Anti-Family Conservatives.

It would be difficult to find a more clear-cut example of how "anti-family" many anti-gay conservatives truly are than the decision last week by the 11th Circuit Court of Appeals upholding Florida's blanket ban on adoptions by gays. The Miami Herald described one of the plaintiffs, Doug Houghton, who is the foster parent of an 11 year old. ''I wish the judges could spend a weekend at our home,'' he said last week. "Our lives are full, happy, interesting and healthy. 'I've raised this boy for eight years. He calls me 'Daddy.' ''

But anti-gay activists -- on the bench and off -- would deny this child the necessary stability that comes with legal adoption. Their animus toward gays trumps any concern for parentless children. And they have no shame about it.

It's likely this case will find its way to the U.S. Supreme Court, which will then decide whether to extend the jurisprudence it's established with its Lawrence and Romer rulings that the states cannot discriminate against gay people merely on the basis of popular prejudice.

Bloody Kansas.

Another sickening decision, this time from the Kansas Court of Appeals, upheld the
conviction
of Matthew Limon, who was sentenced to more than 17 years in prison for having consensual sex when he was 18 with a 14-year-old boy. Had Limon's partner been a 14-year-old girl, under the state's "Romeo and Juliet" law he would have been sentenced at most to one year and three months.

The only explanation for the differing sentences is the state's desire to stigmatize gays. As a dissenting judge wrote: "This blatantly discriminatory sentencing provision does not live up to American standards of equal justice." Clearly.

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College Freshmen: A Pause in Gay Progress

First published January 30, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

Each September during freshman orientation, the Higher Education Research Institute at UCLA conducts a survey of more than 275,000 first-year college students, asking questions about their backgrounds, education and career plans, and views on controversial social issues.

Among the questions is one which asks whether "it is important to have laws prohibiting homosexual relationships" and one added in 1997 that asks whether "same sex couples should have the right to legal marital status" - essentially civil unions or civil marriage.

It was reasonable to wonder if this year's freshmen would show diminished support for gay equality. The Supreme Court decision last June decriminalizing sodomy was immediately denounced by conservative and evangelical leaders not only for its substance but even more for opening the door to gay marriage, a possibility characterized as a threat to "family values."

At least as of September the freshmen did not seem to have been impressed by that alarmist message. Support for "laws prohibiting homosexual relationships," probably interpreted as Defense of Marriage laws, rose just 1.3 points over last year's freshmen to a not very impressive 26.1 percent. So barely one-fourth of the freshman think it is necessary to prohibit formalized gay partnerships.

And freshman support for "legal marital status" for gay couples remained essentially unchanged at 59.4 percent. That figure is actually a minute increase over last year's 59.3 percent, but the change is statistically negligible. In any case, it means that six out of ten college freshmen support gay civil marriage.

It is encouraging to notice that that level of support continues even as the proportion of freshmen describing themselves as liberal or "far left" fell slightly to 27 percent and the proportion describing themselves as conservative or "far right" rose 1.4 points to 22.7 percent. Almost exactly half (50.3 percent) describe themselves as "middle of the road."

This means two-thirds of the "middle of the road" freshmen continue to favor "legal marital status" for gays. So support for gay civil unions or gay civil marriage is - for college freshmen - the "middle of the road" position.

As in every other survey, women are more gay-friendly than men. More than two-thirds of freshman women - 66.9 percent - support "legal marital status" for gays, an increase of 0.6 over last year. That increase was canceled out by an identical decrease of 0.6 points from last year among freshman men, down to 50.2 percent - still more than half.

Also as in all previous years, bright freshmen are more gay-supportive than less bright freshmen. Both men and women at public and private universities requiring high SAT scores are 8 percentage points more likely to support "legal marital status" for gays than freshmen at universities with lower SAT requirements.

It is worth stepping back to ask what these figures could tell us. For one thing, the steady progress of gay-support paused. Here are the percentages of freshmen favoring civil marriage for gays:

  • 1997 - 50.9 percent.
  • 1998 - 52.4 percent.
  • 1999 - 53.9 percent.
  • 2000 - 56 percent.
  • 2001 - 57.9 percent.
  • 2002 - 59.3 percent.
  • 2003 - 59.4 percent.

The survey was taken two months after the Supreme Court's sodomy law decision so the conservative reaction may have had some influence. Since then, anti-gay pressure has mounted in reactions to gay Episcopal bishop and the Massachusetts decision on gay marriage, so a survey now might show slightly lower support.

Many thoughtful people think a majority of Americans have not had time to become comfortable with gay progress. Young people who grow up knowing gays and seeing them on television don't have to adapt: this is the world they know. But for adults, becoming comfortable with social change is a slow process and some never adjust.

Alan Ebenstein, biographer of social philosopher Friedrich Hayek e-mailed me, "In many respects, the societies of today practice more toleration, acceptance, and celebration of homosexuals and homosexuality than almost any in history. ... (But) the social changes of the past 40 years or so have been too great in too short a period of time from a system that was in many, if not all, respects working tolerably for there not to be some sort of a social reaction."

Certainly the hesitation we are seeing is to be expected and we may see a brief downturn in support. But I think if we continue to expand our gay visibility, share our lives calmly and openly, and work to create empathy for our desire for an equal chance for happiness and a meaningful life, we can make sufficient progress among the young who keep coming along to counter-balance and overcome the anxiety reaction among older Americans.

I think we currently have sufficient support to block a constitutional gay marriage ban. But in any case an open debate can only gain us additional support. And in the long run, with the turnover of the generations eventually the majority of Americans will be comfortable enough with us to see that we richly deserve the same legal opportunities they have.

Odd Bedfellows Against Gay Marriage.

In his column in The Advocate titled Civil Unions: The Radical Choice, writer Richard Goldstein explains why, from his "progressive" viewpoint, civil unions are superior to marriage for straight couples as well as gay. In short:

My fellow and sororal leftists are right to regard gay marriage as a conservative idea. It would bolster an institution that can be very encumbering and that deprives single people of the government benefits they deserve.

Moreover, civil unions are good because they'll weaken marriage, he writes:

Civil unions won't replace marriage, but they could make it rarer. Same-sex marriage has no such potential. It won't expand the matrimonial options, and courts are unlikely to apply the principle of equal protection to straight couples who don't want to wed even though they can. In fact, there's a real possibility that employers will cancel domestic-partner benefits once gays can marry. If that happens, all couples will be faced with the same rigid choice: Tie the knot, or you"re on your own.

As Jonathan Rauch, David Boaz, and others have argued, those on the right who oppose same-sex marriage are by necessity opening the door to all manner of "marriage lites" that will, in fact, make marriage rarer. That may be fine with those on the lesbigay left, like Goldstein, but social conservatives say they care about preserving and strengthening the institution of wedlock. Yet by opposing same-sex marriage, they're destroying the very thing they claim they're trying to save.

Radical Step by the Right.

From Monday's lead editorial in the Washington Post:

Mr. Bush wants to keep the Republican base at bay with verbal Pablum about the "sanctity of marriage" and a promise to support an amendment if this gay-marriage thing gets out of hand. But at the same time, he wants to avoid energizing Democrats and alienating centrists by actually calling for one now.

We suppose we should be grateful that the president didn't go further and actually call on Congress to send a constitutional amendment to the states for ratification. We're not. Even in an election year, it shouldn't be asking too much to expect the president to firmly reject a step as radical as rewriting the Constitution to stop states from adopting laws that recognize gay relationships.

It's hard to argue with that.

The Good Word about The L Word

Originally published January 28, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

So there are two questions many lesbians have been asking for the past couple of weeks:

  1. "What do you think of The L Word ?" and
  2. "Which woman turns you on?"

The answer to the first question is usually either "I love it" or "It's shallow but I watch it anyway."

The second question, however, seems to divide lesbians into three camps.

Shane, the "love-'em and leave-'em" bad girl played by Katherine Moenning either inspires intense lust or absolute hate. She seems to be favored by lesbians seeking danger.

Dana, the closeted tennis pro (Erin Daniels), is winning over sportsdykes. And Marina (Karina Lombard), the seducer of the innocent, straight Jenny (Mia Kirshner), is favored by - OK, I'm not sure who she's favored by. I just know that every time I gush over her, someone else does, too.

Think what this means. Someday all we'll need to do to find out if we're compatible with someone new is ask them which woman they like on The L Word and pray we're a fit. We could even gloss over the awkward pick-up-line chatter. Imagine walking into a coffee shop, seeing a cute girl, straightening your baseball cap and then querying, "Dana?"

If she responds, "Oh, I love her" you stay and chat.

If she shakes her head sadly and replies, "Shane," you know to move on-before you've slept with her and adopted two of her cats.

The L Word could change how we interact forever.

It's already had an impact. I've ever seen this much speculation and talk about lesbians in the mainstream press. Queer Eye is still the show that more straight folks are familiar with but I'm sure The L Word will develop a following. The straight women who've seen it with me enjoyed it.Also, I've seen three episodes. (I know you've only seen two. I have two words for you: review copies. I'm trying to keep myself from stealing a peek at the Episode Four but it's very, very hard).

This is what I have to say: Every week gets better.

No, there isn't much diverse representation. The L Word lesbians are all thin and femme, which might represent the girls in Los Angeles but certainly only applies to a small segment in Chicago.

And that first week it felt like we were watching lesbian porn designed for a straight audience. There was plenty of femme-on-femme lesbian sex for the men (there was even a potential three-way with a guy) and enough heterosexual sex thrown in to keep straight women happy.

It's not that lesbians didn't enjoy the sex. And it's good for a straight audience to see lesbians having good sex within the context of a relationship. It's just that the sex didn't seem meant for us and in a show about lesbians that was really disappointing.

But by Episode Two the show really is all about the characters. There's less forced novelty around the idea of being lesbians. Talk about "nipple confidence" and "vagina revitalization" has faded away. Instead The L Word focuses in on just a few stories, like any good ensemble show.

This leads me to think that there are many, many good things about The L Word. It helps a straight audience view our lives as ordinary, filled with similar heartbreaks and joys. It makes us seem cool and exotic instead of flannel-wearing and angry. It introduces the in-jokes of our community to the outside world-for example, gaydar, the U-Haul factor and the idea that lesbians date all their friends.

All this helps straight, cable-watching America understand us and understanding leads to a decrease in fear. Hopefully that decrease in fear will eventually lead to acceptance.

And there are other goods. The L Word is basically a primer for women who are just coming out. It does a pretty good job of explaining how we interact and why. Plus it's reassuring to those of us who've been out for a long time to see representations of ourselves that are chic instead of sad.

But the best thing about The L Word is that, so far, no one has been punished for being a lesbian - though Dana, the tennis pro seeking endorsements, may run into some trouble. Clearly we have made a quantum leap forward from the days of The Well of Loneliness and The Children's Hour.

No, wait.

The best thing about The L Word is that there are enough lesbians on the show to help straight people see that we're individuals. And to remind ourselves that even though we may have many things in common we should not stuff ourselves into stereotypical boxes because we're not actually all the same.

After all, there are Shane girls and there are Mariana girls.

Schizoid in Ohio.

A few days ago I noted that Ohio's legislature had passed, and its governor will soon sign, legislation to forbid gay marriage and to prohibit domestic partnership benefits for state employees. But this week, the city of Cleveland Heights, Ohio, launched its own domestic partner registry -- the first in the nation created by voters. "The registry, which passed with 55% of the vote in November in this community of 50,000, was the first such measure adopted by way of the ballot," reports the AP.

Even in Ohio, the forces of reaction can't stop the movement toward greater liberty and legal equality from advancing.

The False Debate Over ‘Activist’ Judges

First published January 27, 2004, in Res Gestae, a student-edited newspaper at the University of Michigan Law School.

At a recent lunchtime event on judicial nominations, a student prefaced his question by explaining that he was a member of the Federalist Society because he preferred judges "who interpret law rather than make law."

I don't know this student, so nothing here is intended personally. But I can't understand how someone can finish even a semester of law school and claim he can readily distinguish between "interpreting" the law (something, apparently, a card-carrying Federalist does) and "making" law (something activist liberal judges do).

Conservatives have gotten a lot of mileage with this idea. It appeals to non-lawyers who believe the proper role of judges is like turning a crank. You take the relevant inputs (facts, precedents, statutes, whatever), "apply" some law, and out pops objective, principled justice. A few more advances in Westlaw and we might not even need human judges.

Interestingly, when a controversial political or cultural issue is involved, the result this system is expected to produce almost always comports with the tastes, will, or prejudices of the majority.

But jurisprudence goes awry when "activist" judges sabotage the machinery by substituting their "arbitrary will" (President Bush's words in the State of Union) to achieve their own ideological ends. A sure sign this has happened is when the result supports the rights or aspirations of a political or cultural minority.

In short, many conservatives, full of phony populist indignation, tell a dishonest, oversimplified story to an ill-informed public. This provides cover for conservatives to appoint their own judges - many of whom are committed not to some tedious process of cranking the legal machinery, but rather to making law that reflects their policy preferences.

The mechanical conception of judges' work may be appropriate to trial courts, which are bound to apply law as they find it. Yet often what trial courts apply is common law - law that was made by other judges. The common law's enduring strength is its ability to evolve alongside human understanding and norms of behavior while gradually shedding outdated shibboleths.

Thus, one important role of appellate courts is to evaluate a law's rationality, workability, and constitutionality. This is not an inherently liberal or conservative enterprise.

Every student knows the law is full of open-ended questions. What did the legislature "intend?" Does text "bear the weight" of a given reading? Did the court below "abuse its discretion?" When is stare decisis inappropriate? What is "reasonable?" The idea that conservative judges aren't as capable or willing to manipulate these fudge factors as avidly and effectively as liberals sometimes do is the essential lie of the conservative legal movement.

Take one example: In the 1996 Hopwood case, the Fifth Circuit gave a major victory to conservative agitators and struck down affirmative action at the University of Texas, overthrowing longstanding legal, legislative, and social consensus. The arguments for doing so may or may not have been persuasive. But don't say this wasn't activism.

How about Justice Scalia's ongoing obsession with overturning the settled law of Roe v. Wade? Roe may well have been flawed as a matter of legal reasoning. But Scalia, a Federalist high priest whose "textualism" is often confused with judicial minimalism, has no interest in "interpreting" that decision. He wants to blow it up.

The Federalists can't have it both ways - grooving to every cranky Scalia eruption, yet publicly claiming to want more disinterested judicial drones, and all the while praying for the retirements of actual independent-minded moderates like O'Connor and Kennedy.

Recently the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court explained why denying the fundamental right of marriage to same-sex couples is unfair, no longer supported by persuasive reasoning, and a violation of the state's constitution. This obviously makes for major change in the law. Yet the court did not just issue an edict. Its opinion is there for all to read, and should stand or fall on its own accuracy, honesty, and rigor.

But I have yet to hear a conservative political or legal commentator engage the history, findings, or logic of the actual Massachusetts opinion. That isn't the stuff of sound bites. Conservatives seem content to let thugs like Bill O'Reilly - who simply smears any judge he disagrees with as an undemocratic radical - instruct the public on these matters. And so, many Americans confuse prejudice and sectarian dogma with legal reasoning.

The legal right needs to give up the conceit of its purity. Thoughtful conservatives and liberals have different visions of justice and social utility, and these visions will affect how they shape the law. We can only insist on judges whose work is clear, exacting, and intellectually honest - transparent to citizens, and persuasive to those who are trained to evaluate legal argument.

Meanwhile, law students should know better than to describe our vocation with slogans and simplifications.

The Contenders.

Here's an editorial from the Washington Blade and its sister publications endorsing Wesley Clark. What's interesting is the clear-headed look at the other Democratic contenders on gay issues. As Bush moves closer his party's religious right base (a big mistake, but one the administration increasingly appears committed to), it's worth noting that Democratic candidates past and present have not been held to a very high standard by their gay supporters. A few quotes from the editorial:

John Edwards" has failed to embrace civil unions for same-sex couples. -- When Dean said he intended to push the debate in the South beyond "guns, God and gays," Edwards faulted the New Englander for ducking a "values" debate important to his region. "

Among gay audiences, [John] Kerry points out that he was the only senator up for reelection in 1996 to vote against the politically popular Defense of Marriage Act. But his GOP opponent that year was Gov. Bill Weld, whose record on gay issues was far more supportive than Kerry's. Asked this week to defend his DOMA vote after President Bush vowed support for a constitutional ban on gay marriage, Kerry told ABC News, "I have the same position as the president," even though Kerry has said he is actually opposed to such an amendment.

Earlier this year, Kerry cited procreation as the primary reason marriage should be reserved for heterosexuals, even though his own marriage to heiress Teresa Heinz is childless.

During his tenure in the Senate, Kerry has also cast some questionable, and downright insulting votes, including a prohibition on immigration for people who are HIV-positive, a federal crime (with jail time) for HIV-positive healthcare providers who fail to disclose their status, and -- most upsetting -- a "no promo homo" measure that barred the use of federal funds in schools to "promote homosexuality. ""

Kerry, a decorated Vietnam vet, says he supports a full repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," but as recently as the 2000 Democratic primary he took Gore and Bradley to task publicly for the same position. At the time, Kerry said rather bizarrely that allowing gays to serve openly was "a bad idea" because commanders needed the discretion to remove gays from particular units if they endangered unit cohesion. ...

[After] Vermont's highest court had ordered the governor and legislature to adopt full marriage or its equivalent, [Howard Dean rejected] gay activists who argued (then and now) that anything other than marriage is inherently unequal. In Massachusetts today, where that same debate is repeating itself, activists are labeling the Dean position, now favored by the Republican Gov. Mitt Romney, as anti-gay.

The Blade also has a separate article looking at Dean's mixed messages.

The point is certainly not that Bush is better than the Democratic contenders on gay matters; obviously, he's not. If you're a single-issue voter, you're going to vote for the Democrat, whoever he is. But I react strongly to much of the pious nonsense that some Democratic activists are serving up about their candidates. Last time, they gave a free pass to Bill Clinton -- the first U.S. president to sign anti-gay legislation into federal law with both "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and the Defense of Marriage Act (and who then trumpeted his support for DOMA with radio ads in the South during his reelection campaign).

So please, spare me the "Democrats Good, Republicans Bad" e-mails and at least contemplate that both parties have their own unappealing shadow sides to be weighed in the balance.

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White House Tightrope.

The New York Times takes note of the president's deliberately ambiguous language:

" President Bush never used the words "gay," "homosexual," "same-sex" or "amendment." Instead of an amendment, he referred only to a "constitutional process." And, as he has in the past, he qualified the present need for such a process. "

Some conservatives found fault with his reluctance. "He made the case for the necessity of an amendment, and I am puzzled as to why he did not, having diagnosed the problem, prescribe the only remedy, a federal marriage amendment," said Dr. Richard Land, president of the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention....

Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council, said Mr. Bush's failure to ask Congress to get to work on an amendment negated his other initiatives.

However:

Some gay Republicans said the president had gone too far.
"We will not stand with anyone who is willing to write discrimination into the Constitution," said Patrick Guerriero, executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans.

But Charles Francis, chairman of the Republican Unity Coalition and a family friend of President Bush, said he was not yet ready to break ranks. He emphasized that the president had not mentioned an amendment and that his comments about the "constitutional process" remained conditional, although he acknowledged, "He has come about as close as he can get."

Will the religious right be placated by rhetoric minus an actual endorsement of and lobbying for the amendment? Or will Bush be pushed into giving anti-gay activists what they want, and thereby alienate the moderates and independents who don't cotton to legislative gay-bashing? Stay tuned.

Marriage Mania.

A new ABCNEWS/Washington Post survey has some good news: only 38% of Americans favor amending the U.S. Constitution to make it illegal for same-sex couples to marry, while 58% say, instead, that each state should make its own laws on gay marriage. If history is any guide, a proposed constitutional amendment that can't even get a majority of popular support is doomed.

But States Go Crazy.

On the other hand, some states seem to be reacting to the prospects of gay marriage in Massachusetts with total dementia. Ohio's legislature has just passed a bill that would not only prohibit same-sex marriage, but also forbid the state from granting domestic partner benefits to its employees. Gov. Bob Taft said he will sign it, pending legal review.

In Virginia, a House panel unanimously passed a resolution Wednesday urging Congress to propose a constitutional amendment against gay marriages. But a bill to impeach Virginia judges if they were to rule in favor of same-sex marriage was defeated. How charitable.

The Other Side Speaks.

And what of the Democrats? Here's an excerpt from Bob Roehr's report in the Windy City Times:

Gays and lesbians who stayed tuned for the Democratic response hoping for a defense on these issues were sadly disappointed, even though it was delivered by Senate leader Tom Daschle and one of the most pro-gay members of Congress, House leader Nancy Pelosi.

There was not one word on HIV or on any gay issue even though press accounts in the days leading up to the speak noted a slight increase in domestic AIDS funding in the President's proposed budget and his intent to defend traditional marriage.

Senator John Kerry, the upset winner in the Democratic caucuses in Iowa the previous day, defended his 1996 vote against DOMA in an interview on ABC News. He called his vote a denouncement of the "gay bashing" that took place during the Senate debate on that legislation. He was one of only 14 Senators vote against the bill. However, Kerry said that when it comes to gay marriage, "I have the same position as the President."