The Looming Adoption Battle

The 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals has struck down an Oklahoma law described as being so extreme it had the potential to make children adopted by same-sex couples in other states legal orphans when these families are in Oklahoma.

Think about that: If a same-sex couple from New York were changing planes at the airport in Oklahoma City and their child took ill and had to be rushed to the hospital, the state of Oklahoma would not recognize their parental rights and might, instead, appoint a state agency to make critical medical decisions. So much for family values, and individual liberty against intrusive government, in the OK state.

But all is not rosy. The Court of Appeals for the 11th Circuit upheld Florida's ban on adoptions by same-sex couples in that state, so it looks like this is an issue headed for the U.S. Supreme Court. If so, Justice Kennedy-author of the Lawrence decision striking down anti-gay "sodomy" laws (and, by extension, calling into question laws that deny to gays the same rights enjoyed by heterosexuals if that denial is based on anti-gay animus and prejudice)-could again play a pivotal rule.

One thing you can bet on: The arguments that will be put forward in defense of statewide adoption bans, "for the sake of the children," will get ugly.

Marriage Aftershocks in Ohio

On July 25, the Ohio Supreme Court ruled 6-1 in Ohio v. Carswell that the anti-gay-marriage amendment to the state constitution does not invalidate Ohio's domestic violence law as it applies to unmarried couples. This was welcome as far as it went, but the amendment remains in place, even if the force of its sweeping second sentence-which goes beyond marriage to prohibit any marriage-like legal status-was narrowed. This small victory was not quite dramatic enough to set the Cuyahoga River on fire.

Lambda Legal's James Madigan said of Carswell, "The court sent a strong message to those who would attempt to use the amendment to attack health insurance benefits for families, or the relationships between children and their same-sex parents: you can't get away with this." Equality Ohio's Lynne Bowman offered a more mixed assessment: "We applaud the Court for upholding Ohio's domestic violence laws. However, this ill-conceived amendment continues to make it hard for loving same-sex partners to care for each other and their families in this state."

The majority opinion by Chief Justice Thomas Moyer is not entirely convincing. He writes that the amendment's second sentence means that "the state cannot create or recognize a legal status for unmarried persons that bears all of the attributes of marriage-a marriage substitute." But that is not what the sentence says. It prohibits "a legal status for relationships of unmarried individuals that intends to approximate the design, qualities, significance or effect of marriage." As dissenting Justice Judith Lanzinger points out, the use of the disjunctive "or" means that unmarried couples are denied legal status for any one of the listed attributes of marriage, not just the list taken as a whole.

Moyer declares, "The state played no role in creating Carswell's relationship with the alleged victim. Carswell created that relationship." Lanzinger says this "misses the point. The General Assembly's classification of 'person living as a spouse' is a recognition by law of the relationship of unmarried and cohabiting individuals based solely on the similarity of that relationship to marriage."

Its shortcomings notwithstanding, Carswell effectively rebuffs the bait-and-switch tactics of cultural conservatives, who claimed a narrow purpose during the initiative campaign, then insisted on a broad interpretation after they won. Phil Burress, president of the Ohio group Citizens for Community Values (CCV), for instance, during the 2004 campaign dismissed the idea that the amendment would invalidate parts of the domestic violence law as "on its face absolutely absurd." After the amendment's passage, Burress' associate David Langdon filed legal briefs, including in Carswell, making that same "absurd" argument.

Groups like CCV insist that their intent is to protect marriage and not to harm gay people, yet they go far beyond marriage to deny same-sex couples any legal protection whatsoever. At long last, their mendacity and overreach are backfiring: By reading the Marriage Amendment narrowly to preserve protections against domestic violence for unmarried partners, Carswell sets a precedent for allowing other gay-friendly protections such as domestic partner benefits for state university employees.

Alternatively, had the Court upheld the conservatives' claim that the amendment invalidated the domestic violence law, it would have marked the amendment unconstitutional. The U.S. Supreme Court reaffirmed in Lawrence v. Texas in 2003 that the state may not use traditional morality to draw distinctions in the criminal law between married and unmarried couples.

Marc Spindelman, an Ohio State University law professor and an expert in constitutional law and lesbian and gay rights, stated after the ruling, "The Court does not say so expressly, but it has effectively promised that the Marriage Amendment will be read in a way that's conditioned by reason, not inflamed by the passions of traditional morality. In this sense, Carswell may, in time, turn out to have been the beginning of the end of the Marriage Amendment itself."

Spindelman suggests that Carswell will be of greatest interest in the 13 states whose gay marriage bans are framed in a broad way like Ohio's: Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Michigan, Nebraska, North Dakota, Oklahoma, South Carolina, South Dakota, Texas, Utah, Virginia and Wisconsin.

Spindelman told me, "There are upsides and downsides to this ruling. On the upside, the Court gave us more than most close observers thought we could get. On the downside, the Court left us with a legal version of Jenga [the wooden block tower building game], where we need to figure out what the definition of 'all' [the attributes of marriage] is so we stay within Carswell's terms."

Spindelman criticizes Lambda Legal for focusing only on narrowing the amendment's effect instead of disputing the constitutionality of a broader interpretation, or making an affirmative case for gay couples. "It is possible to challenge the Marriage Amendment at both the retail and the wholesale level. Lambda has exclusively pursued a retail approach-in popular parlance, death by a thousand paper cuts-and I see no good reason why. It was the women's domestic violence coalition brief that tried to craft an argument on behalf of lesbian and gay victims of domestic abuse-not the Lambda brief."

Differences over strategy aside, Spindelman is upbeat. He presciently warned in Legal Times last year that Carswell would "teach cultural conservatives a lesson the anti-domestic-violence movement has been teaching abusers for years: There's a price to pay for the moral hubris it takes to treat people as pawns in your own game." And so Carswell has.

Health Care, Part 2: ‘Free’ Isn’t Fair

"Sicko," Michael Moore's indictment of America's healthcare system, proposes healthcare for all. Free treatment. Free drugs. All provided by the government. What's not to like? Before gay Americans rush to embrace state-run healthcare, we ought to think very hard about it.

Start with the basic proposition that healthcare is something gay Americans need more than most other Americans. For gay men, the need is obvious and the stakes are very high. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 232,000 gay men in the U.S. are living with HIV/AIDS. In 2005, male-to-male sexual transmission accounted for about 70 percent of new cases among males.

HIV disease is chronic and potentially fatal. Keeping it under control requires frequent visits with doctors, monitoring of blood, and a very expensive regimen of prescription drugs. All of this places disproportionately large demands on the healthcare system, including on patients, nurses, doctors, drug manufacturers, insurance companies, and taxpayers.

Over time, the life-saving drugs that have been available for a decade now often stop working effectively. HIV develops resistance to them. That means new drugs must replace the old ones.

Somebody has to provide, and to pay for, all of this expensive care. How do we do it? America's answer so far has been a hodgepodge of private insurance and public subsidy. In countries Moore would like us to emulate, the answer has been government-controlled healthcare.

I don't have answers about how to reform America's system, if at all. And it's difficult to talk about the issue in the abstract, since the devil will be in the details. But here are a couple of things that gay Americans, especially, ought to think about.

First, as a general matter, we should be wary of any proposal calling for greater government control. Historically, government has been an enemy of gay people. While that has begun to change, there is no reason to believe that government at the federal level and in most states will not continue to be an adversary for some time.

What might this adversary do to our healthcare? Any state-run system will mean government funding of hospitals, doctors, and drugs. With funding comes control.

Efforts will be made to control costs and decisions will be made about how to allocate limited budgets. Politics will govern those decisions, yet gays' political clout is small. Questions will be asked: How much of the public fisc should be devoted to paying for new drugs for people who continue to get themselves infected with an avoidable disease? How many HIV specialists do we really need and how much should we pay for their services? If we have to pay to treat their disease, shouldn't we be monitoring their lives more closely to prevent it?

There are rational ways of discussing these sorts of questions, but given our history with government, there is little reason to believe reason will dominate the political discussion. The questions will be answered by the people who gave us bans on immigration by HIV-positive people and the military exclusion.

Other countries with government-run healthcare - notably Moore's favorite countries, like Canada, Britain, and France - have much more enlightened attitudes toward homosexuality. There is comparatively less reason to fear turning such an important matter over to public authorities in these countries. The U.S. is different.

The private sector, by contrast, has led the way for equality. Unlike the federal government and most state governments, most large private companies now ban discrimination against gays and many offer health benefits to same-sex couples. That's not because they're nice; it's because they compete with each other for the best employees.

But if the government were the only game in town, as it would be under some proposals for healthcare reform, there would be no competitive pressure to ensure gay Americans are treated fairly. It's hard even to know how sweeping the consequences might be in a political environment still quite hostile to homosexuals.

Second, America is now the leader in medical advances of all kinds: education, treatment, and most importantly for our purposes, the development of new drugs. One of the reasons America spends so much more on healthcare than other nations is that it is a leader in these areas. Other countries free-ride on American research and development.

Tens of thousands of gay men in this country are alive today because profit-seeking private companies, with the help of public investment, researched and developed life-saving anti-HIV drugs.

But drug development is risky. Most new drugs are scrapped because they don't work or are dangerous. Creating and testing them costs a lot of money. Unless private investors can be tempted with the possibility of large profits, they won't take chances and drugs won't get developed.

Government-controlled healthcare doesn't mean drug development will stop. But there will be strong efforts to limit drug costs, which will limit profits, which will have some stifling effect on development. There will be some risk that not as many expensive new AIDS drugs will enter, or get through, the development pipeline. That could mean lives lost as resistance to existing drugs sets in.

None of this is decisive, even from a gay perspective, against all reform of healthcare. But nobody should pretend the choices are risk-free. And we should not indulge the fantasy that healthcare will ever be "free."

Extra: NGLTF Nails Democrats!

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force prez Matt Foreman sez the Dem candidates are less supportive of gay equality than Bill Clinton was in 1992 (!):

It's déjà vu all over again - the GOP often slyly and sometimes audaciously whips us for political gain. The Democrats include us - sorta - but only in response to a direct question and typically in the language of careful legislative reform.

This must change...We deserve and we must demand from the Democratic 2008 presidential candidates the simple and straightforward statement that our humanity requires full respect and fair treatment by all and, further, an equally simple and straightforward condemnation of those who seek to use our lives for political gain. This needs to be said in front of all audiences - not just in front of us.

Fair enough, but why only demand respect from "the Democratic 2008 presidential candidates"? Why not make the same demands of Republicans? When gay activists write off Republicans, they cede the GOP to the soft bigotry of low expectations.

Good News for Gay Teamsters in the Garden State

No, seriously. UPS says it will offer health care benefits to all civil union partners of its Teamster-represented hourly workers in New Jersey. According to a statement from UPS:

We are taking this step based on discussions and input over the last few days from several state officials, including the attorney general and governor."

Our policy in this regard has been clear from the start: UPS offers same-sex benefits to all non-union employees now and our intent is to offer these same benefits to all unionized workers. In the case of union workers, however, we cannot unilaterally extend these benefits without going through the collective bargaining process.

The only exception to collective bargaining is when an individual state recognizes same-sex partners as married spouses. New Jersey has enacted a law recognizing the right of same-sex partners to join in civil unions. Based on an initial legal review when this law was enacted, it did not appear that a "civil union" and "marriage" were equivalent.

Over the past week, however, we received clear guidance that at least in New Jersey, the state truly views civil union partners as married. We've heard that loud and clear from state officials and we're happy to make this change.

In other words, state officials put the screws on UPS to treat civil unions like marriage when it comes to benefits for employees' spousal-equivalents. Fine for UPS's gay and coupled Teamsters (an unknown number, apparently). But many other Garden State employers still don't see the equivalence, or at least choose not to.

More. The New York Times chimes in:

The couples now eligible for benefits may celebrate, but their success is seen in some circles as evidence that the civil union law can be leveraged to force equality, undercutting at least some of the argument that nothing short of marriage is adequate.

But it looks like a confusing hodge-podge among employers, many of whom are not offering spousal benefits to their civil unionized employees.

In our comments, questions are raised about why, if UPS was offering partner benefits to nonunionized workers, the Teamsters failed to press for the same treatment for their dues-payers during contract negotiations (and why pro-union gay activists aren't mentioning this).

Targeting Divorce

If anti-gay "family values" groups actually do start to focus on curbing heterosexual divorce, as the Washington Post reports, might it limit their support? Probably only if they move beyond rhetoric and support for voluntary options such as less easy to dissolve "covenant marriage," and instead work for actual legal barriers to marriage dissolution-which isn't all that likely (don't expect any proposed state or federal constitutional amendments!).

Not surprisingly, as the Post story indicates, you can leave it to liberal Democrats (in this case, openly gay Virginia house delegate Adam Ebbin) to suggest, in response, that what's really needed to discourage divorce is for the government to force employers to pay higher wages and to further nationalized health care.

Gay President Is OK…If Unwed

Most Americans believe their fellow citizens hold strong biases against minorities, according to a new poll by Zogby International, one of the most comprehensive ever conducted on prejudice. On sexual orientation, it found:

62% said they believe Americans oppose same-sex marriages. Yet 58% would elect a gay person for President-about the same as for an Arab-American (57%), and more than for a person over age 70 (51%) or for an atheist (51%).

Meanwhile, a plurality (47%) believe gays and lesbians should be allowed to adopt children.

Pollster John Zogby said:

Over my years of polling, I've learned that Americans tend to offer socially acceptable responses when questioned on their own views about race and prejudice. That's why in this poll we predominantly asked people about "most Americans'" views on race and prejudice. We believe this provides a far more accurate window into how people really think about these issues. Americans are more forthcoming when discussing the problem in the context of their neighbors' lives than in the context of their own lives.

The upshot: Popular opposition to same-sex marriage remains the prime hurdle to full legal equality for gay Americans.

Helping Gays Abroad

It is important to keep our main focus on the struggle for gay freedom and equality here in the United States where the forces of anti-gay repression are constantly looking for ways to undermine and reverse our progress.

But it is also worth paying some attention to the abusive treatment of gays and lesbians elsewhere in the world. In many countries outside Western Europe, their situation is much more vulnerable than our own, in some cases dire. Gay progress in the U.S. has been aided by a growing social liberalization during the last 40 years; but in many countries those conditions do not prevail and the struggle of gays is much more difficult. Their advocacy movements are much smaller, ill-funded and more recent than our own, their governments much more repressive, and fundamentalist religion (Catholic, Protestant, Muslim) far more powerful than here.

Religious militia death squads kill gays in Iraq; gays are arrested and sometimes executed on arguably trumped-up charges of rape or pederasty in Iran; vigilante groups kill gays in Brazil; Nigeria is in the grip of contending Muslim and Christian sects competing to be more anti-gay; gays in Eastern Europe (Russia, Poland, some Baltic states) are barred from public advocacy and beaten up by skinhead hooligans while police watch complacently. And meanwhile His Holiness inveighs against gays from his Vatican throne while both Sunni Saudi Arabia and Shiite Iran export homophobic religion.

Little of this makes it into most mainstream newspapers, and none of it is reported it on the early evening television newscasts. It lacks the general appeal of the mindless antics of starlets and hotel heiresses. To follow most of this homophobic zealotry, you have to read the gay press, get on international list-servs, read a few blogs, and hunt out gay columnist Doug Ireland's valuable reporting.

The depressing part is that there are few ways we can help in any direct fashion. It is possible to hold demonstrations and vigils outside foreign embassies and legations, but while that may help raise the profile of the issue a bit in this country, it seems doubtful that they would influence foreign governments, religious fanatics, or militia death squads.

There are a few non-government groups that attempt to work on these issues, but it is hard to find out what they are doing or how effective they are. Several years ago Amnesty International adopted a gay-friendly policy, but they can always use more money and staff.

Following the example of the Soros Foundation which provided photocopiers, fax machines, and computers to dissident groups in Eastern Europe, the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission under former director Julie Dorf did valuable service in providing similar aid to Russian gays during the final years of the Soviet Union. But under present management it is not clear what they do-besides boycott Israel, a rare democracy in the region and the only haven for "Palestinian" gays, and issue press releases about harassment of cross-dressers in Latin American.

The small gay section of Human Rights Watch is supposed to monitor the condition of gays in many countries and is clearly overtaxed. Yet they criticize and seem to resent any outside attempts (and even some internal efforts) to support gay activism in those countries; seem insufficiently skeptical of charges religious authoritarian governments lodge against gays who are arrested, and seem infected with a kind of relativist multiculturalism that inhibits claims to natural human rights.

The American government could send letters of protest to foreign governments, but other issues obsess the current administration and its State Department. Their strenuous efforts to retain supporters and mollify opponents of the Iraqi war give them little clout to pressure foreign governments on other issues. In any case, it is hard to imagine the current president feeling much pain on behalf of foreign gays or alienating his domestic supporters by making efforts on their behalf.

We have a better chance of getting positive action from a Democratic president, so I hope gay Democratic contributors and supporters begin raising this issue with their candidates. Ask them what steps they will take to counter the repression of fellow gays and lesbians in other countries. Force them to ask their research staffs to look into the matter, get them on record, make them realize that this is a significant issue. The time to raise the issue is now while they are still soliciting gay votes and money, before they go all centrist after the primaries are over.

Several years ago I wrote a piece titled "Toward a Gay Foreign Policy," posted at the Independent Gay Forum. I still advocate the suggestions I made there. But we need to go further and plan what we want a Democratic administration to do and how we can press them to do it.

What Happens When the Party of Your “One Party Strategy” Takes You for Granted

I'm not a supporter of the proposed federal hate crimes bill, but gay activists tied at the waist to the Democratic Party are, so it's interesting to watch how the congressional Democrats are treating this supposed high priority item-burying it within an attempt at Iraqi war defunding-a measure which, even if passed, Bush has pledged to veto-and how gay "progressives" are providing them cover. Gay Patriot has the run down in his own highly partisan (going the other direction) style. Still, a valid critique on the Democrats' "throw the gays a meaningless bone" tactics. His money quote:

Democrats controlled the U.S. House for 40 years before 1995, and the Senate many times throughout. The only major gay rights legislation or mandate to come from the Democrats when they had the chance in power: Defense of Marriage Act and Don't Ask, Don't Tell. Great record, eh?

More. For those who reflexively dismiss anything from Gay Patriot, here's the independent-minded Chris Crain, a former Washington Blade editor and a hate-crimes bill supporter, weighing in, too. And in a follow-up, Crain takes further issue with "HRC and the Democrats...claiming that the DOD authorization was a good strategic vehicle." Right.

More from Planet Paul

Jamie Kirchick says Ron Paul is a homophobe. Andrew Sullivan says he's just ignorant. I was going with confused and evasive until I saw Paul's latest, from a google.com interview:

'Don't ask, don't tell' doesn't sound all that bad to me because as an employer, I've never asked them [employees] anything and I don't want them to tell me anything. ... So I would say that everyone should be treated equally, and they [gays] shouldn't be discriminated against because of that alone. Which means that even though those words aren't offensive to me, that 'Don't ask, don't tell' don't sound so bad to me, I think the way it's enforced is bad. Because, literally, if somebody is a very, very good individual working for our military - and I met one just the other day in my office, who was a translator - and he was kicked out for really no good reason at all. I would want to change that, I don't support that interpretation.

He seems to be opposing the military's DADT policy and anti-gay discrimination. In fact, he seems to favor the closet for everyone in the workplace, not just gays. Maybe he's just weird.

Given his age (72, almost) and party (Republican, sort of), give him some credit for maybe opposing DADT and definitely opposing the Federal Marriage Amendment. But rather than psychoanalyzing him, we need to get this guy to be specific. As president, would he support and sign repeal of DADT? Civil unions or federal domestic-partner recognition? Immigration rights for gay couples?

I doubt he's given it much thought. Let's change that.