Gay Marriage ‘the New Abortion’?

That's the assertion conveyed in this Washington Post article. According to the report:

Activists on both sides have begun to speak of the issue [gay marriage] as "the new abortion" -- a passionate and uncompromising struggle that will be fought in Congress, the courts and state legislatures, and through referendums for at least a decade to come.

While I think that the dedicated activist cadres on both sides are as "energized" as in the abortion fight during its heyday, I don't believe there's good evidence that nonactivists, work-a-day conservative Christians are as incited over two folks of the same sex wanting to tie the knot as they are/were over what they viewed as, at best, the selfish sacrifice of innocent life, and at worst as outright baby killing.

"The two sides are also increasingly identified with the Republican and Democratic parties," the Post article states, but then refers to the vice presidential spouse Lynne Cheney saying, "When it comes to conferring legal status on relationships, that is a matter left to the states," which suggests that even staunch conservatives might not all be ready to fall in line, unlike in the abortion debate.

Contra the Post's premise, William Schneider, a resident liberal at the American Enterprise Institute, writes in an article titled "Wedges Failing to Bite" that:

Asked in this month's Gallup Poll to name the most important problems facing the country, Americans put three issues at the top of the list: the economy and jobs (26 percent), Iraq (26 percent), and terrorism (15 percent). No other issue reached double digits. Six percent mentioned moral values. Two percent thought immigration was a top issue. The environment and gay rights barely registered, at 1 percent each. Abortion and guns were even lower.

Which suggests that even abortion isn't the wedge it once was. Schneider continues:

Conservatives are dismayed by the absence of any apparent voter alarm over same-sex marriages. The movement for a constitutional amendment is meeting with widespread apathy.... Voters see big issues at stake this year. And big issues tend to crowd out smaller ones.... Wedge issues, such as same-sex marriage, don't seem to be having much impact this year, because voters are so strongly committed to their choices in the presidential campaign. It's hard to wedge them loose.

But if Democrats love inciting class-war resentments, Republicans are addicted to provoking culture-war hostilities -- and the press will intently keep up the drumbeat for both.

A Rare Agreement with NGLTF.

On the Federal Marriage Amendment, "the statements made by so many senators to explain their votes were discouraging, frequently insulting, and denied many Americans the respect we are due," writes Matt Foreman, head of the left-liberal National Gay & Lesbian Task Force. He continues:

"Not a single senator stood up and said he or she was voting against the amendment because marriage is a fundamental right that same-sex couples should enjoy under the Constitution. If the Senate actually reflected and articulated the views of the American public, at least one-third of them would have actually argued for marriage equality and the basic rights of all Americans."

Actually, I'm told that Ted Kennedy and Mark Dayton of Minnesota were the two (count 'em) senators who did say supportive things about gay marriage.

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Courting Blacks, Dissing Gays.

President Bush went before the Urban League to say that the Democratic Party is taking African Americans for granted, and to suggest they would have more political leverage if they spread their votes around. But he admitted that the Republican Party "has got a lot of work to do" to improve its paltry support among minority voters, reports the Washington Post.

I'm not the first to note the willful blindness that leads George W. not to see that the same appeal could apply to gays. But rather than seeking to expand our support, which overwhelmingly goes to Democrats, Bush (and strategist Karl Rove) have decided the bloc of 1 million gay votes he received in 2000 is expendable.

The Court-Stripping Measure.

Somewhat obscured in the aftermath of the Senate vote-down of the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment, the House last week voted thumbs up for a bill that seeks to strip federal courts of jurisdiction to hear challenges to parts of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) pertaining to whether a state must recognize same-sex unions legalized elsewhere.

I find it doubtful that federal courts would find constitutional a bill limiting their jurisdiction, presuming the Senate went along with this measure. But even so, despite the anti-gay animus behind this attempt, letting state legislatures and courts decide whether to recognize marriages performed elsewhere has long been the standard (a Supreme Court ruling was necessary to specifically bar miscegenation as a reason states could refuse to recognize marriages).

So I'm not up in arms over this new bill. In fact, if a federal court were to rule that state x must recognize a Massachusetts same-sex marriage, it would swiftly reinvigorate the push for the Federal Marriage Amendment (with far more devastating results), as well as for even more state constitutional amendments barring recognition of our marriages.

Maybe I'm wrong not to be upset by this court-jurisdiction bill; time will tell.

Money for Nothin’.

Columnist Bob Roehr hits the nail on the head in his analysis of the Senate's marriage vote. He writes:

Most Democrats harped on the fact that, gasp, the Republicans were playing politics with the issue; all the while promoting their own set of political priorities. There was not a lot of defense of the gay community -- one of its most loyal constituencies in terms of votes, workers, and dollars -- which may signal a rocky future for that relationship.

Indeed, I'd be hard pressed to recall a single defense of gay marriage as a social good from the party that takes our money (yes, yes, the Republicans are worse; but we don't fund them).

Roehr goes on to note:

The Kerry/Edwards Democratic presidential team skipped the FMA vote, the only Senators to do so. The campaign staff said that Kerry was in Boston "preparing" for the Democratic National Convention.... During the preceding month the Kerry/Edwards campaign raked in over $600,000 at gay fundraisers in Boston and New York.

The day after the FMA vote Kerry was in Philadelphia at the NAACP convention. He criticized George W. Bush for claiming that a scheduling conflict kept him from addressing that group.

Can Sen. Kerry spell HYPOCRISY? As Roehr comments, perhaps we're just supposed to be grateful they're taking our dollars.

Dale Carpenter has more to say about this in "No Excuse for Kerry"

The Anti-Arnolds Take Offense.

California Democrats and left-leaning gay activists are up in arms over a quip last weekend by Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger, one of the most pro-gay governors in the nation (just how many top Democrats have gone on national TV and said they have "no problem" with legal gay marriage?).

In a speech about the state's stalled budget, Schwarzenegger joked of the Democrat-controlled legislature: "[i]f they don't have the guts to come up here in front of you and say, 'I don't want to represent you, I want to represent those special interests, the unions, the trial lawyers' ... if they don't have the guts, I call them girlie men."

The phrase, of course, comes from an old recurring "Saturday Night Live" skit in which Arnold-style, Austrian-accented body builders say it ubiquitously. But now out come the language police, declaring that the governor's use of the SNL parody line, in which he's making fun of his own reputation for muscleheadedness, is "homophobic" and "sexist."

"It's really painful to hear the governor resort to such blatant homophobia," Sen. Sheila Kuehl (D-Santa Monica), an open lesbian, told the Los Angeles Times, doing her best to parody a hopeless politically correct, censorious, grievance-collecting liberal. "There are many people who are very upset and think he owes an apology to women and to the gay community," said gay Assemblyman Mark Leno, D-San Francisco. I'm just waiting for the governor's liberal opponents to label his jibe racist and anti-poor, but I'm sure they're working on that one, too.

Democrats are now using the brouhaha to fight the governor's budget reforms and defend their gutless pork-barrel ways. "Why would I possibly call him?" said Democratic Senate leader John Burton. "Why in God's name would I call him? I mean, I'm not that much of a girlie man."

Comments Log Cabin California's Jeff Bissiri:

"The Governor's use of the term 'girlie man' was not a slur aimed at the gay and lesbian community and Senator Kuehl knows that", Bissiri stated. "Where was her outrage when the [Democratic gubernatorial candidate Cruz] Bustamante campaign referred to candidate Schwarzenegger as a 'sissy' for not agreeing to an endless series of debates?" Bissiri added.

Where indeed? For his part, Schwarzenegger now says the legislators are "acting like children" (whoops, call out the Children's Defense League) in order to protect the trial lawyers, unions and other special interests who are dug in at the Capitol "like Alabama ticks" (let's add the ASPCA and the Alabama Cultural Heritage Committee to the list of offendees).

Conservatives Against the Amendment.

Former Georgia Congressman Bob Barr, author of the Defense of Marriage Act, explains why conservatives should be glad the Federal Marriage Amendment failed:

the FMA -- had it been ratified -- would have neutered state authority. Moreover, it would have done so in order to promote a certain brand of social conservatism. I might agree with many of the tenets of this type of social conservatism, but I also believe that these should be promoted through lengthy and democratic deliberation -- not imposed without such deliberation, and especially not imposed by Washington.

And Lyn Nofziger, Ronald Reagan's former press secretary, takes a similar view:

Prohibition aside, efforts to limit freedom by way of constitutional amendments generally have failed, for the reasons that they intrude on state's rights, they are not necessary or their purposes are to limit freedom. ...
On other matters Ronald Reagan used to say that the great thing about America was that a person could vote with his feet. That is, if he didn't like the situation in his town or state he was free to move. This, it seems to me, applies to this issue, too. If you don't like the way your town, state or church deals with homosexual issues and you feel really, really strongly about it you can move.

A constitutional amendment would take that right away from me -- and you. And, while I don't know about you, I am not prepared willingly to accept that possibility.

Some conservatives actually do stick to their principles, even when this leads them not to take the partisan anti-gay position.
--Stephen H. Miller

GOP Losing the Future.

Writing in the New York Post, Ryan Sager explains why the Bush/Rove strategy of genuflecting to the religious right may drive away the next generation of voters. Of the GOP, he writes:

its leadership may well come to realize that gay marriage was the wrong territory on which to plant their flag.... The Republicans have put themselves on the wrong side of a generation gap. And it won't be easily papered over as today's young voters age into older voters -- who are more likely to show up at the polls.

When it's one of your first presidential elections -- as it is for me -- it's no trivial matter that voting Republican means a vote for a party catering to the worst prejudices about our brothers, sisters, friends from high school, college roommates, co-workers, bosses, drinking buddies and the like.

I'm not sure I can do it. And, if it weren't for the War on Terror, I know few for whom it would even be a question.

And for what purpose? As the Los Angeles Times reports:

For all the attention from the White House, some social conservative leaders are complaining that Bush and others in his administration were too measured in their support for a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage....

Some conservative activists also are protesting that their most prominent allies have not been given prime speaking spots at next month's Republican National Convention....

"It appears the president has extraordinary passion on his issue, but it doesn't seem that the passion is matched across his administration," said David Zanotti, president of the Ohio Roundtable, an advocacy group for "traditional Judeo-Christian philosophies."

Note to K. Rove: Short of declaring a theocracy, there really is no way to win over the support of these extremists. But I'm sure you'll keep trying.

Family Values.

Also noted in the same LA Times piece:

[Vice President] Cheney and his wife, Lynne, devoted much time on a recent bus tour through battleground states to talking about values and family. Speaking before partisan, conservative crowds, they introduced their 10-year-old granddaughter and celebrated the birth of their first grandson, children of their other daughter, Elizabeth. But they did not introduce Mary -- a full-time campaign staffer who accompanied them on the tour.

Mary, of course, being the out lesbian of the family.

The Other Critics of Gay Marriage.

Let's not forget that a segment of the gay left has never come onboard the marriage fight. Writes gay "progressive" Michael Bronski in The Boston Phoenix:

Alongside the well-worn plea for gay cultural liberation is emerging a critique of gay marriage based on class rather than culture. Indeed, the push to legalize same-sex marriage has been so rushed and emotionally heady...that complicated legal issues with particular implications for the working poor and people of color were quite simply ignored.

...in the Boston College Law Review, lawyers Kara S. Suffredini and Madeleine V. Findley argue persuasively that while same-sex marriage will provide advantages to some people -- those with incomes that are middle class or higher -- it could have deleterious effects on other groups. Suffredini and Findley examine a myriad of commonly accepted myths about the benefits of same-sex marriage and discover that, often, they deliver far less than they promise, especially if you are poor....

...the simple fact remains that the fight for marriage equality is at its essence not a progressive fight, but rather a deeply conservative one.

Oh, the horror of gays working for mere legal equality, rather than to undermine capitalism and patriarchy!
--Stephen H. Miller

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One Day After.

They couldn't even get a majority for cloture. Final vote, 48-50. Three Democrats voted for the marriage ban amendment (including extreme homophobe Robert Byrd of W. Va.), while six Republicans crossed party lines to vote it down.

The very conservative Wall Street Journal editorial page, surprisingly, came out against the amendment. Along with Lynne Cheney's apostasy, it's evidence of further cracks on the right.

The only two senators not voting: Kerry and Edwards. The AP daybook placed Kerry at home in Boston -- not on the campaign trail, but not showing up in the Senate to vote on a proposed constitutional amendment. The great gay hope? Puleeeze.

Not voting may prove to have been a poor idea. Kerry's big problem is being seen as a waffler who tries to have it both ways -- voting for the war then against funding it, etc. Now add to the list that he opposed the Federal Marriage Amendment but not enough to vote against it. It's a matter of principle, and Kerry is principle-deficient. But his strategists no doubt took a narrower view, surmising there'd be no gain from voting against the ban (the gay vote is sown up tighter than a drum), and no pain for not voting against it. The politics of the free ride triumphs again.

I often hear, why do you hold Kerry to such a higher standard than the Republicans (in language not so polite). The reason is that we as a community are giving Kerry our money, labor and votes, that's why! If you buy a car from dealer A, you expect to have the car delivered. You kind of expect that dealer B across the street won't be giving you a car. But if dealer A fails to follow through, or provides a cheaper model (he figures he can get away with it because, in fact, dealer B doesn't much like your kind), you still have a right to feel cheated.