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"Anniversary" Reading.This week, you might want to read, or re-read, Bruce Bawer's Tolerating Intolerance: The Challenge of Fundamentalist Islam in Western Europe, in Partisan Review. Bawer touches on a range of issue posed by fundamentalist Islam in Western Europe, including its virulent homophobia:

many Muslim youngsters in the Netherlands attend private Islamic academies (many of which receive subsidies from the Dutch state as well as from the governments of one or more Islamic countries). These schools reinforce the Koran-based sexual morality learned at home"one that allows polygamy (for men), that prescribes severe penalties for female adulterers and rape victims (though not necessarily for rapists), and that (in the fundamentalist reading, anyway) demands that homosexuals be put to death. If fundamentalist Muslims in Europe do not carry out these punishments, it is not because they"ve advanced beyond such thinking, but because they don't have the power. Like Christian Reconstructionists, a small U.S. sect that wishes to make harsh Old Testament punishments the law of the land, fundamentalist Muslims"whose numbers are, of course, many times larger"believe firmly in the implementation of scriptural penalties.

Another example of how Muslim leaders "have been less and less shy about advertising" their anti-gay views:

In 1999, for example, the Guardian described a student conference on "Islamophobia" at King's College, London, at which a speaker began by announcing politely, "I am a gay Muslim." That effectively ended his presentation: "For members of the majority Muslim audience, the expression was enough to ignite the most passionate opposition. Some people began to shout, while others came raging down to confront the speaker. Security was called and the conference came to a premature end."

Then, in October 1999, the Shari"ah Court of the U.K. declared a fatwa against Terence McNally, who in his play Corpus Christi had depicted Jesus Christ as gay. (In Islam, Jesus is counted among the prophets.) Signing the death order, judge Sheikh Omar Bakri Muhammed emphasized the concept of honor, charging that the Church of England, by failing to take action against McNally, had "neglected the honour of the Virgin Mary and Jesus." The Daily Telegraph reported that according to the sheikh, "Islamic law states that Mr. McNally can only escape the fatwa by becoming a Muslim. . . . If he simply repents he would still be executed, but his family would be cared for by the Islamic state carrying out the sentence and he could be buried in a Muslim graveyard."

Writing of a dinner with Dutch friends, however, Bawer recounts:

Criticizing any kind of Islam at all, I gathered, felt too much to them like voicing racial or ethnic prejudice. While freely condemning Protestant fundamentalism"which hardly exists nowadays in that once strictly Calvinist country"they couldn't bring themselves to breathe a negative word about Islamic fundamentalism. There was no logic in this; but the Dutch were clearly still at a point where it seemed possible, and easier, simply to avoid such uncomfortable issues.

His conclusion:

As for those who, after a period in the West, make it obvious that they are unwilling or unable to adapt, they must be sent home and replaced by deserving individuals who can adapt. This may appear extreme, but there is no reasonable alternative. For at stake in all this, ultimately, are the basic freedoms of all Westerners -- not only women and homosexuals, but everyone, including Muslims and former Muslims who wish to live in a place where they can be themselves. At stake, indeed, is Western civilization.

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Explaining Myself. A reader shares the following:

I find your columns on the Independent Gay Forum smart and refreshing. However, the jabs at what you call "the gay left" are just divisive and unnecessary. We shouldn't lower ourselves to that level -- even if our adversaries do.

Here's how I responded (after thanking him for his positive comments):

While I understand your point, I can't say I concur. Politically speaking, there is a gay left, which dominates gay political discourse. While most gays are moderate liberals, in the political center, or on the center-right, it is the gay left that has become situated as our institutional voice.

In the marketplace of ideas, vigorous debate is a good thing. And part of debating ideas is to identify the viewpoints being represented. I happen to believe that gay leftists, while they may call themselves "progressives," are actually quite reactionary -- politically speaking, it's a perspective that supports backward-focused socialist economics and, frankly, illiberal policies (speech codes, group-based quotas, etc.). To challenge it, one must call it what it is. I don't mean to be confrontational for the sake of being confrontational. But neither should forthright debate be curtailed.

Another letter commented on a posting about Bill Simon's race for California governor, in which I mentioned the poor record on gay issues of another conservative from the Golden State, Ronald Reagan. I had written, "Can you imagine Ronald Reagan supporting gay adoptions or any kind of domestic partnerships?" The reader berated me for ignoring Reagan's opposition to a voter initiative that sought to ban gays from teaching in the state's public schools. The reader wrote:

It seems peculiar for you to say this without noting that Reagan played a key role in defeating the anti-gay Briggs Initiative in 1978. Comparable? Perhaps not. But Reagan was a man of his time, and during his years there was no serious discussion of gay adoptions or partnership rights.

I replied:

Of course you're right. It had slipped my mind about Reagan's opposition to the Briggs initiative. I was, however, mindful of Reagan's silence on AIDS, and his alliance building with the religious right. As president, he chose to ignore the gay political movement that was becoming a major political force, as if it simply didn't exist.

It's fascinating to me that so many conservative Republicans just don't understand that being perceived as "anti-gay" now has a significant downside. Bob Dole, while running against Bill Clinton, seemed totally taken aback by the brouhaha when he returned a check from the Log Cabin Republicans (LCR) and it cost him moderate support by making him look like a bigot. While campaigning in the primaries, George W. Bush was apparently unprepared to answer a straight-forward question on whether he'd meet with gay Republicans, saying no during a live interview (when his campaign had indicated yes), and then seeing controversy develop. And hapless Bill Simon thinks he can say one thing to LCR, and another to Lou Sheldon of the Traditional Values Coalition, and that no one is going to notice.

They are simply mystified that the political ground has shifted. It reminds me of the movie "Spartacus," when a shaken Roman general sputters to Laurence Olivier, when reporting his defeat to the rebel forces, "But they were just...slaves."

--Stephen H. Miller

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Invitation Rescinded. A follow-up to the item below on Bill Simon's mismanaged attempt to placate religious conservatives. The AP also reports that Simon was axed from a list of planned speakers at a gay GOP fund-raiser scheduled for later this week. The Republican Unity Coalition event starring Mary Cheney -- the lesbian daughter of Vice President Dick Cheney -- is expected to raise $1 million for "Big Tent" Republican candidates for the House and Senate who are viewed as supportive of gay inclusion. Said an RUC statement:

It is hugely disappointing to us to see Bill Simon bow under the pressure of a small fringe group who evidently yanked his chain hard the first time he reached out to us and to all voters in the middle, where elections are won.

I don't know the details, or if Simon signaled an unwillingness to personally attend. If the RUC folks gave him the boot (as the press accounts seem to suggest), they may have felt that a strong response, with some political pain, is the only way to ensure that conservative candidates don't think the religious right is the only constituency they need be concerned about. But in general, making Simon stand up and defend his positions in front of a gay-friendly audience, if he were willing to do so, would otherwise seem like a good thing.
--Stephen H. Miller

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The Worm Turns. As for my earlier, moderately encouraging posting about California GOP gubernatorial candidate Bill Simon, I can only say one thing: Never mind. After reports that Simon had made some positive responses to a Log Cabin Republicans questionnaire, the candidate has run scared. Seeking the good graces of the Rev. Lou Sheldon of the fiercely anti-gay Traditional Values Coalition, Simon disavowed the LCR questionnaire, which he now claims he never saw.


As the AP reports, on the questionnaire Simon (or someone authorized to respond on his behalf) had pledged to declare a Gay Pride Day if elected, said he supported "domestic partnership" laws if they're not based on sexual orientation, and promised to uphold a variety of gay-friendly laws and regulations. He also supported adoptions by gay couples.


But reportedly "under intense pressure from the religious right," he caved. In a letter from Simon that's posted on the Traditional Values Coalition website, the candidate seems to oppose gay adoptions, is against a pride proclamation, and otherwise takes pains to let the religious right know he's one of them.


Now, to be fair, the letter is not full of hateful rhetoric, and in some ways seems deliberately vague. Simon believes:

"the best family environment for a child is a home with a mother and father".We know that there is a good supply of such homes waiting for children"Also, I oppose legislation imposing sexual orientation training guidelines for foster parents."

But, of course, there are children that remain unwanted, unloved, and unadopted (most of those upstanding heterosexual couples Simon reveres only seem to want healthy white newborns). Would Simon seek to outlaw gay adoptions -- he doesn't exactly say so.


And as for gay marriage, Bill Clinton was against that, too. And while I think annual pride proclamations by government officials can promote inclusion and respect, equal treatment under the law should be a far higher priority than symbolic esteem-boosters.

Simon's letter also said he'd "hire the most qualified," presumably regardless of sexual orientation, and that he had no objection to private companies having partnerships.


However, I"m not letting Simon off the hook. Kowtowing to Lou Sheldon is just as bad as a liberal kowtowing to Al Sharpton. Simon had a chance to be a leader, to show that a believer in less expansive government, and an opponent of excessive regulation and taxation, could also be progressive on gay issues (and, by the way, I consider all those views to be progressive, in that they emphasis individual liberty and personal choice). Instead, Simon is seeking to placate the most reactionary forces in the party. He has, so it seems, chosen to embrace the past at the expense of the future.
--Stephen H. Miller

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Non-Spousal Rights (or, Brotherly Love). The San Francisco Chronicle reports that, in responding to a Log Cabin Republican questionnaire, Bill Simon, the GOP's candidate for California governor, came out in favor of domestic partnerships, gay adoption, and the executive order protecting state employees. He's against gay marriage. And even on partnerships, he"d prefer that they not be defined specifically to recognize same-sex relationships. Here's how he put it:

"Let's not premise this thing on having the government go in your bedroom," Simon told a caller on the Ronn Owens KGO radio show. "What happens if my brother and I . . . why couldn't we be domestic partners, if we both lost our wives?" Asked by Ownes if he was proposing such laws for incestuous relationships, Simon said definitively he was not -- but for "any people who want to have a special relationship and set it forth in a contract, I'd look at that."

That's weak, or course. At best, domestic partnerships should be a stop gap that provides an avenue for same-sex couples to obtain something approaching spousal rights, while denied full equality to enter into marriages. As IGF contributor Jonathan Rauch and others have noted, opening up DPs to relationships that don't aspire to be spousal is to weaken the concept that spouses deserve special recognition and reinforcement. "Roommate rights," or recognizing a son and his widowed mother, or two siblings, as somehow "spousal," is nothing less than a frontal assault on the idea of spousal uniqueness -- all in order NOT to recognize gay partners as deserving the dignity of spouses.


Having said this, however, I"d argue it is still progress that Simon, as a candidate of the GOP rightwing, has come as far as he has. Can you imagine Ronald Reagan supporting gay adoptions, or any kind of partnership rights?

Better Off Dead? Harvard Law School, threatened with losing the millions of dollars in government funding that Harvard University as a whole receives, has agreed to finally allow the U.S. military to recruit on its campus. Originally banned in the Vietnam era, the military was kept away more recently to show the law school's opposition to the "don't ask, don't tell" policy. True, "lie and hide" is unjustified and odious, but at a time when we are fighting against a worldwide terrorist network that wants to murder as many of us as it can, is it too much to expect the eggheads get their priorities, well, straight? Yes, keep up the lobbying against "don't ask." But keeping the military from recruiting the best and the brightest (that is, working to weaken the military) was politically perverse. That Harvard had to be financially blackmailed into letting the military recruit says volumes about the myopia of the liberal-left elite.

Community, Heal Thyself. There's a scathing attack on gay life, not from the religious right, but from a gay talk-show host and writer named Charles Karel Bouley II, in The Advocate:

It's 2002 and gay men are still drugging themselves silly, having unsafe sex, and turning themselves into living Billy dolls. If the religious right has a preconceived notion of who and what gay people are, maybe it's because we have fed it to them.

I can't say I agree with all of his rant. If the gay left revels in its antipathy to middle-class normality, Bouley goes to the other extreme and apparently sees no shadow whatsoever in suburban conformism. But he does score some points, especially about drug use and unsafe sex 20 years(!) into the age of AIDS. In any event, it's refreshing to see someone insist that we take responsibility for how we're perceived, rather than simply blaming the "bigots" for every negative image of gay folks that still lingers in the heartland.

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Right-wing Wrath. You know you"re winning the culture wars when the anti-gay right starts criticizing Bill O"Reilly, conservative host of Fox TV's high-rated "O"Reilly Factor," for being too accommodating to gays. Here's a rant titled Even Bill O'Reilly Is Part of the Media's "Gay Spin Zone", from the right-wing Culture and Family Institute. Writes the CFI's Stephen Bennett:

O"Reilly has even said that he's "on the side of the angels" in opposing bans on homosexual adoption. (This was in regard to the state law in Florida that lesbian comedian Rosie O"Donnell and her friends in the liberal media have targeted for elimination.) Sad to say, one by one, even conservative stalwarts in the media are caving in to the homosexuals" grand, sinister plan.

Don't tell the gay left, though. They think things are only getting worse!

Another Sign of Progress. A serious contender for the Los Angeles Police Department's top job, David Kalish, is gay, and that's no big deal, reports the San Francisco Chronicle story. According to the report, Kalish, now a deputy chief,

seems to be one of the few among the dozens of candidates for the $240,000-a-year job who appears to be not only well-liked both inside and outside the department, but to have made no major enemies along the way. "He's commanded thousands and thousands of officers, and he's always been successful," says [L.A. City Council member Jack] Weiss, a staunch supporter. "Kalish is known for having a strong relationship with everybody. His orientation just is not an issue."

I don't know if Kalish will be named chief, and given the competition he probably won"t. But being seriously considered is a far cry from what a gay candidate could have expected just a few short years ago. (And it's a happier case of our new inclusion than, say, Michael Kopper being accepted by the top execs of Enron as part of their inner cabal.)

--Stephen H. Miller

Israel, Palestine, and Gays

Originally appeared August 28, 2002, in the Chicago Free Press.

LET'S TAKE A QUIZ. No peeking at the answers directly below.

1. Which Middle Eastern country has no sodomy laws nor uses vague charges such as "offenses against religion" or "immoral conduct" to prosecute and imprison gays and lesbians?

2. Which Middle Eastern country has a variety of gay organizations which safely conduct gay advocacy efforts?

3. Which Middle Eastern country has a gay and lesbian community center in its capital city?

4. Which Middle Eastern country holds annual Gay Pride parades?

5. Which Middle Eastern country has members of parliament who actively support and speak out on behalf of gays and lesbians?

6. In which Middle Eastern country did the head of state meet with gay activists?

7. Which Middle Eastern country lets gays and lesbians join its military services?

8. Which Middle Eastern country has broadcast programs about gays and lesbians on its television stations?

9. And a bonus question: When gays in Palestine are forced to flee persecution, what Middle Eastern country do they usually flee to?

Answers:

  1. Israel
  2. Israel
  3. Israel
  4. Israel
  5. Israel
  6. Israel
  7. Israel
  8. Israel
  9. Israel

The contrasting treatment of gay men in neighboring Arab countries such as Saudi Arabia and Egypt is well known: Gays are beheaded or sentenced to long prison terms.

What seems less well known, however, is the appalling treatment of gays under Yassir Arafat's Palestinian Authority in the West Bank and Gaza. At least it was less known until Yossi Klein Halevi wrote about it in the August 19th New Republic. Palestine makes rural Texas look like San Francisco.

According to Halevi, one young man discovered to be gay was forced by Palestinian Authority police "to stand in sewage water up to his neck, his head covered by a sack filled with feces, and then he was thrown into a dark cell infested with insects." During one interrogation Palestinian police stripped him and forced him to sit on a Coke bottle.

When he was released he fled to Israel. If he were forced to return to Gaza, he said, "The police would kill me."

An American who foolishly moved into the West Bank to live with his Palestinian lover said they told everyone they were just friends, but one day they "found a letter under our door from the Islamic court. It listed the five forms of death prescribed by Islam for homosexuality, including stoning and burning. We fled to Israel that same day," he said.

The head of a Tel Aviv gay organization told Halevi, "The persecution of gays in the Palestinian Authority doesn't just come from the families or the Islamic groups, but from the P.A. itself."

Palestinian police have increasingly enforced Islamic religion law, he said: "It's now impossible to be an open gay in the P.A." He recalled that one gay man in the Palestinian police went to Israel for a short time. When he returned to the West Bank, Palestinian Authority police confined him to a pit without food or water until he died.

A 17-year-old gay youth recalled that he spent months in a Palestinian Authority prison "where interrogators cut him with glass and poured toilet cleaner into his wounds."

The U.S. State Department, which more and more seems to be living on some other planet, blandly noted in a 2001 human rights report, "In the Palestinian territories homosexuals generally are socially marginalized and occasionally receive physical threats." That's one way to put it.

In the last few years, Halevi reports, hundreds of gay Palestinians, mostly from the West Bank, have fled to Israel, usually to Tel Aviv, Israel's most cosmopolitan city. Many are desperately poor, he says, "but at least they're beyond the reach of their families and the P.A."

So it seems clear that Israel is the one country in the region in which gays have legal rights as citizens and live in safety and freedom.

Oddly, however, some gays and lesbians over on the anti-capitalist ("progressive") left sympathize with Palestinian terrorists and support the Palestinian Authority. One such fledgling group calls itself "Queers for Palestine," another is named "Queers Undermining Israeli Terrorism" (as if trying to stop terrorism against Israeli civilians is itself terrorism).

To be sure, no one should argue that gays and lesbians must support Israel just because it is vastly more gay-friendly. They don't. They may feel that some other political principles are more important than gay-friendliness.

But gays who support Palestine, and they seem almost entirely on the far reaches of the political left, give the lie to the frequent demand made by gays on the left that the rest of us must support some "progressive" politician or position because it supposedly benefits gays, even though doing so would compromise or violate some basic political principle we as individuals may hold.

Keep "Queers for Palestine" in mind next time some gay left advocate says that because you are gay you have to support some approved "gay" position. And remember the pit, the sewer water, the bag of feces and the toilet bowl cleaner.

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Let the Light Shine Forth. Last Sunday's Washington Post, in Church's Growing Flock Changes Heart of Texas, gave an inspiring look at the Cathedral of Hope in Dallas, described as "the largest predominantly gay church in the United States, and possibly the world," with more than 3,500 members, "about half of whom attend services on a typical Sunday morning." In what may be the ultimate story of gay and lesbian assimilation,

It's a scene straight from Middle America: There is laughter all around and hugs and kisses, too, and after the offertory and communion and much greeting and good cheer, the faithful file happily out of church -- men holding hands with men and women holding hands with women.

But there's always shadow in the presence of light, and so, wouldn't you just know it,

The Christian right and anti-gay groups have trained their ire on the church, picketing outside and occasionally infiltrating the sanctuary to shout slogans. "I'd call it a synagogue of Satan," said John Reyes, head of the Dallas office of Operation Rescue/Operation Save America. "It's a monstrosity."

Nevertheless,

as the church has tripled and quadrupled in size, the critics have been able to muster only a dozen or 20 protesters sporadically. The Cathedral of Hope, its services protected by a pair of uniformed police and a sprinkling of officers in plain clothes, has shrugged and moved on.

Funny that when gay activists disrupt the church services of denominations viewed as homophobic, conservative pundits are quick to condemn (and usually rightfully so, although some acts of "bearing witness" by gays who are actual members of these churches may be a different matter). But when religious right activists, enraged by hate and zeal, disrupt gay church services, where's the conservatives" outrage?
--Stephen H. Miller

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Arafat's "Queer" Brigade. The Forward newspaper presents an even-handed account of opposing views in the gay community on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, in Gays Are Divided on Mideast Strife.The paper reports:

Emmaia Gelman, a member of Queers for Palestine, a New York-based activist group that she said has some 20 to 30 members, said gays and lesbians are disproportionately represented in leadership roles in pro-Palestinian activist groups.

"Queer activism has traditionally fought to recognize the parallels between all kinds of oppression that are based on identity and on the wish of a government or society to repress a certain kind of people, or to erase people from the public dialogue or public space whose existence is inconvenient," Gelman said. "And so in that way there are enormous parallels between the queer liberation struggle and Palestinian struggle for human rights."

Well, that's one point of view. Fortunately, reporter Daniel Treiman also interviewed IGF contributor and LA Times columnist Norah Vincent, who

said her support for Israel in its conflict with the Palestinians "has nothing really to do with being gay, it has to do with notions of freedom and democracy." She did say, however, that the relatively advanced status of women and gays in Israel is indicative of why Israel is worthy of support.

Finally, the story quotes the Village Voice's Richard Goldstein, who pens attacks on gays who are out of lockstep with the left. Goldstein called Vincent's characterization of the gay left's attitudes toward Israel "an outrageous libel" and claimed he has never heard of Queers Undermining Israeli Terrorism (QUIT) or Queers for Palestine. Does that mean he doesn't read this site?

Palestinian "Liberation": Redux The New Republic's mortifying account of the arrest and torture of gay Palestinians by Arafat's forces (summarized in my Aug. 13 posting) is now online at the magazine's website. Read it for yourself. But don't expect Arafat's "useful idiots" on the gay left to see the light. They're the ideological descendants of the same ilk that celebrated Mao, Fidel, and Uncle Ho (and before that, Uncle Joe).

Was Pim Fortuyn Right? The gay Dutch politician, assassinated while making a credible run to become that nation's prime minister, warned that unchecked immigration posed a real threat to women's rights and gay equality. For this, he was condemned as "intolerant" and called a "racist." But read Mark Steyn's commentary in Canada's National Post about the blinkers worn by multiculturalism's proponents. He notes that "even in the face of the crudest assaults on its most cherished causes -- women's rights, gay rights -- the political class turns squeamishly away." Moreover he dares to assert, "I believe Western culture -- rule of law, universal suffrage, etc. -- is preferable to Arab culture." I support immigration, but with assimilation. Without it, like a Hindu widow, we're slowly climbing on the funeral pyre of our lost empires." It's a controversial piece, to be sure, but one whose arguments cannot simply be dismissed.
--Stephen H. Miller

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Super Tuesday. As you probably know by now, in Tuesday's Georgia primaries both the anti-gay right and the loony left took hits, which is a victory for sanity in the political sphere. First, Rep. Bob Barr, the thrice-married defender of family values and the lead force behind passage of the dreadful Defense of Marriage Act (which forbids federal government recognition of gay unions, among other nice things), lost to Rep. John Linder, also a conservative Republican, but one who doesn't specialize in gay-bashing (redistricting had pitted the two incumbents against each other). On the eve of the race, Barr accused Linder of "supporting the gay agenda," which was nonsense, but shows that Barr was continuing his malignant ways up till the end.

Also on Tuesday, Rep. Cynthia McKinney was soundly defeated by challenger Denise Majette. McKinney notoriously charged that the Bush administration knew of impending terrorist attacks before September 11 but did nothing to stop them, presumably because, as she added, "persons close to this administration are poised to make huge profits off America's new war." On Monday, according to Atlanta media, McKinney's father and patron, state Rep. Billy McKinney, dismissed Majette's candidacy and spelled out the reason for his daughter's tough fight: "J-E-W-S," he said on television. And on it goes. Oh, she was a supporter of gay rights, too. Big deal. Good Riddance.

We"re Everywhere! Much of the print and broadcast coverage on the guilty plea by former Enron executive Michael Kopper noted that he and his domestic partner profited from some rather shady dealings. For instance, Reuters reports that "In the "Chewco" deal that ultimately led Enron to restate its earnings to the tune of $591 million in November, Kopper and his domestic partner William Dodson earned $7 million from Enron for a $125,000 investment." The fact that Kopper is gay has been treated in a simple, straight-forward manner, as far as I can tell. But perhaps it will give the gay left another reason to condemn our "assimilation" into the mainstream!

They Just Won't "QUIT." More anti-Israeli lunacy from the gay left this week. According to an account on the sf.indymedia.org website:

"About 25 queer settlers descended on a downtown Berkeley Starbucks on Saturday, August 17, claiming Berkeley as "a city without people for people without a city." The group, organized by Queers Undermining Israeli Terrorism (QUIT!), posted a banner proclaiming the reclaimed caf" "Queerkeley -- A Prophecy Fulfilled." They also erected" signs reading, "It Works In Palestine, Why Not Here?" and "It's Ours Because We Say So." They erected plastic palm trees to "make the concrete bloom," and gave patrons a tract explaining their religious claim to the land as follows: "Land of fruits and nuts "" "

The report continues:

"The group selected Starbucks for the location of their first settlement in Berkeley because Starbucks founder and CEO, Howard Shultz, is a major supporter of the Israeli state and the corporation has become the prime target of an international boycott of corporations with ties to Israel."

Wow, an anti-Israel and anit-corporation demo all in one!

The "queer" left's demonizing of Israel and romanticizing of the Palestinian "liberation movement" is even more repellant given recent revelations of the arrest and brutal torture of gays by the Palestinian Authority (see the Aug. 13 posting, below).
--Stephen H. Miller