A Glass Half-Full or Half-Empty?

Two op-eds from gay-sympathetic straights come to differingt conclusions on the state of the gay rights fight. In the Pittsburgh Tribune-Review, Dimitri Vassilaros catalogs the string of defeats gays encountered in 2004 and says, "To paraphrase Kermit the Frog, it's not easy being gay.... The news lately has not been very good for non-heterosexuals." But writing in his widely syndicated column, Michael Kinsley finds that:

Gay civil union, itself a radical concept from the perspective of just a few years ago, has widespread support outside of liberal circles. The notion that gay relationships should enjoy at least some of the benefits of marriage...is probably a majority view.

Today's near-universal and minimally respectable attitude - the rock-bottom, non-negotiable price of admission to polite society and the political debate - is an acceptance of gay people and of open, unapologetic homosexuality as part of American life that would have shocked, if not offended, great liberals of a few decades ago such as Hubert Humphrey.

Of course, both perspectives are true - gays have made great strides in the long march toward equality and sufferred devastating politic defeats. That's the oddity of our times, highlighting the challenge of recognizing and moving beyond the failed strategies of the recent past.

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The Lower Depths.

I haven't wanted to wade through the sewer that is the Internet campaign by Michael Rogers, formerly of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, to "out" low-level, closeted gay Republican staffers working on Capitol Hill. But his recent missive, asking his minions to call and encourage anti-gay organizations to pressure Republicans to fire their gay employees, seems about as low as you can get.

On a much happier note, we welcome former Log Cabin leader Rich Tafel to the blogosphere. Check it out.

Wanting Their Marriage Cake and Eating It, Too?

posted December 10, 2004

Massachusetts companies, some of which pioneered domestic-partner benefits for unmarried, same-sex partners, said they are now withdrawing them for reasons of fairness: If gays can now marry, they should no longer receive special treatment in the form of health benefits that were not made available to unmarried, opposite-sex couples, reports the Boston Globe.

For those who believe that "marriage lite" alternatives actually weakened marriage, that's good news. But the Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD) of New England argues that taking away partner benefits for the unwed is discriminatory. Way to get across the message that gays want to strengthen marriage by joining it, GLAD!

Canadian Marriage Isn’t Done Deal.

Canada could become the third country (after Belgium and the Netherlands) to fully legalize same-sex marriage, but a potentially bruising fight in parliament awaits, reports the Toronto Star. While the Canadian Supreme Court has ruled that the government can legalize same-sex marriage, this actually disappointed many activists who hoped the court would rule that the government must grant recognition to same-sex couples. Of course, as we've seen elsewhere, using court decrees to override the democratic process doesn't always work out so well in the end.

Belgium and the Netherlands both began with domestic partnerships/civil unions that were eventually merged into full marriage, so it will be instructive to see how the Canadian strategy plays out. I hope gay marriage is embraced by the people and their elected representatives. But I wouldn't expect U.S. gay marriage opponents to weaken their resolve either way.

Meanwhile, New Zealand goes the civil unions route.

A New Course?

In a welcome development, the Human Rights Campaign is reevaluating its failed strategies. Reports the New York Times, HRC's board has:

concluded that the group must bow to political reality and moderate its message and its goals. One official said the group would consider supporting President Bush's efforts to privatize Social Security partly in exchange for the right of gay partners to receive benefits under the program.

A sensible idea, but of course one that immediate elicited howls of protest from gay lefties.

If the Log Cabin Republican's leadership had been savvy, they would long ago have embraced social security personal accounts as a GOP-initiative that was good for gays, and perhaps even made some strategic alliances within the party. But, of course, they didn't. Gay Patriot West has more to say about LCR's identity crisis.

Lesson Not Learned.

Lambda Legal has emailed a press release ballyhooing that a New Jersey appeals court has heard its case "seeking marriage equality for same-sex couples." Says the release:

the judges asked us whether we're seeking to change the definition of marriage in New Jersey. We explained that there will be changes ahead and that judges haven't shied away from change when it brings the state in line with its constitution. We've seen similar change in Massachusetts recently, when same-sex couples began legally marrying there. The sky didn't fall and the world didn't crumble, and that's what we'll be seeing in New Jersey, as well.

Which brings to mind the question, What planet do these people live on? If 13 states passing state constitutional gay-marriage bans this year in the wake of Massachusetts wasn't enough (11 did so on Nov. 2), it's likely that a decision by a liberal NJ court ordering same-sex marriage could be just the extra impetus that backers of the Federal Marriage Amendment need to write their ban into the U.S. Constitution. Will Lambda be celebrating then?

Arguing for the rights of marriage through civil unions or domestic partnerships as an first step - and one that actually has the electorate's support - would have been the saner course.

Lesson Learned?

The Devil's Advocacy blog notes the Human Rights Campaign's plummeting clout on Capitol Hill under it's "only Democrats matter" strategy of late:

While HRC supporters characterize their shift to the left in the past years as a natural shift in strategy, the numbers tell a different story. In the 107th Congress, the HRC asked Members of Congress to sign a pledge that they wouldn't discriminate in their offices on the basis of sexual orientation; 68 out of 100 Senators signed.

In the 108th, however, the HRC broadened their pledge to include gender identity ... [T]he concept of a protected class for transgendered folks isn't as bipartisanly supported; this year, the HRC lost 46 of its previous pledges.

Many say this is progress, but in a town where politics is perception, the perception of progress is slipping.

It certinaly is.

Without Rose-Colored Glasses.

Abner Mason, an openly gay Bush appointee, argues in the Advocate that Bush's support for an anti-gay marriage consitutional amendment shouldn't overshadow his:

preelection statement on ABC's Good Morning America that he supports civil unions for gay couples....While making clear his opposition to same-sex marriage, Bush said he disagreed with the Republican platform, which opposes civil unions. ...

At a minimum, the president merited praise for his public recognition that gay relationships deserve respect and support. There was none. His announcement was met with deafening silence and, from some gay leaders, sharp criticism that condemned Bush's decision to back civil unions....

I guess it could be said that gay activists (including, in this case, the Log Cabin Republicans) never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity. (Hat tip: Gay Patriot).

Also in the Advocate, Dr. Gary R. Cohan observes of gay activists:

These ambitious, well-intentioned, but dangerously naive baby boomer leaders grew up in a fast-food culture of instant gratification. They acted on impulse -- "Let's go for the gold!" -- and in the process have torpedoed 20 years of forward movement in a single election. We need to express our disappointment with some serious introspection, more judicious philanthropy, and a major reorganization of our civil rights strategy.

And, he adds:

We presumed we could skip the usual prerequisites of winning the "hearts and minds" of the American public. So swept-up in the moment were we that we ignored an important fact: Even decent-minded straight people were having difficulty grasping the concept of "gay marriage."

This is the type of reevaluation that we most need right now.

Be Careful What You Wish For

First published December 8, 2004, in the Chicago Free Press.

Two current court cases go far to illuminate the old adage "Be Careful What You Wish For" because, no matter whether it's welcomed by liberals or conservatives, a decision they won yesterday may come back to haunt them today or tomorrow.

A few years ago in a case called Boy Scouts of America v. Dale, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the right of the Boy Scouts to expel Scout leader James Dale because his homosexuality conflicted with what the Boy Scouts suddenly discovered was their fundamental value of heterosexuality. The court said that organizations may legitimately exclude people whose conduct or beliefs conflicts with the organization's values and its public message.

Many conservatives welcomed the decision because it enabled a popular organization to uphold its values by excluding people (gays and atheists) whom conservatives, too, regarded as immoral.

But then on Nov. 29, the Third Circuit Court of Appeals in Philadelphia ruled in the case of FAIR v. Rumsfeld that the so-called "Solomon amendment," which prohibited colleges and universities from receiving federal funds if they bar military recruiters from campus because of the military's anti-gay policy, violated the schools' First Amendment right to exclude groups they considered discriminatory.

The precedent the court cited was Dale: "Just as the Boy Scouts believed that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the Scout Oath, the law schools (that brought the case) believe that employment discrimination (as by the military) is inconsistent with their commitment to fairness and justice," the court said.

In short, law schools have a right, in the first place, not to associate with discriminatory organizations like the military. But in addition, the court ruled, pressuring the schools to allow such discriminatory groups on campus interferes with the schools' ability to convey the message that discrimination is wrong.

So of course conservatives who had been gleeful about the Dale decision are upset that the precedent Dale established was being used to give other organizations the same freedom from government interference that they wanted for the Boy Scouts.

Then on the same day, the U.S. Supreme Court heard oral argument in the case of Raich v. Ashcroft, involving the right of patients to use marijuana for medical purposes when recommended by their doctor and state law allows the practice. Medical marijuana is not an inherently gay issue, but enough gay men with AIDS find marijuana helpful that it is of gay interest, at least.

This particular case was brought by two women who used medical marijuana, one who grew her own, the other who received it free from friends.

The Ninth Circuit Court in San Francisco held that since the women's activity was not commercial nor did it cross state lines, it was not covered by Congress's constitutional authority to regulate interstate commerce, so federal efforts to prohibit the women's activity were unconstitutional. That decision was welcomed by liberals, who are generally sympathetic with medical marijuana, if not full drug decriminalization.

The women's case was argued before the Supreme Court by distinguished libertarian law professor Randy Barnett of Boston University. Using the same argument that was successful with the Ninth Circuit, Barnett told the court that the prohibition of "activity that is non-economic and wholly intrastate" was not essential to the federal government's regulatory functions.

But according to the New York Times, the justices seemed doubtful about that argument and seemed to accept the federal government's claim that the case was similar to a notorious 1942 case called Wickard v Filburn, which held that under the Commerce Clause the government could regulate the amount of wheat a farmer grew for his own use on his own farm.

As the argument went, all wheat production took place within a "national market" and if the farmer had not grown his own wheat, he would have to buy it from someone else, which would be commercial activity. So by not engaging in commerce, the farmer was engaging in commerce. Judicial sophistry has seldom risen to such heights. George Orwell, call your office.

To be sure, we could say that the Court was gripped by wartime hysteria. And we can recall that the Supreme Court had been thoroughly cowed by President Roosevelt's court packing threats of a few years before. But the Wickard decision was gleefully welcomed by liberals as confirming the right of the New Deal to centrally direct people's economic activity.

But sadly for medical marijuana users, Wickard is still the law. Barnett was probably itching to tell the Court frankly that it should once and for all overrule Wickard, as indeed it should. But Barnett's obligation as the women's advocate was to make the most palatable case to the current mix of justices and that required trying to evade Wickard by distinguishing his case from that one.

If, as likely, the women lose, liberals who once celebrated a ruling that increased government control of people's lives may well rue a decision now used to prohibit activities they sympathize with.

The Supreme Court should affirm both appeals court decisions. Unfortunately, the present Court will probably find ways to reverse both.

Gay Representations: Only So Far

I finally caught up with "Alexander," in which director Oliver Stone makes amends, somewhat, for his virulently homophobic conspiracy-theory flick "JFK." Alexander the Great is portrayed as bisexual, but clearly he feels real intimacy is what men physically share at night in bed, while women are for making heirs.

Still, the love between men is something that's talked of, save for one kiss and a few hugs, while the one heterosexual bedroom scene is quite explicit. A cop out? Well, in the Washington, D.C. theater where I saw the film with a mixed-race audience, the mere discussion of manly love elicited derisive cat-calls. So I guess Stone and his producers know their audience and how much (or rather, how little) of same-sex physicality they're willing to watch in a big-budget epic.

At the same time, nonsexual gays keeping popping up all over the small screen. The latest: On TBS's new reality show, "The Real Gilligan's Island" (in which two teams of castaways compete "Survivor" style), one of the "professors" turned out to be openly gay. Of course, didn't the original sitcom professor always seem gay (having shown little interest in Ginger or Mary Ann)?

Just as Americans, save for the hard religious-right flank, seem OK with domestic partnerships but not marriage, they seem OK with gays in the media but only if they're de-sexed ("Will & Grace" being the ultimate example). Over time, the comfort level with both gay marriage and physical displays of affection should increase, but it won't happen soon.

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