary of State Condi Rice's lack of children meant she lacked standing to support continued military action in Iraq (and, by extension, to help direct war policy generally).

While some see an insinuation of lesbianism in Boxer's attack (heavens, Democrats using homophobia to advance their aims? Who could imagine!), I see it more as yet another round of feminist hypocrisy.

The Mass. Vote (1): No Vote, No Guilt

Given that just for expressing my own opinions I am often accused of trying to silence people, I should probably avoid saying, "Oh, shut up" in response to those who are wringing their hands over the use of a procedural vote to defeat an anti-gay constitutional amendment. I certainly should avoid telling them bluntly what I think of them. Very well then, like Auntie Em I will be a Good Christian Woman and I won't say it.

As the Massachusetts Constitutional Convention on Nov. 9 deliberated whether to amend the state constitution to deny the protections, benefits and obligations of civil marriage to same-sex couples, I followed developments from afar via Bay Windows's ConCon blog. I was glad to see the serious lobbying at the State House complemented by people holding signs like "Go Home, You Look Haggard," and the satirical "Keep marriage straight, white and pure!" Considering that gay marriage has been blamed for everything but the problems with the Big Dig, a generous portion of humor was needed just to clear the air.

There was plenty of noxious gas to clear. Some of the bad air came last summer from David Kravitz of the Blue Mass Group blog, who wrote that "if the amendment isn't allowed to come up for a vote, it's a good day for Kerry Healey, and a bad day for the democratic process." Concerning the need for a vote, state Rep. David Linksy posted on Nov. 10, "I have voted on same-sex marriage sixteen times, consistently on the side of supporting same-sex marriage rights. My constituents know how I stand on the issue. My votes have been public and well-publicized and I have consistently made my views known to anyone who asked." In fact, the Nov. 7 election was a bad day for Kerry Healey and a good day for the most pro-gay governor-elect in American history.

After the ConCon recessed, the unhappy outgoing governor promised to "explore any other alternatives that may exist to protect the constitutional rights of our citizens." By that Mitt Romney apparently meant the right of the mob to attack a minority group whenever some demagogue chooses to provoke it.

Dan Kennedy of the Media Nation blog observes, "The customary procedures of the Legislature allow for members to call for a recess, and such a motion need only pass by a simple majority.... Proponents of a constitutional amendment need to get 25 percent by following the rules, not by having some outside authority put its thumb on the scale by suspending the rules."

On November 10, Andrew Sullivan blogged, "Yes, in some respects, civil rights should not be up for a vote. But many opponents of equality in marriage do not accept the premise that civil marriage is a civil right for gays. I think they're wrong; but it's an honest disagreement." Pardon me, but it is hardly an honest disagreement when marriage opponents repeatedly conflate civil and religious law and act as if their religious dogma should be binding on the rest of the population. And what does it mean to say that civil rights should not be up for a vote in some respects? Is marriage a fundamental right or not? Are gay people equal citizens or not?

Sullivan wrote that opponents of marriage equality are "not wrong that equality in civil marriage is also a social change that should have democratic input. To prevent such input by parliamentary maneuvers taints the victory." Who does he think has been denied input? What issue under the sun has had more public discussion?

This is a strange run-around. When we go to the courts we are told it is undemocratic because the legislature must decide. But when we went to the legislature in California, Governor Schwarzenegger said no, the courts must decide. And now in Massachusetts, having gone both to the courts and the legislature, we are told we are undemocratic because the people must decide directly. How many times are we expected to placidly watch the goalposts being moved?

Sullivan lamented, "I think we would have won the vote in 2008. I'm sorry we won't now get the chance to prove it." It is easy to say that he thinks we would have won such a plebiscite, but he doesn't know.

Let me offer a few observations regarding the sacredness of the people's right to decide: 1. We have a republic, not a government by town-hall meetings. 2. In recent elections in Massachusetts, opponents of marriage equality were the ones sent packing, not supporters. 3. Several other amendments have been dispatched by the same method in the past, and the Supreme Judicial Court has not ruled it improper. 4. Let our allies who have cold feet about this tell us which of their own basic rights they are prepared to ask their neighbors' permission to exercise.

My hometown of Washington is not in the same position as Massachusetts. Our special constitutional relationship to Congress makes us ill-suited to lead the marriage fight. You in the Bay State are carrying the dreams of a lot of people. You may be joined by a few other states before too long, but you are the first, and it is hard being the first. Please know that many of your compatriots around the country are proud of the determination with which you have defended this precious toehold on civil marriage equality. Keep fighting any way you can within the law, and Godspeed.

The Mass. Vote (2): Don’t Cut Constitutional Corners

More than the necessary 50 of Massachusetts legislators meeting in a Constitutional Convention voted to support placing a proposal to ban same-sex marriage on the ballot in a statewide election.

If at least 50 votes at a second Constitutional Convention also support a referendum, then the referendum will take place and whether Massachusetts should allow legal same-sex marriage will be decided by the majority of Massachusetts voters.

Like most of us, I suppose, I was rooting for the defeat of the anti-gay, or at least anti-gay marriage, forces during the run-up to the Constitutional Convention (dubbed ConCon) and while following the confused proceedings at ConCon itself at a blog provided by the Boston gay newspaper Bay Windows.

But then after passion had ebbed a bit, no longer caught up in the heat of the moment I found myself having some troubling second thoughts.

Remember what happened. Gay marriage advocates had argued before the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court (SJC) that same-sex marriage was mandated by the equality provisions of the Massachusetts state constitution. After deliberation, the majority of the SJC agreed and same-sex marriage was duly instituted.

So same-sex marriage owes its very existence to the Massachusetts constitution.

Then in an effort to roll back the moral depravity of gay marriage, anti-gay forces gathered signatures to call for a statewide referendum on the issue. The Massachusetts Constitution states that if enough voters petition in support of referendum, state legislators meeting in ConCon should vote on whether to place the issue on the ballot. If at least 50 legislators (one quarter of the whole) approve it at two successive ConCons, it goes on the ballot.

Plausibly fearing that at least 50 legislators would approve a referendum, gay advocates tried to block a vote. Anti-gay marriage forces responded by petitioning the SJC to order the ConCon to vote on ballot placement.

In a rapid decision, the SJC stated unanimously-including all the justices who had approved gay marriage-that the ConCon must vote, that the constitution stated that if presented with sufficient signatures the ConCon shall vote on about a ballot referendum, not may vote.

The court acknowledged that it lacked the power to force ConCon to hold a vote, but the message was not lost on legislative leaders. And so the ConCon voted and more than 50 votes supported sending it on to the next ConCon to see if it is approved there.

Now here is where the nagging second thoughts come in. With all the gay-supportive will in the world, I do not see how Massachusetts gays and their supporters can appeal to the state constitution to establish gay marriage, and then turn around and urge defiance of the plain language of the constitution when it comes to some aspect they do not like.

Constitutions provide neutral rules of procedures to be followed in deciding contentious issues. To refuse to follow the constitution is to cut yourself off at the knees, to undermine the very basis by which your own rights are recognized. And the next time it may be the other side that urges that the constitution be ignored.

Further, to urge the legislature to ignore the language of the constitution is to urge it to undermine its own legitimacy: The constitution is what created the legislature in the first place and gives it its authority. Defying the constitution would deny the very basis of the legislature's existence and legitimacy.

Gay advocates coped with these kinds of arguments ... by ignoring them. Instead they trotted out the familiar catch-phrase of "People's basic civil rights should never be subject to a popular vote." But however appealing that phrase may be as political rhetoric there are two problems with it.

First, that is not what the Massachusetts constitution says. The constitution provides a means for voters to vote on practically everything if they jump through enough procedural hoops.

Second, "civil rights" are not self-defining. Anyone can claim anything as a (civil) right. But what should justifiably count as a civil right may be a matter of serious disagreement. Like it or not, they are themselves matters to be decided by constitutional processes, legislatures and ultimately voters. That is what the word "democracy" means.

And so Massachusetts gay marriage advocates must either persuade a few more legislators at the next ConCon to decline to approve a referendum or else they must be prepared to defend what they hope will be recognized as a civil right. If I were they, I would be starting preparations yesterday. And the rest of us would be wise to do whatever we can to help.

Equality and ‘Gen Next.’

A new study of "Generation Next" (aged 18 to 25) by the Pew Research Center shows that today's young adults are the most supportive of any generation on social and legal issues relating to gay people, and lead the way in their support for gay marriage:

Nearly six-in-ten (58%) say homosexuality is a way of life that should be accepted by society. This compares with 50% of those over age 25. On balance, the public opposes allowing gays and lesbians to marry, but young people are evenly split on the issue. Nearly half of Gen Nexters (47%) favor gay marriage, and 46% are opposed to it....

The public is more open to the idea of gay people adopting children, and here too young people take a more liberal position. About six-in-ten Gen Nexters (61%) favor allowing gays and lesbians to adopt, compared with 44% of those over age 25.

Bad news for Republicans: 48% of Gen Nexters identified more with the Democratic Party, while just 35% affiliated more with the GOP. This makes Gen Next the least Republican generation according to Pew Research, and should serve as a wake up call for the party's hidebound leadership-that is, unless they want the GOP to end up marginalized as a party of elderly religious rightists.

Pro-Family or Just Anti-Gay in Va.?

Heads up: the Family Foundation of Virginia, a big proponent of last year's successful anti-gay-marriage constitutional referendum, has decided to tackle divorce. According to the Washington Post, the foundation

said it will lobby the General Assembly this year to amend the state's long-standing no-fault divorce law, which essentially allows a husband or wife to terminate a marriage without cause. The foundation is advocating "mutual consent divorce" for couples with children, which would require a husband and wife to agree to divorce before a marriage can be legally terminated, except in certain instances, such as abuse or cruelty. The proposed legislation would not affect childless couples.

Now that's refreshing, because it's so out of character for so-called "pro-family" groups. As IGF contributor David Boaz pointed out in a seminal New York Times article back in 1994, "pro-family groups" dwell obsessively on homosexuality but have barely lifted a finger against divorce, which breaks up families by the millions.

My guess is that the divorce-tightening idea won't even get to first base in the Virginia legislature--arguably the most vindictively anti-gay political body in the country. My guess is that the authors of the notorious "Marriage Affirmation Act" are more interested in picking on a weak and unpopular minority than in inconveniencing the majority. But let's see. Thanks to the Family Foundation for a nice little test case.

And did I mention that Virginia's divorce rate (4%) is almost twice that of Massachusetts (2.2%), where gay marriage is legal?

A Gay Tribute to Gerald Ford

With the passing of former President Gerald Ford last week at the age of 93, Republicans and Democrats have joined in bipartisan praise of the man who led the country through the aftermath of the Watergate scandal.

President Bush praised Ford as "a man of complete integrity" whose "life was a blessing to America." Conservative politicians, activists and journalists across the country echoed this sentiment. But in their encomiums to the late president, they have conveniently left out one important fact: in his later years, Ford was a prominent ­- though hardly outspoken - supporter of gay rights.

In a 2001 interview with the Detroit News, Ford said, "I have always believed in an inclusive policy, in welcoming gays and others into the party. I think the party has to have an umbrella philosophy if it expects to win elections."

But his support for gay rights was not just a matter of strategic concern; it had a moral basis as well. "I think they ought to be treated equally. Period," the straight-talking ex-President of firm, Midwestern-values said.

With Ford, there was none of the evasiveness that we hear from the current president, who speaks of the gay marriage issue with words like "civility" and "decency," while supporting unreconstructed, anti-gay policies. Nor did Ford have any problem saying the word "gay," one that President Bush has shown incredible reticence in uttering.

In 2001, Ford joined the short-lived Republican Unity Coalition, an organization dedicated to making sexual orientation a "non-issue" in the GOP. Former Wyoming Sen. Alan Simpson served as chair of the organization, and other prominent members included John Danforth, Mary Matalin and Diane Ravitch.

Following the coverage of Ford's passing in the mainstream media, one would have difficulty coming across any mention of his unprecedented support for gay rights. In a symposium on the web site of the leading conservative magazine National Review, not one of the nine conservative historians or journalists that the publication invited to share words on Ford mentioned this interview. Indeed, finding a conservative commentator or politician - aside, of course, from the Log Cabin Republicans - mentioning Ford's support for gay rights has been a futile effort.

That a former United States president would come out, essentially, in favor of gay marriage is no small thing. That he was a rock-solid Republican ought to give conservatives pause before launching into their next attack on the "homosexual agenda."

Gerald Ford was an honest, decent man who did a great service to his country in one of its most troubled times. In his statements on gay rights, he showed a better side of the Republican Party, one we have not seen much of lately, yet Ford reminds us what the party could still become. Ford's support for gay civil rights might have something to do with the fact that the man who saved his life from a 1975 assassination attempt in San Francisco, former Marine and Vietnam veteran Oliver Sipple, was gay.

When Ford took office in 1974, he assured the country that "our long national nightmare" - Watergate - was over. One day, when more Republicans show the same sense of fairness that Ford demonstrated, the door will be closed on our country's long, national nightmare of treating gay people like second-class citizens.

When Will They Ever Learn?

Many gay activists in Nepal supported the Maoist guerrillas, but now :

on the brink of achieving effective government power in the Himalayan kingdom, [the guerrillas] ]have turned their attention to so-called "social pollutants" and denounced homosexuals as "a by-product of capitalism" ... even though many gays were previously aligned with the Maoists....

Maoist cadres ... have warned home owners not to let out rooms to gays and lesbians.

In a way, the Maoists are right-only under market capitalism with its recognition of individual autonomy (rather than collectivism) and a civil/economic sphere not under the thumb of government bureaucrats/cadres/party hacks do gays have the freedom to socialize, organize and come out.