After November's sweeping electoral defeats for gay legal
equality-especially the roll back of marriage equality in
California-caution is in the air. Reports the New York Times,
N.Y. Democrats May Skip Gay Marriage Vote:
After a pledge from New York Democratic leaders that their party
would legalize same-sex marriage if they won control of the State
Senate this year, money from gay rights supporters poured in from
across the country, helping cinch a Democratic victory.
But now, party leaders have sent strong signals that they may not
take up the issue during the 2009 legislative session. Some of them
suggest it may be wise to wait until 2011 before considering it, in
hopes that Democrats can pick up more Senate seats and Gov. David
A. Paterson, a strong backer of gay rights, would then be safely
into a second term.
In other words, although Democrats finally now control the
governorship and both houses of the state legislature, gay marriage
is too contentious to bring up, probably until after the next
election cycle. But what if the Republicans retake the governorship
or the state senate in 2010?
That's also the problem with recent signals from the incoming
Obama administration that it won't
raise repeal of the military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy
anytime soon. And if they wait more than a year, don't count on any
action too close to the next congessional elections in 2010. But
what if Republicans then retake the Senate (and even the House) in
Washington?
Caution is understandable, and the Democratic politicians now
advocating going slow until there is more popular support for our
cause may have a point. That is, if in the meantime a real,
concerted effort is made to build a consensus for, say, advancing
marriage equality for gay people.
That challenge also is behind the debate over whether the
Washington, D.C. city council should pass a same-sex marriage bill.
Although the city's electorate is overwhelmingly Democratic, there
are "issues." As the Washington Blade reports,
Black activists urge caution on D.C. marriage bill:
With blacks making up nearly 57 percent of the population in
D.C., black gay activists said gay marriage supporters must
redouble their efforts to reach out to blacks and other minorities
in the District.
"I don't know if we can obtain the allies to help us defeat a
referendum in the District," said Carlene Cheatam, one of the
founding members of the D.C. Coalition of Black Lesbian, Gay,
Bisexual & Transgender Men & Women. "I'm not worried about
our elected city government," Cheatam said. "They are all
supportive because they equate marriage rights with civil rights.
It's the general population that I'm concerned about."
Cheatam and other black leaders say coalitions and alliances
would have to be built between gays and black community
institutions, including historic black churches, "to educate the
community on why the right to marry is a civil right." (More on
outreach to black voters is offered in this New York Times
op-ed by Charles M. Bow.)
The danger is that November's electoral disaster will be used to
bury efforts to advance gay equality, and that delaying efforts
until after the next election cycle means that, once again, our
issues can be used to solicit gay dollars for Democrats and their
LGBT fundraising fronts in 2010 with the promise that sometime
afterward our rights will be addressed by our elected
representatives. We've heard that song before, too.