Mixed Message.

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Could there be a better example of the tightrope the Bush administration is walking in the culture wars than the president's letter congratulating the predominantly gay Metropolitan Community Church on its 35th anniversary -- the same week that he placated the religious right with his support for their "Marriage Protection Week" (while, in another demonstration of political maneuvering, remaining silent on the right's anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment -- the ostensible point of Marriage Protection Week)?

The Right to Dissent.

Andrew Sullivan spells out why the politically correct thought police are bad for gays.

Bad Publicity.

The Harvey Milk High students crime spree story got lots of media attention in NYC last week, and rightwing groups are already making use of it. This New York Post editorial calls for eliminating the school altogether, claiming that it fosters gay/straight segregation. Unanswered is whether these students were just a few bad apples, or whether lax administrators have let things get totally out of hand.

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The Sanctity of Marriage.

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The following quip has popped up all over the Internet, with various attributions, and has also been published in several newspapers as a letter to the editor:

"The actions taken by the New Hampshire Episcopalians are an affront to Christians everywhere. I am just thankful that the church's founder, Henry VIII and his wife Catherine of Aragon, his wife Anne Boleyn, his wife Jane Seymour, his wife Anne of Cleves, his wife Katherine Howard, and his wife Catherine Parr are no longer here to suffer through this assault on traditional Christian marriage."

Quip Debate:A newly posted letter to the editor from Jeff McQuary takes exception. He writes, in part, "Henry is not the spiritual founder of Anglicanism. He was merely the political accident that made the (inevitable) spread of the Protestant Reformation to England happen at the particular moment it did."

A New Generation of Voices.

Eric Eagan, a young gay writer, explains his yearning for kids and normalcy in this Yale Daily News column. In the same paper, Jessamyn Blau explains why, in her view, being gay should not be equated with specific political views. Good to see that some Ivy Leaguers can think for themselves rather than just mouthing those same, old, tired PC platitudes!

Civil Rights, or Civil Liberties?


The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) has hired Massachusetts Democratic State Senator Cheryl Jacques as its new executive director. It would be good if she considers the advice provided by Andrew Rapp, the editor-in-chief of Boston's Bay Windows gay newspaper, last July 7 in an editorial headlined "How Now HRC" (no longer available online). Rapp wrote that the group has ineffectively pursued a traditional "civil rights" strategy focused primarily on passing a federal nondiscrimination-in-the-workplace law. But:

The recent victories of our movement illustrate that a more fruitful approach is one that emphasizes civil liberties. In the Lawrence decision, we won a meaningful "equal protection" argument that recognizes gay people as a class, but the much more sweeping win was the finding that all people are entitled to the liberty to have consensual sex in the privacy of their home. The Canadian courts"found that we are entitled to the liberty to choose our partners, regardless of sex.

We are best described as a group of people with a particular stake in expanding civil liberties, rather than a class of people seeking protections under the law. Now we are seeing that civil liberties approach is also more fruitful.

But can an organization as beset with inertia as HRC recognize its failures and retool its strategies?

"The Reagans" and

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The “Censorship” Conundrum.

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CBS's decision to exile its controversial miniseries on Ronald and Nancy Reagan to cable's "Showtime" has liberals crying "censorship." Of course, that charge more appropriately describes actions by government, not decisions by a private company responding, in its own best interests, to fears of bad publicity or boycott threats against its advertisers.

Liberal gay activists should know this, since they've use these tactics to perfection themselves. My message to liberals: live by the sword, die by the sword. I remember back in 1992 (I think) participating in a protest by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation against the movie "Basic Instinct," which hadn't yet been released and which none of us had seen -- but we were told it was full of hateful depictions of "killer lesbians" (a bit of an exaggeration, as it turned out). More recently, activists targeted "Dr. Laura" Schlessinger's syndicated TV talk show before its launch (see stopdrlaura.com) and Michael Savage's CNBC talk show, alleging that both of these "talents" had prior histories of anti-gay comments in other media. Following low ratings and advertiser flight, both TV programs were soon canceled.

The gay angle. Concerning the CBS miniseries, topic "g" played a big role: Craig Zadan and Neil Meron, executive producers of "The Reagans," are (according the Washington Post):

"well known in TV circles for their gay advocacy TV projects and remakes of old Broadway musicals. Those advocacy projects include the NBC film "Serving in Silence: The Margarethe Cammermeyer Story," which is based on the true story of an Army officer's legal challenge to her involuntary discharge after revealing she was gay, and the Lifetime movie "What Makes a Family," about a lesbian's fight to retain custody of the baby her late partner bore.

Zadan and Meron worked on those projects with Hollywood heavyweight Barbra Streisand, whose husband, James Brolin, was cast to play the president in "The Reagans." Streisand, an outspoken liberal, was not involved in the CBS miniseries but weighed in yesterday with a lengthy statement on her Web site titled "A Sad Day for Artistic Freedom."

One of the more controversial scenes was one in which the president was shown saying to his wife, "They that live in sin shall die in sin" when addressing the AIDS crisis. The quote, the filmmakers conceded, was fictitious, according the New York Times.

The strangest gay angle. A story at newsmax.com is headlined "CBS Nixed 'Reagans' Following Letter From Rock Hudson's Ex-Lover." Yes, it claims that "CBS's decision to pull the plug on its miniseries "The Reagans" came on the heels of a letter to the network from Rock Hudson's ex-lover [Marc Christian], who complained that the film's portrayal of the 40th president as a virulent homophobe was false." The letter was made public by Christian's friend, conservative and openly lesbian commentator Tammy Bruce.

Now back to the 'censorship' issue. The fights taking place on college campuses over speach codes and the like have some bearing here. A USA Today story, "On campus: Free speech for you but not for me?" reports that:

On campuses large and small, public and private, students describe a culture in which freshmen are encouraged, if not required, to attend diversity programs that portray white males as oppressors. It's a culture in which students can be punished if their choice of words offends a classmate, and campus groups must promise they won't discriminate on the basis of religion or sexual orientation -- even if theirs is a Christian club that doesn't condone homosexuality.

The Seattle Times reports, for example, how a peaceful protest against racial preferences was shut down. Other, similar accounts of hostility toward free speech -- from both the left and the right -- abound in the new book "You Can't Say That!: The Growing Threat to Civil Liberties from Antidiscirmination Laws" by David Bernstein. The book deals briefly with how attempts by gay activists to suppress the speech of their opponents can subsequently be used by anti-gay activists to suppress what they find to be offensive gay materials.

What's it all mean? Liberals and conservatives, gays and anti-gays, should be fully free to criticize each other's views, books, movies and miniseries. That's democracy. But if either side is going to turn to advertiser boycotts, or try to preemptively block the publication or viewing of materials they find either "hateful" or "offensive," they should be aware that such tactics are only legitimized to be used against them in the next battle. That's not censorship, but it's how the culture wargames are now being played.

Update: GLAAD, having perfected the advertiser-boycott-threat strategy against ideologically suspect programming, now joins the liberal chorus denouncing CBS's decision to pull "The Reagans." Couldn't you guess?

The Next Generation.

A new Gallup poll of 18- to 29-year-olds has some good news:

Young Americans are substantially more likely than older Americans to support marriages between homosexual couples -- 53% vs. 32%, respectively. This greater acceptance of gay and lesbian rights among young Americans has been a consistent finding in Gallup Polls for a number of years.

But this generation is not more "liberal," politically speaking. Nearly half (45%) say they are politically independent, with the remainder more likely to identify themselves as Republicans (30%) than as Democrats (24%). Also, "By a margin of 82% to 58%, young Americans are much more inclined than older Americans to support a proposal that would allow people to put a portion of their Social Security payroll taxes into personal retirement accounts that would be invested in private stocks and bonds." Yes, the future may well be ours! (thanks to andrewsullivan.com for the original link)

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Homophobia and Anti-Semitism

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First published on Nov. 5, 2003, in the Chicago Free Press.

It is a striking fact that people who are anti-Semitic are so often homophobic and many who are homophobic are anti-Semitic as well.

At the end of October, Malaysia's prime minister - dictator, actually - Mahathir Mohamad retired after ruling for 22 years. Shortly before, in mid-October, Mahathir gave a widely publicized speech to a gathering of leaders of Islamic countries in which he charged that "Jews rule the world by proxy" and "get others to fight and die for them. " Further, "They invented socialism, communism, human rights and democracy so that persecuting them would appear to be wrong, so they can enjoy equal rights with others. "

If we took such charges seriously enough to rebut them, we could point to Jews serving in the American and other western militaries as well as the fact that military service is mandatory in Israel, where Jews have fought and died since 1948 repelling repeated invasions from surrounding countries who oppose Israel's mere existence.

We could point out that democracy was invented not by Jews but by ancient Greeks. Natural human rights were first conceived by the English philosophers Hobbes and Locke. Socialism was invented by early 19th century French writers. And Communism was invented by Plato, another Greek, as an ironic construct - as the Soviet Union so painfully discovered - of the politically impossible.

But clearly such factual corrections would have little impact. The hostility comes first, then "facts" are imagined or rearranged to support the prejudice. Does that sound familiar?

It is now barely recalled that in 1998 Mahathir suddenly turned against his presumptive successor Anwar Ibrahim, accusing him of corruption and sodomy and after a flamboyant show trial had him sentenced to prison for 20 years. The charges were almost surely false, prosecution testimony coerced and perjured, and human rights groups protested the whole affair as politically motivated.

Far from being unique, Mahathir is all too typical. Most Arab countries are both viciously homophobic and obsessively anti-Jewish. Saudi Arabia lashes, imprisons and executes gays and not only prohibits Jewish (and Christian) worship services but has its government-owned newspapers print absurd medieval libels against Jews.

Egyptian police conduct sweeps of gay cruising areas and entrap gays they meet on gay websites. At the same time, Egyptian government television broadcast an interminable mini-series based in part on "Protocols of the Learned Elders of Zion," a late Czarist forgery about supposed Jewish plans for world domination.

In the West, the Catholic church from its beginnings has been both homophobic and anti-Jewish. The anti-Jewish sentiment was attributed to the supposed responsibility of "the Jews" for the death of Jesus in the gospel legends (John 19:12-15; Matthew 27:25). Given the Catholic view that Jesus sacrificial death was necessary for mankind's redemption, you would think Catholics should be grateful to "the Jews" for helping it happen, but then no one ever claimed Catholic doctrine was logical.

In any case, it was not until the 1960s that the Catholic church formally declared that, oh, by the way, "the Jews" were not responsible for the death of Jesus after all. Small comfort to the generations of Jews excluded, harassed, assaulted and killed in pogroms by pious Christians doing the Lord's work.

It is scarcely necessary to recount the arrest, torture, executions and burning at the stake of "sodomites" when the Catholic church held political power, nor the innumerable hate-inspiring sermons denouncing homosexuality and "sodomites" in both Catholic and evangelical Protestant churches. Even today the Vatican and conservative Protestant churches inveigh against homosexuality and are the strongest supporters of sodomy laws and opponents of gay equality.

The reasons for the frequent appearance of both hostilities in the same person or culture are complex, speculative and deserve a column of their own. But here is a start.

Most people seem to want to think that however they are is the right way to be - that their conduct and beliefs are true and natural for everyone. Both gays and Jews diverge in noticeable ways from the usual, the familiar, so people conclude that gays and Jews must be wrong to be as they are. And since how "we" - the majority - are is "natural" the others are somehow "unnatural" and probably malicious in rejecting the obvious superiority of our practices and beliefs.

Thus Jews are an affront to Christianity because they do not accept the founding Christian myth that Jesus is a savior or messiah - or, in Islam, Mohammed the last and truest prophet. Since the truths of Christianity (or Islam) are so blindingly obvious to their proponents, they think that Jews are being willfully stubborn when they refuse to accept them as true and may well be motivated by evil intent to harm Christians (Muslims) and undo Christianity (Islam).

In a similar way, gays are an affront to heterosexuals who cannot imagine that anyone can really have different desires from their own except by virtue of something unnatural about them or else motivated by evil intent to harm heterosexuals or undo heterosexuality. So mere difference is interpreted as opposition and then as a threat.

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Here’s To You, Bishop Robinson

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On Nov. 2, the Episcopal Church consecrated their first gay bishop. This is the highest church rank an openly gay person has achieved in any major Christian church.

Gene V. Robinson, the new bishop of New Hampshire, is extraordinarily brave. People have called on him to step down. A maelstrom of publicity has swirled about him. His consecration ceremony was attended by 4,000 who greeted him with a standing ovation‹but a spokesman for 38 opposing bishops also spoke during the ceremony, saying that Robinson's " 'chosen lifestyle' is incompatible with Scripture and the teachings of this church," according to the Associated Press.

Most commentators on the church expect the result to be a split between the congregations who support Robinson and the more conservative "confessing congregations" who don't.

That's a lot of pressure on one man - the knowledge that he is the catalyst for the church he clearly loves breaking apart.

Yet it has never been clearer that one man is doing the right thing.

No one can predict the future of course, but I say this with certainty: the world will not end as a result of Robinson's consecration. The sky will not fall. The church, yes, will probably split - but churches have split before and survived.

And really, it is not Robinson who is splitting the church. It is the conservatives who are pulling away, who have announced they are unable to commit to working through these issues. They are breaking up this marriage of churches because they are unwilling to see their own faults, unwilling to recognize that on this they may be wrong.

Robinson said, "They must know that if they must leave, they will always be welcomed back."

But they won't come back. They were waiting for the more liberal churches to do something like this; they were eager to take their stand against the gays and lesbians who had previously huddled at the fringes of church life. The conservatives are willing to carve a church to pieces in order to protect the blinders of their own bigotry.

It's ridiculous, really - are gays and lesbians really such a great evil that they cannot be countenanced by the rest of the church? I mean, the Episcopalians once didn't ordain women, either (the Bible commands that women keep silent in the churches, after all) and there was great controversy around that - but gays and lesbians are somehow more sinister.

So there will be a backlash against Robinson. A gigantic, church-shaking earthquake of a backlash.

But the end result will be tranquility.

Why? Because people are adaptable. They are afraid of what they don't know - they are afraid of what might happen. But when the Episcopalians realize that their church is still the same church, that their lives are still the same prayerful lives, then the pressure on Robinson will ease and things will go on.

Soon, even most anti-gay (or uncertain about gays) Episcopalians will realize that Robinson's choice of life partner doesn't affect their own lives of faith at all. Life will continue the way it always has.

That's why it's important that Robinson didn't step down. By not bowing to the pressure - by staying firm in the face of increasing world adversity and in the knowledge that history books would note that he was the cause of perhaps the worst Episcopal split in the history of the church - Robinson has advanced the civil rights of all of us.

But Robinson alone is not enough. One person can always be considered an exception, as in: "I like you, of course, but you?re an exception - you're not like those other gays and lesbians out there."

What Robinson needs is for other gay and lesbian bishops to join him - not just in his church, but in other churches. He needs other gay and lesbian clergy to be open in their sexual orientation, to teach their congregations that leaders are leaders no matter whom they fall in love with. He needs gays and lesbian clergy around the world to stand beside him - and beside their gay and lesbian members - despite the negative publicity, and despite the chance that they could lose their livelihoods and be thrown out of their own churches. He needs all of us to pressure our own denominations to accept and elevate gay clergy to higher offices.

There are, of course, many brave gay and lesbian clergy who are already doing all these things. They marry same-sex couples against the wishes of their denominations. They introduce their partners into the regular give and take of church life. They rail against bigotry. They may be unsung on the national stage (or they might be demonized, depending how prominent they are) but they are all gay and lesbian heroes. They are changing the churches one strong example at a time.

And changing the churches is important, because it hits people at the core of their belief system. Because of this, Robinson is not just incidentally important. He's not just a footnote to a controversy. He is the key that will help change thousands of hearts.

All we need is for other clergy - and other congregations - to join him in pushing through the door.

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Bishop Robinson Shines a Light.

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Sunday's consecration of openly gay Episcopalian Bishop V. Gene Robinson, despite the vehement opposition of "traditionalists," is a milestone, and cheers to Bishop Robinson for refusing pleas that he step aside for the sake of "unity" (i.e., so that supporters of anti-gay discrimination in both the U.S. church and the worldwide Anglican Communion shouldn't be so upset). Placating proponents of prejudice is the last thing any religious denomination ought to do, and shame on those who think "unity" is more important than righteousness. Would they have urged northern-state Baptists in the 1860s to accept slavery least the southern-state Baptists take offense and schism (which, of course, they did)?

The anti-gay American Anglican Council, a network of churches and church officials moving to break with the denomination over Bishop Robinson's consecration, issued a statement saying "heresy has been held up as holy" and that "blasphemy has been redefined as blessing." They added, "The arrogance of the leaders of the Diocese of New Hampshire and the Episcopal Church is nothing less than stunning."

No, it's the arrogance of this anti-gay council that is stunning, and their belief that blind obedience to tradition should take precedence over the expanding revelation of human dignity.

One of the AP stories noted,

"Though there have been gay bishops in the past, all were closeted when they were elevated to their posts. Robinson has been open about his 14-year relationship with his partner throughout the process in which he won election to the new post."

And this is precisely what has so upset the "traditionalists" -- that gay people should no longer be shamed and shunned and forced to lie and hide. What a dark and evil faith these folks adhere to. And how, well, unchristian.

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Rightwingers: No Longer Racists, Just Anti-Gay.

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According to reports about a new study, mixed-race students are more likely to feel depressed, have trouble sleeping, skip school, smoke, and drink alcohol. Not all that long ago, mainstream (not extremist) social conservatives would have demagogued such findings to denounce mixed-race families. But no self-respecting conservative would question "race mixing" these days. That's progress. And after the gay equality struggle is as complete as the civil rights revolution, they'll somehow forget they ever complained about gays, too.

UnCivil Marriage

The discountblogger explains how "social conservatives have blurred the line between civil and religious marriage -- but only when it concerns gays and lesbians." For instance:

Civil marriage...is not rooted in religious belief -- or, at least, it's not supposed to be. After all, a man and a woman who reject all forms of religious belief can still be married in this country. All they need to do is sign a piece of paper. Similarly, a Jew and a Christian -- even though they have fundamentally different religious beliefs -- can marry. And even then, with the blessings of the Right. Yet, two gay men, two completely religious gay men, both of whom have accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior, cannot.

The proposed Federal Marriage Amendment is not about protecting religion, he writes. It's about keeping gays out.

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Reagan Through the Wringer.

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Ronald Reagan was painfully slow to respond to the AIDS crisis, yet close friends swear the man was never homophobic. Still, a new CBS miniseries on the former president, by openly gay executive producers Craig Zadan and Neil Meron, is stirring up controversy. As gay.com reports:

In one scene, Ronald and Nancy are having breakfast when the subject of AIDS comes up. Reagan, in the script, says "They that live in sin shall die in sin" and refuses to discuss the issue further. Elizabeth Egloff, a playwright who wrote the final version of the script, acknowledged there was no evidence such a conversation took place.

The Reagan record is open to criticism, but using slander to bolster one's case smacks of cheap leftwing propaganda. And the fact that defenders of the series cite Edmund Morris's biography "Dutch" without noting that this book was roundly castigated for mixing fact with totally fictitious dialog and characters (and phony footnotes) certainly doesn't inspire trust is what the series presents as "truth."

They're Going to Sue Science?

The socially conservative CNSNews.com reports:

A coalition representing former homosexuals is
developing a legal strategy to litigate on behalf of people who
challenge the proposition that individuals are "born gay."

Next up, perhaps, will be a suit against the claim that the earth isn't the center of the universe.

Bush Expands Marriage . . . in Iraq.

One upside of deposing Saddam, the Washington Post reports, is that "Freed of an onerous Baath Party bureaucracy that sought to regulate even the most fundamental aspects of Iraqi life -- such as who married whom -- Iraqis lately are tying the knot in numbers not seen in recent memory." Now, if we could only get rid of some of our own "onerous" government regulation that tries to limit who can marry whom right here in the U.S.! After all, it would be nice to be at least as progressive as Taiwan on this matter.

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GOP Lemmings Heading Toward Cliff?

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Some GOP strategists are urging the party to take up the religious right's banner and make opposition to gay marriage -- and support for a constitutional amendment banning government recognition of gay relationships -- into a major campaign issue, the Washington Post reports. I think the article overstates the likelihood of this, as Bush is well aware that the social right's "culture war" help undo his father's re-election. But if "activating the base" comes to be seen as crucial, it could happen. As they say, those who do not learn from history...

Social Security Reform: Good for Gays.

The Cato Institute's Social Security Project website explains how incorporating personal retirement accounts into Social Security would "create clear property rights for individuals in which they can bequeath contributions to their family members, regardless of state or federal legality of their union." Currently, only legal spouses can inherit your accumulated benefits, regardless of any civil union or domestic partnership relationship. Kudos to Cato for recognizing how reforming the system, which is fiercely opposed by most Democrats and liberal-left activists, would be a boon for gays.

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California’s Shake Up.

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Openly gay Detroit News columnist Deb Price explains why Schwarzenegger is good for Republicans, and good for gays. She writes:

The numbers are indeed telling. With little known about his views except that he is a fiscal conservative who supports abortion and gay rights, Schwarzenegger captured 50 percent of the votes of self-identified moderates, compared with 31 percent for Democratic Lt. Gov. Cruz Bustamante. "

A ballot box smash hit in California, Schwarzenegger is now a leading actor on the national political stage. If he follows his best instincts, he'll force both parties to rewrite their scripts.

Price, whose column is also syndicated, often hews close to the typical liberal-left gay advocate's worldview. But occasionally, as in this piece, she shows some welcome independence of mind.

For more views on the impact of the California election, take a look at our newly posted columns by Dale Carpenter and Paul Varnell!

If You Build It (High Ratings), They (Advertisers) Will Come.

Corporate America is now clamoring to secure product placements and endorsement deals with the producers of "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy," the NY Daily News reports. NBC and its Bravo cable network are now considering spinoffs as well. Quite a change from just a few years back when gay content routinely caused advertiser flight. But ratings speak louder than the religious right's ubiquitous, but toothless, product boycott threats. Yes, capitalist consumerism really is our ally!

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