America's conservative Christian establishment seems to be
having a crisis of confidence. While gays are not the cause, we
are the most visible symptom of a broader anxiety that continues to
fester among the most dogmatic. Like the Vatican in the 17th
Century, some church leaders have misplaced the center of the
universe, and blame the rest of the world for disagreeing with
their wrongheadedness.
In
Adam, Eve and the Serpent, Elaine Pagels did a good
job of explaining for lay readers (like me) how Christianity, in
its early centuries, became obsessed with sexuality as a moral
issue. Today, heterosexual Christians are more than happy to
forgive themselves their sexual sins, but the echo of those ancient
fears remains. The mysterious and inarguable power of sex cannot
entirely be ignored. But long-established doctrines (and moral
rules) about a woman's obligation to have children, developed in an
age where very fallible contraception was an exception, and not the
nearly universal rule. At that time many, many children did not
live long, and it was not uncommon for mothers to die in
childbirth.
Understandable concerns about survival in older times look
different today; they overvalue procreation, holding it not just as
a good thing, but as the sole moral justification for any sexual
act.
But few, if any heterosexuals today feel sex needs such fine
(and sometimes incoherent) sexual rulemaking. They are comfortable
placing sexual pleasure in a broader context that includes
intimacy, relationship, procreation and even fun.
Despite that reality, the Vatican, in particular, has stood its
theoretical ground. Our sexual guardians either look the other way
(on contraception) or try to finesse their dictatorial impotence by
arguing that sex which is "procreative in form" is good enough for
government work.
Few people appreciate how radical that new formulation is.
While it was designed to patch over the historic inconsistencies of
the procreation rhetoric, which look pretty frayed in the modern
world, its natural (if not its intended) effect is to exclude only
one group entirely from the sexual moral universe: homosexuals.
A relatively insignificant incident yesterday dramatizes how the
religious obsession with sex has morphed into a religious obsession
with - only - homosexuality. The Christian Anti-Defamation
Commission released its
Top Ten incidents of defamation, bigotry and discrimination
against Christians in the U.S. last year. On that list was this
monstrous anti-Christian attack:
The overt homosexual participation in Obama's presidential
inaugural events by "Bishop" Vickie Eugene Robinson, the Gay Men's
Chorus of Washington D. C., and a homosexual marching band.
On its face, this is not much; the gratuitous reference to
Bishop Robinson's given name (which is Vicki, without the "e," and
was in honor of his grandfather, Victor) is juvenile, as are the
disrespectful scare quotes around his formal title. The inclusion
of a gay marching band makes the complaint seem too trivial to be
serious.
But it is dead serious. Think about what this "bigotry"
consists of. At the inauguration of the President (it was actually
an auxiliary event; Rick Warren got pride of place at the
inauguration, itself), a representative of one of the nation's
well-known religions was asked to speak. But that religion has a
different view of God's position on homosexuality than the
CADC.
It is the mere existence of differing theological views about
homosexuality that is the "bigotry" here. Bishop Robinson is not,
himself, being accused of attacking Christianity, nor is any such
claim made about the Gay Men's Chorus or the marching band.
Rather, the bare fact that they were asked to attend (and did) is
"anti-Christian hatred."
The list includes nine other outrages, two more of which involve
homosexuality. But this one stands out. The CADC insists that the
mere presence of openly gay people is not just wrong or even
intolerable, but an attack on Christianity. And the fact that
other Christian religions accept openly gay people is, itself, a
further affront, an exacerbating act of prejudice and defamation
against the non-accepting.
The fact that there are divisions among Christian denominations
- and among believers within specific denominations - is obviously
troubling to those who believe that God intends sexual uniformity.
That uniformity is supposed to be the center of this moral
universe.
But as is so often the case, God is proving more complicated -
even mysterious -- than his stewards can comprehend.
Christianity's anti-sexual bias is in ruins, at least among
heterosexual believers. They can distinguish between sex that
deserves moral condemnation and sex that deserves applause. And
the difference doesn't have to do with whether it's procreative, in
form or anything else.
Having made that distinction for themselves, it's not such a
great leap to see how it might apply to homosexuals, as well.
Perhaps the center of God's moral universe isn't sexuality, but
something else. Perhaps justice, or tolerance or faith or hope
provide the axis of morality, and sex is no more than one planet
spinning around that better center.
Gays are helping everyone see how that might be true. Someday,
maybe, religions could even apologize to us for having got it
wrong.