Here's what
happens to gays who think the Democratic Party should do more
for them than just take our money.
And no, I'm not saying the party we don't fund (i.e., the GOP)
is better. Just that we expect more from the party we are guilted,
incessantly, into opening our wallets for.
As for the GOP, Mary Cheney's story, as told
to ABC's Diane Sawyer on Thursday primetime, shows that while
incremental progress has been made, there's still a long, hard road
ahead. Giving all of our money and labor to ungrateful Democrats
won't help us get there.
Update: Well, I thought Mary Cheney did just
fine with Diane on Thursday night, explaining her strong
disagreement with the national GOP on gay marriage but also making
clear why she would remain a Republican even if her father wasn't
veep.
It was also interesting that she referred to herself as "gay"
several times, while her gay-male critics called her a "lesbian."
It reminded me of Ellen's famous "Yep, I'm Gay" Time magazine cover
story. Yet this site has taken some heat for being the Independent
Gay Forum and not the Independent LBGT&etc Forum.
I feel strongly that "gay," while far from perfect, is an
inclusive term and that if lesbian feminists want to self-segregate
(and often work for women's and lesbian issues in organizations
dedicated to that purpose), so be it. But it doesn't turn "gay"
into a male-only category. Mary Cheney, Ellen DeGeneres, and many
other gay women would seem to agree.
Still more. I found Elizabeth Birch and Hilary
Rosen's
Washington Post op-ed a bit smug and condescending. They
write:
This week we've debated each other over the wrongs we feel her
family and their allies have perpetrated on the gay and lesbian
community and what the impact of her current activities will
be.
I'm not quite sure what wrongs the Cheney clan per se have done
(the veep has distanced himself from the Federal Marriage
Amendment).
Also, following on my point in the update above, Birch and Rosen
insist on calling Mary Cheney a lesbian when she herself uses the
term gay. Apparently, the demand to respect the nomenclature that
an individual favors only works in one direction.