The Long, Hot Summer.

Back home on Independence Day, and inching back into the swing of things.

Here's a legal riddle from the Washington Post: Does a man who marries a woman and then becomes a woman violate a ban on same-sex marriages? A Louisville marital dispute focuses on that teaser. But it also highlights the marriage ban's absurdity -- like disputes over how much "black blood" would run afoul of the miscegenation laws.

For the social right, the fight to bar same-sex marriage is their last chance to turn back the normalization of homosexuality. Not only are gays assimilated throughout the media (TV, movies, the Internet), but open gays and, increasingly, gay families are part and parcel of neighborhood America -- and not just in liberal New England or the Left Coast. Uncloseted gay life can be found from the deep South of Dixie to the rugged Western plains.

For the most part, America is adjusting as gays declare their independence from hiding and lying and foregoing family life. So it's fitting that Philadelphia, birthplace of the nation's independence, has launched an ad campaign to air nationwide on channels such as Bravo, MTV, and other cable networks, welcoming gay visitors to the city of Brotherly Love.

And that's why the social conservatives are pulling out all the stops in the marraige battle. Check out the fear-inducing "Could Your Kids Be Given to 'Gay' Parents?" posted at WorldNetDaily.com.

Look for fireworks the week of July 12, as the Senate begins debating the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment. It won't be pretty.

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On Vacation.

Yours truly will be traveling and probably not able to blog much (and if the laptop wifi card keeps malfunctioning, not at all). I'll be back around July 4th. Hasta la vista, baby (see below).

Arnold Not Bothered by Gay Marriage.

California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger says if gay couples want to get married, he has no problem with it, reports the Los Angeles Times (the story was also picked up by The Advocate).

Arnold's the future, full of sunny California optimism with a strong live-and-let-live streak. Supporters of the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment are the last gasp of America's puritanical sexual paranoia -- which is closely akin to the puritanical sexual paranoia of the Islamists we're fighting.

Gay Marriage: A Boost for the Federal Budget?

A study by the Congressional Budget Office (CBO) concludes that same-sex marriage would be a windfall for the federal budget, reports the Gay Financial Network (and here's a direct link to the CBO study).

The CBO finds that letting same-sex couples marry would save the government a cool $1 billion per year by boosting income tax revenue and lowering spending on Medicaid and Supplemental Security Income.

But don't expect that argument to sway social conservatives. They see themselves engaged in a pitched moral battle and would spend the country into bankruptcy to prevent state recognition (and, as they see it, sanctification) of same-sex unions.

Tell Me Again Why a One-Party Strategy Is Best.

I won't be reading Bill Clinton's 957-page My Life, but Gay.com's Chris Bull reveals the part we'd want to know. He says Clinton "gives very little attention to gay politics," including his 1996 signing of the Defense of Marriage Act. But Clinton does reveal new details about the political machinations behind the failed effort to abolish the military's gay ban. Bull writes:

Clinton focuses on the incendiary pro-ban argument that Sen. Robert Byrd, D-W.V., made in a closed-door meeting: "He believed homosexuality was a sin; said he would never let his grandson, whom he adored, join a military that admitted gays; and asserted that one reason the Roman Empire fell was the acceptance of pervasive homosexual conduct from Julius Caesar on down."

Yikes. Bull gets a reaction from openly gay one-time Clinton insider David Mixner. "The problem was that no one in the White House wanted to deal with the issue," Mixner tells Bull. "They just didn't have a stomach for a fight over a gay cause, and that left a vacuum for [anti-gay former Sen. Sam Nunn (D-Ga)] and Byrd to fill. We never had a chance."

Barr, Yes; Romney, No

One of our community's old nemeses, former Georgia Congressman Bob Barr, has become a for-now ally.

Some years back, Barr authored the Defense of Marriage Act signed into law by Bill Clinton. DOMA holds that no state can be forced to recognize same-sex marriages performed in another state, and then goes on to forbid the federal government from recognizing same-sex unions (e.g., no joint tax filings, no social security inheritance, no green card for non-U.S. same-sex spouses). While the first half of DOMA basically restates what many constitutional scholars believe is already a state's prerogative to set and interpret marriage law, the federal prohibition is truly noxious and unforgivable.

But Barr gets some positive karmic points for his testimony this week before the Senate Judiciary Committee on the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA). Unlike his fellow Republicans such as Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney, who disgraced himself by calling for a federal constitutional amendment that would prohibit his state from ever approving gay marriage, Barr blasted the proposed FMA, saying:

Part of federalism means that states have the right to make bad decisions - even on the issue of who can get married in the state. Resisting the temptation to use the federal government to meddle in state matters is the test of this conservative principle. Indeed, it is the test separating conservative federalists from hard-line social conservatives, willing to sacrifice the Constitution in their understandable anxiety over the sorry state of modern morality....

[T]he amendment supported by Governor Romney...takes a moral decision out of the states, where it is most likely to be made with the optimal benefit to everyone, and hands it to a couple of lone elected officials. To be frank, I do not appreciate their presumption to dictate morals to my fellow Georgians through misuse of the federal Constitution....

[T]he Governor is pleading for this Congress and the federal government to protect him against the Massachusetts state constitution, the Massachusetts legislature, the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, and most ironically, the people of Massachusetts.

So, for today, two cheers for Bob Barr!

Reagan and AIDS: A Reassessment

For gay Americans, any evaluation of Ronald Reagan's legacy begins and ends with his record on AIDS. According to the conventional view, Reagan was responsible for the deaths of thousands of gay men.

On the official day of national mourning for Reagan, the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) closed its office to mourn those who have died of AIDS. NGLTF's executive director, Matt Foreman, issued an open letter blasting Reagan for "years of White House silence and inaction." Eric Rofes, a gay author, complained that Reagan "said nothing and did nothing" about AIDS.

But Foreman and some other critics have gone even further, suggesting that criminal malevolence and anti-gay bigotry drove Reagan administration policies on AIDS. "I wouldn't feel so angry if the Reagan administration's failing was due to ignorance or bureaucratic ineptitude," Foreman wrote in his open letter. "No, ... we knew then it was deliberate."

According to Wayne Besen, a former spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign, "we were considered expendable and forsaken by the President." Larry Kramer wrote in The Advocate that Reagan was a "murderer," worse even than Adolf Hitler.

Though exaggerated and somewhat misplaced, the negligence theory is arguable. The malice theory is a calumny.

First, it's untrue that the Reagan administration "said nothing" in response to the disease. In June 1983, a year before the virus that causes AIDS had even been publicly identified, Reagan's Secretary of Health and Human Services, Margaret Heckler, announced at the U.S. Conference of Mayors that the department "considers AIDS its number-one health priority." She specifically praised "the excellent work done by gay networks around the nation" that had spread information about the disease.

Despite the oft-repeated claim that Reagan himself didn't mention AIDS publicly until 1987, he actually first discussed it at a press conference in September 1985. Responding to a reporter's question about the need for more funding, Reagan accurately noted that the federal government had already spent more than half a billion dollars on AIDS up to that point. "So, this is a top priority with us," said Reagan. "Yes, there's no question about the seriousness of this and the need to find an answer."

Still, Reagan could have said more. He could have offered sympathy for the dying. He could have inveighed against discrimination. He could have urged prevention education. A master at using the bully pulpit for causes he believed in, Reagan manifestly failed to use it on the subject of AIDS.

In this, it must be noted, he was hardly alone. Most politicians of the age either failed to grasp the seriousness of AIDS or, grasping it, were reluctant to discuss openly a disease spread primarily through anal sex and dirty needles. For years, New York City Mayor Ed Koch, a Democrat presiding over the epicenter of the disease, refused even to meet with AIDS groups. AIDS was not mentioned from the podium of either national party convention in 1984. "Silence" about AIDS was a national failing, not one peculiar to Reagan.

Second, it's untrue that the Reagan administration "did nothing" in response to the disease. Deroy Murdock, a gay-friendly conservative columnist, has reviewed federal spending on AIDS programs during the Reagan years. According to Murdock, annual spending rose from eight million dollars in 1982 to more than $2.3 billion in 1989. In all, the federal government spent almost six billion dollars on AIDS during Reagan's tenure.

It's true that Congress repeatedly added to low-ball Reagan budget requests for AIDS. But that is a familiar dynamic between any White House and any Congress: the White House proposes minimal funding for a program knowing that Congress will add to any proposal. In the 1990's, for example, the Republican Congress added to Bill Clinton's budget requests for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program.

Reagan's stinginess on AIDS funding, if that's what it was, was not due to anti-gay malevolence but was an extension of his stinginess on funding other domestic programs.

In this, too, Reagan was not alone. In his book And the Band Played On, Randy Shilts notes that in 1983 New York Governor Mario Cuomo, a hero to liberals, nixed (on fiscal grounds) the Republican-dominated state senate's bid to spend $5.2 million on AIDS research and prevention programs. Cuomo's state health commissioner responded to criticism by saying that hypertension was a more important health issue for the state.

Yes, we could have spent more, but that can always be said of federal spending. And it's unclear that additional funding would have accomplished much. "You could have poured half the national budget into AIDS in 1983, and it would have gone down a rat hole," says Michael Fumento, an author specializing in health and science issues. We simply didn't know enough about the disease early on to spend huge sums wisely.

Gay journalist Bob Roehr, who has closely followed AIDS developments for 20 years, concurs. "I have little reason to believe that a different course of action by Reagan would have significantly altered the scientific state of knowledge" toward a "cure" or vaccine, he says.

Aside from spending, it was Reagan's surgeon general who sent the first-ever bulletin to all American homes warning explicitly about AIDS transmission. Reagan created the first presidential commission dealing with AIDS. And, in 1988, Reagan barred discrimination against federal employees with HIV.

As for Reagan being a murderer, we should remember that he didn't give anybody AIDS. We ourselves bear the lion's share of responsibility for that.

How to Make Pride Matter

First published on June 23, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

Over the 35 years since the Stonewall events gave a welcome boost to earlier gay activism, we have seen a number of innovations in activist techniques, visibility models and message communication.

In the early years, there were "zaps" of homophobic politicians, media outlets and anti-gay businesses. The AIDS epidemic brought ACT-UP demonstrations with their careful attention to maximizing media exposure, catchy slogans and innovative physical actions like "die ins." Gay marriage brought lines of gay and lesbian couples dressed up and waiting in line for a marriage license, all the more effective a demonstration for not being intended as one.

All during this time there have been annual gay parades under their various names. But have the parades managed any real innovations? Not noticeably. They are larger - huge in some cities - more politicians attend and more businesses participate. But the point seems to have disappeared.

In the early years, parades emphasized coming out. Then there was an emphasis on civil rights laws or AIDS. But the parades don't seem to have a message any more unless it is "We're on display and isn't that fun?" It is just a gay visibility parade. It's the one day in the year the media pay attention to our lives and our movement, and we utterly fail to use it.

The international pride parade group InterPride suggestions for 2004 ran the gamut from bland to witless. The primary theme is "Vive La Difference" with alternate themes of "Stand Out, Stand Proud" or "Living the Rainbow." Who are the drooling idiots who came up with those?

We are threatened by a constitutional amendment to bar gay marriage but all InterPride can suggest is "Vive La Difference"? What difference? That heterosexuals can marry and gays cannot? Most states do not have gay civil rights laws but InterPride suggests "Living the Rainbow"? Well, you had better do it in the closet or you might get fired. "Stand up, Stand Proud"? Well, you had better not in the U.S. military.

To be sure, InterPride picks themes that will fit everywhere in the world. But that is exactly the problem. Gay movements in various states and countries are at different stages of development and have different priorities. A theme that fits everywhere sends no pointed message anywhere. Local pride organizers should choose, as smart ones already do, locally relevant themes that parade contingents can use in floats and signs - themes like "Marriage Now" or "Fight the Federal Marriage Amendment."

Then think about the political and health activist groups who carry signs along the parade route so spectators see them. But spectators probably already know their goals and agree with them. It is the politicians and government officials attending the parade who should see the signs. But if they are in the parade, too, they don't see them.

It would be more useful for the spectators to hold up signs as the politicians and political candidates drive past: "Gay Marriage," "Support Gay Civil Rights," "Military Access Now." Let the politicians know what you as gay and lesbian spectators want them to do. You are their boss. Never forget that.

It is also time to stop being nice to politicians who claim to be pro-gay but do little on our behalf. For instance, Illinois Democrats long promised that when they controlled the governor's office and the legislature they would pass a gay civil rights bill. Well, they do now and they didn't. And none of them has breathed a word about repealing the state's gay marriage ban.

So it is time to stop cheering politicians for merely turning up at our parade - that is a 1970s mentality - and start booing them for playing us for fools. If we cheer them, it only makes them believe they can keep on getting away with merely verbal support. Remember: they have an incentive not to pass pro-gay laws, because once they do, then they have nothing left to keep promising us to get our votes.

But what if some ostensibly pro-gay but non-producing politician - such as Illinois Gov. Rod Blagojevich - fails to turn up at the parade and take their lumps like adults? We can do what political candidates do when opponents don't attend a debate. They set out an empty chair with his name on it. So someone should be ready to chauffeur an otherwise empty convertible with a sign on it reading "Where Is ____?" to draw attention to his absence. It is time to play hardball with these knaves.

And last, since we have all seen too many unadorned beer trucks and company vans in the parade, would it be too much for our unimaginative parade committees to make a rule that parade entries have to have some gay content or theme or decoration in order to participate?

And, oh yes, if you are thinking of cheering the inevitable contingent of "Kerry for President" enthusiasts, remember that Sen. Kerry supports a Massachusetts state constitutional amendment to prohibit gay marriage. I just thought I'd mention it.

Have a happy Pride.

Surprise: No Popular Uproar Over Marriage.

The Sunday Washington Post ran a big story, "Foes Confounded by Limited Outcry Against Gay Marriage," saying the marriage issue isn't catching on for the right:

Evangelical leaders had predicted that a chorus of righteous anger would rise up out of churches from coast to coast and overwhelm Congress with letters, e-mails and phone calls in support of a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage. But that has not happened.

Then, Monday's Wall Street Journal had a big story (only online for subscribers) titled: "Christian Coalition Working for a Revival: Gay-Marriage Issue Seen as a Lightning Rod for Fresh Energy, New Conservative Troops." But the Journal story is more about hard-core activists being up in arms and organizing themselves ("Some 30 new diretors have been appointed to coalition chapters") than about the grassroots troops marching in the streets or phoning/writing Congress.

While abortion -- seen as saving the innocent unborn from slaughter -- galvanized the conservative church-going, work-a-day types to protest, same-sex marriage hasn't, and I think will not. The activist leadership of the religious right still doesn't get this, since their homophobic fanaticism is such a big part of their psychological makeup. But it's not translating to the masses who may personally oppose gay marriage but don't see any need to pass a constitutional amendment telling the liberals over in Massachusetts what their state can or can't do.

Talkin’ Conservative.

Fair-minded conservative humorist P.J. O'Rourke, writing in The Atlantic:

I'm so conservative that I approve of San Francisco City Hall marriages, adoption by same-sex couples, and New Hampshire's recently ordained Episcopal bishop. Gays want to get married, have children, and go to church. Next they'll be advocating school vouchers, boycotting HBO, and voting Republican.

Actually, that pretty well sums up how to make a conservative case for gay equality, with an emphasis on promoting social stability and not simply advancing rights (or, as the right would have it, "special rights").

I wish the big-money gay lobby groups would learn how to "speak conservative," rather than hurling the language of liberalism and wondering why their arguments are so readily dismissed. It's not that those arguments are wrong (e.g., we have a right to be who we are and to live as we want, and the government should not deny us our fair share of recognition/legal equality/social benefits). But for conservatives who are concerned/fixated on maintaining social cohesion in the face of imminent anarchy, they might as well be speaking Greek. And of course, the hard gay left delights in preaching that their lgbtqxyz movement is, in fact, aimed at obliterating bourgeois normality, capitalism, etc. (thanks guys).