Jay Leno's joking about a male-to-female transsexual has the
National Transgender Advocacy Coalition (NTAC) in high dudgeon,
planetout.com
reports. The transsexual activists criticized the Tonight Show
host for "prime time dehumanizing of transsexuals," adding that
"Destroying the positive impact our community makes, simply for the
purpose of gratuitous laughter, serves to objectify transgender
people and crush their hope."
Leno's offense was in reference to a male-to-female transsexual
recently honored as Woman of the Year in San Francisco. Leno joked
that the California Assembly "awarded a man who had a sex change as
its Woman of the Year. When he accepted the award, he said there
was a part of him that didn't want to accept it, but that's gone
now."
Now, I admit Leno should have said "she" rather than "he." But
were Leno's remarks really "dehumanizing"? Being ribbed by Leno is
arguably a sign of your identity group's acceptance into pop
culture, that you're no longer unmentionable. Moreover, the facts
of what happens during a sex change operation are always going to
make a lot of people queasy; jokes such as Leno's are a way of
acknowledging this with humor.
But even if you think the joke offensive, the tone of the
activists' protest statement is overwrought and counterproductive.
For instance, NTAC goes on to claim:
"Violence like the type [murdered California transsexual Gwen
Araujo] experienced is the end effect of the sort of dehumanizing
treatment of transgender people that NBC has displayed with their
choice of programming and Jay Leno's choice of seemingly harmless
humor."
Exaggerated hyperbole of the type NTAC displays is what causes
people to dismiss activists as ideological dogmatic grievance
collectors, rather than people whom it might be worthwhile to talk
with.
Oh, and NTAC also wants conservative commentator Michael
Savage's MSNBC show taken off the air, in case he should say
something offensive about transsexuals on his show (which, to date,
has not mentioned gays or transsexuals).
Book Review: Bean Ball
Billy Bean, the former major league baseball player who came out
of the closet a few years ago, now tells his story in
Going the Other Way, just published by Marlowe. He says
he's much happier living quietly in Miami with his partner than he
ever was playing the game he loved while staying in the closet.
Dodgers manager Tommy Lasorda used to call him "Billy Bean, Billy
Bean, the boy of every girl's dream." And judging by the cover
picture, the dream of a few boys as well. But he also describes
Lasorda's homophobic jokes in the locker room, even while Tommy's
own son was dying of AIDS.
The emotional high point of the book is the day that his first
lover, Sam, collapsed in their San Diego home. Although Sam had
AIDS, he had not seemed to be at such risk. Billy raced him to the
hospital and insisted that "I AM his family." But Sam died about 6
a.m. After which Billy went home and called his mother--who thought
Sam was just a friend. Mom came over to console him, still unaware
of the depth of his loss, and urged him to pull himself together
and get down to the 11 a.m. City Hall celebration for the team.
After the event, he drove a teammate up to Anaheim for that night's
game, ran out of gas on the way, got to the game late, got a hit,
and then got sent down to the minors--about 28 hours after he first
found Sam in distress, and all without having a single friend or
family member who knew what he had lost.
There's not much politics in the book, and gays may think it has
too much baseball and too little sex. Let's just hope that baseball
fans think it has just the right amount of baseball and not too
much gay sex. If so, they'll get a good sense of what it's like for
an all-American boy who loves baseball to struggle with living in
the closet. And we can all be glad that, in the end, he seems to be
living happily ever after.
As gossipy news stories speculate about the sexual orientation
of current and retired ballplayers, and the Broadway hit Take Me Out
dramatizes the topic, Bean provides the inside track on how the
sports scene is, and isn't, changing.
Corvino's Rainbow Tour
Reminder: IGF contributing author John Corvino's national
lecture tour is underway. His IGF bio page
provides his schedule.
--Stephen H. Miller
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