In Public Schools, Homosexuality Is Politicized–And Mostly Absent.

The nation is seeing an increasingly polarized debate on how-if at all-government (that is, "public") schools should discuss homosexuality, reports the Washington Post:

In most of the country, the trend in sex education is toward "abstinence only," which dictates that sex outside of marriage is wrong and potentially dangerous. Such programs tend to bypass homosexuality, except to characterize gay sex as a public health risk....

SIECUS [the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S.] counts nine states that require "something negative" if sexual orientation is taught, such as characterizing homosexuality as unacceptable behavior.

The Post goes on to note that:

the federal government...since the mid-1990s has required a strict abstinence-only approach as a condition for substantial federal funds. Such programs, the government says, should endorse sex only in the confines of marriage, one reason they tend to skirt homosexuality.

And yet polls show only a quarter of Americans deem homosexuality and sexual orientation inappropriate topics for sex education, while a majority think schools should teach what homosexuality is (but not whether it is right or wrong). Given the lack of "school choice" in public education, that's probably the best common standard we can hope for, and one that is still much better than the "gays as health risk" view taught with the government's blessing in certain locales.

Public schools cannot help but be creatures of government, and increasingly it's the federal government that calls the curriculum shots. This means common sense, factual teaching falls by the wayside. While a few liberal districts go out on a rope (and risk federal funding) by teaching tolerance, many more treat homosexuality as beyond the pale.

Now, if education were privatized and government provided, say, tuition vouchers instead of buildings and (overstaffed) bureaucracies, there would still be a wide divergence on how homosexuality was taught. But at least the negative, "abstinence outside marriage" (and no marriage for immoral gays) view would not be coming directly from government educrats.

More. The Cato Institute makes a similar point in Why We Fight: How Public Schools Cause Social Conflict: "Such clashes are inevitable in government-run schooling because all Americans are required to support the public schools, but only those with the most political power control them."

Coulter’s Conservative Minstrelsy

I have a confession to make: I compulsively watch Ann Coulter whenever I happen to catch her on TV. She's like watching a movie in which you know there will be a disaster but you aren't sure how and when it will come about. You stick around for the climax.

Coulter climaxed in early March at an annual convention of conservative activists, where she said: "I was going to have a few comments on the other Democratic presidential candidate, John Edwards, but it turns out you have to go into rehab if you use the word 'faggot,' so I [pause for audience reaction] -- so kind of an impasse, can't really talk about Edwards."

She later defended her use of what she conceded was a "sophomoric" word by saying it was a "school-yard taunt" meant not to imply that Edwards was homosexual but that he was "lame" and a "wuss." It was also a reference to a recent incident in which TV star Isaiah Washington referred to a co-star as a "faggot." When the incident became public, Washington went into counseling. Coulter cracked that she would never insult gays by comparing them to Edwards.

Was Coulter's use of the word objectionable? Of course it was. The word is a school-yard taunt, as Coulter said. It's been hurled at many gay (and straight) youths as they grow up, to great and painful effect. But how exactly does this fact cleanse her use of it? It works as a taunt precisely because of its association with homosexuality, and because of the implication that male homosexuals are, as Coulter might have it, lame wusses.

Coulter may not be personally anti-gay in the sense of being uncomfortable around gay people. But it's possible to use stereotypes and hate for personal or political gain without actually being personally hateful, and she's to be condemned for that. I don't expect much better from Coulter, whom a straight right-wing friend described to me as having intellectual Tourette's.

Much more interesting was the reaction. From the videotape, the audience appears to have reacted with a mix of surprise, bewilderment, disapproval, murmuring, laughter, and finally applause. You can see from Coulter's face that she herself was a bit taken aback by the fact that the reaction was not universal mirth.

All three of the major Republican presidential candidates somewhat perfunctorily denounced Coulter. Mitt Romney has noticeably adopted President Bush's mantra about homosexuals, affirming blandly that all persons are entitled to be treated with "dignity and respect." Reaction from the conservative blogosphere was, in varying degrees and with varying qualifications, censorious.

Still, why did anyone laugh at or applaud the remark? It wasn't even mildly humorous, either as a reference to the Washington incident, as an anti-gay joke, or as a slap at Edwards.

When I was in college and law school, young conservatives like me adopted a highly adversarial and theatrical persona when it came to politics. This persona was formed and honed in debating societies. We would say the most outlandish things, defend the most extreme propositions, to amuse each other and to annoy and shock liberals on campus. It was and is, especially on campuses dominated by liberal faculties and students -- which is to say most colleges and law schools -- the transgressive and nonconformist thing to do.

It was entertaining and fun, and we understood that we didn't really believe most of the things we were saying in quite the way we said them. The world was, in our rhetoric, one of absolute certainties, black and white, right and wrong, patriot and traitor, admitting no doubt. Anyone who did not hold forth in this stylized fashion was a "squish." It was the conservative version of political theater, fueled by the kind of self confidence you get after a couple of gin-and-tonics.

Back in college, a conservative friend once saw a book about the Inquisition on my desk, then looked at me and quipped, "Pro or con?"

We would debate topics like, "Resolved: The Government Should Surrender in the War on Poverty," and "Resolved: The Public Schools Should Be Padlocked, Not Reformed."

It didn't do any real harm and actually goaded complacent campuses into political discussion. But most of us grew up, got jobs, lived in the real world where much is squishy, and dropped the bravado if not the conservative politics.

Most of us weren't at the forefront of gay rights, but I never heard anyone call another person "faggot." A surprisingly large number of us turned out to be gay.

A big part of the audience that laughed at and applauded Coulter also comes from that milieu. There were a lot of young male conservatives present who are still in college or are fresh from it. They were laughing and clapping, not necessarily because they hate gays or like cheap name-calling (though I'm sure some of them do), but because they revel in this form of rebellion. They can't admit to consuming pornography, or to smoking dope, or to looking at other guys in the gym, but they can applaud things that rightly appall responsible people. There's no excuse for it in this instance, but at least most of them will grow out of it.

Coulter, an aging conservative frat boy, a right-wing minstrel, keeps it up because it gets her money and attention. The less we give her of both the better off we'll all be.

DADT Unmasked.

Marine Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, makes the thinking behind the military's "don't ask, don't tell" gay ban perfectly clear:

"I believe that homosexual acts between individuals are immoral and that we should not condone immoral acts. I do not believe that the armed forces of the United States are well served by saying through our policies that it's OK to be immoral in any way."

Oh, and then there's that "unit cohesion" thing, too.

But gays are much more an open part of our world then when "don't ask" was put in place by President Clinton, at the instigation not just of congressional Republicans but of Democratic bigwigs like senators Sam Nunn and Robert Byrd. This time, GOP Sen. John Warner, one of Congress' most respected authorities on military matters and a former Navy secretary, shot pack at Gen. Pace: "I respectfully but strongly disagree with the chairman's view that homosexuality is immoral."

In other words, the threshold of anti-gay bigotry is much lower these days, even among Republicans (see Coulter, Ann, response to), suggesting that the gay ban is unlikely to survive the post-Bush presidency, whichever party takes the White House.

How Clintonesque.

"I have heard from many of my friends in the gay community that my response yesterday to a question about homosexuality being immoral sounded evasive. My intention was to focus the conversation on the failed don't ask, don't tell policy. I should have echoed my colleague Senator John Warner's statement forcefully stating that homosexuality is not immoral because that is what I believe."-Hillary Clinton in a March 15 statement

Her initial political inclination was to try to stay to the right of Virginia's GOP senior senator, and to thereby earn her expected Human Rights Campaign endorsement without actually having to affirm the dignity of gay people.

A Right Worth Defending.

Our friend and fellow blogger Tom G. Palmer has helped score a legal victory in defense of constitutional freedoms, specifically the right to own a gun for self-protection. The case concerns our nation's capital, where adult citizens are barred from legally owning or possessing firearms. No licensing, no background checks, a total ban. Reports the Washington Post:

Palmer, 50, said that his gun rescued him 25 years ago when he was approached by a group of men in San Jose. Palmer, who is gay, said he believed the men were targeting him because of his sexual orientation. He said he and a friend started to run away, but then he took action.

"I turned around and showed them the business side of my gun and told them if they took another step, I'd shoot," he said, adding that that ended the confrontation.

Palmer moved to [Washington, D.C.] in 1975 and lives in the U Street NW corridor, where police have struggled lately to curb assaults and other crimes.

Many believe the state alone should have a monopoly on all protective weaponry. Apart from denying free individuals the right to defend life and property (including equalizing the terms with gay bashers when the cops don't happen to be around!), legal gun ownership serves as the founders intended, as a barrier to the government ever veering too close to tyranny (one of the first laws Hitler passed was to bar German Jews from owning guns). It's a right worth fighting for.

More. Over at The Volokh Conspiracy, law prof. Eugene Volokh takes on the meaning of "militia" as used in the Second Amendment, noting that the Supreme Court has ruled:

"The signification attributed to the term Militia appears from the debates in the Convention, the history and legislation of Colonies and States, and the writings of approved commentators. These show plainly enough that the Militia comprised all males physically capable of acting in concert for the common defense."

Yet much of the liberal media pretend as if the founders, anachronistically, were pre-visioning something akin to the contemporary National Guard. But why rely on facts when confusion serves the political purpose so much better?

The Left’s Politics of (Attempted) Personal Destruction, Again.

Lefty bloggers outed a campus ex-Marine conservative, Matt Sanchez, by publicizing that he had appeared in a gay porn film years earlier, and Sanchez responds.

Given the left's constant talk about equality, discrimination, minority rights and systemic oppression, I thought the fact that I was a Hispanic, a Marine, a nontraditional, 36-year-old Ivy League student and a 100 percent flag-waving red-blooded Reagan Republican would make my point of view interesting, but so be it. Everything is political now, and even the double standards have talking points....

Those on the left who now attack me would be defending me if I had espoused liberal causes and spoken out against the Iraq war before I was outed as a pseudo celebrity. They'd be talking about publishing my memoir and putting me on a diversity ticket with Barack Obama. Instead, those who complain about wire-tapping reserve the right to pry into my private life and my past for political brownie points....

I am embarrassed to admit that was I worried that my fellow conservatives would distance themselves from me when the news about my film career broke. The opposite has happened. I've been asked to give my point of view, invited to speak at various functions, and invited back on television. My peers on the right have gone out of their way to give me a vote of confidence and avoid a rush to judgment. I appreciate the support. I am also not really that troubled by the abuse I've taken from the other side.

And there's an interesting take over at Protein Wisdom on the left's hatred of gays who won't toe the party line:

In Matt Sanchez, we have a conservative who, from the perspective of his earlier libertine attitudes toward sex and sexual orientation, wandered off the "progressive" plantation, and so, to people like [leftwing blogger Tom Bacchus], must be exposed, mocked, and MADE TO PAY for his ideological transgressions, the undisguised subtext being that the political positions of gay men must necessarily be tied to that of the collective, which not only presumes to speak for them, but which, it is clear, is willing to police its ranks by engaging, in the most vicious ways, in behaviors it claims ostensibly to find anathema-namely, reducing a person to his sexual orientation (the game of "outing") in order to undermine his positions (which has the net effect of arguing that your only value as a homosexual is tied inexorably to what you are willing to do for the orthodoxy's conception of "the cause"; your individualism, that is, is ironically only granted you should you willingly surrender it to the Greater Good).

I do think there's an important distinction between closeted homosexuals who work against gay equality, and gays who are libertarian/conservative and trying to work toward greater freedom from within that camp. But to a great many on the self-righteous, smug, and (yes) hate-driven left, any gay non-"progressive" is an open target that must be silenced or destroyed.

I don't know enough about Sanchez (who reportedly does not identify as gay) to peg him, but I do know that I'm appalled by the tactics of those who would bring him down.

More. The National Gay & Lesbian Task Force weighs in with a defense of Sanchez-and porn. But the response, probably written shortly after the brouhaha began, assumes that Sanchez's fellow conservatives would break with him (they haven't, just as they didn't abandon openly gay conservative Jeff Gannon when bloggers publicized his past work as an escort/hustler). NGLTF also doesn't take into account that Sanchez is himself now a critic of the porn industry (which may, in fact, be what does make him acceptable to his fellow conservatives).

One-Sided Sensitivity.

Isaiah Washington wins an NAACP Image Award! Washington, of "Grey's Anatomy" infamy, originally called co-star T.R. Knight a "little faggot," and then at the Golden Globes denied doing so while managing again to deploy the "F" word.

No sign of protest from HRC and friends about their liberal allies, though TMZ.com suggests that perhaps now Michael Richards should receive a GLAAD Award, and Queer Sighted isn't very happy, either.

But then I guess GLAAD has just been too busy condemning gay drag queens for their supposed racial insensitivity!

De-Coulterizing Republicans

Ann Coulter wasn't even brave enough to directly say it.

She didn't call presidential candidate John Edwards a faggot, not exactly.

At the end of the speech she was giving at the American Conservative Union Political Action Conference, she said, "I was going to have a few comments on the other Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, but it turns out you have to go into rehab if you use the word 'faggot,' so I - so kind of an impasse, can't really talk about Edwards."

She was probably pointing to actor Isaiah Washington, who referred to Grey's Anatomy co-star (and gay man) T.R. Knight as a faggot. But Washington, at least, apologized to the community and met with gay leaders. He checked into rehab because-well, because that's what stars seem to do when they commit big social gaffes.

Ann Coulter, though-Ann Coulter, when confronted, just continued making jokes. On her website, she says, "I'm so ashamed, I can't stop laughing."

Really, Ann Coulter? Really?

I mean, come on.

Sure, you're a right-wing pitbull who has made her name by attacking anything and everyone to the left of fascist. And yes, you once said Al Gore was a fag, though because you did it in an almost gentle half-insider kind of way, it came across as a fag hag's idea of a joke instead of a venomous attack like this one. And indeed, your crowd of young admirers cheered you on as you said it, laughing, as if they had never heard anything as funny as a serious candidate for president, a former United States Senator, being deeply insulted by a cheap throwaway line.

But-Ann Coulter. Really. Is this what you want the future of politics to look like? The future of democracy? The future of America? Do you really want serious debate about a very serious issue-the issue of who will be elected to lead our country-do you really want this debate to be hijacked by a round of playground bully-type name calling?

It seems to me, Ann Coulter, that someone with your brains and quick wit could certainly do better than saying, "Nyah, nyah, your guy's a faggot!" to a national audience.

But maybe Ann Coulter can't do better, not any more. Maybe she's bought her own hype. Maybe she thinks she is the woman she plays on TV. Maybe she thinks its enough, now, to be outrageous instead of outrageously smart, or outrageously pointed.

Ann Coulter, after all, is theater. She's not even a real person. She's like those World Wrestling Federation guys in tight shiny, skin-revealing outfits who pretend to be fierce and powerful but really have to plan out all their moves beforehand so they won't get hurt.

Maybe she felt that her influence is fading, that the Republican party is slowly but surely pulling away from the social conservatives who are weighing them down until they are almost drowned.

Her influence is fading. There is no question now. Her influence faded right before our eyes as, one by one, Republicans lined up to denounce her. The Republican presidential candidates denounced her. The Christian Defense Coalition denounced her. Even the Right half of the blogosphere, led by RedState, called for an old fashioned shunning, to let Ann Coulter know she was no longer one of their own.

In fact, the Red State recall of Ann Coulter has been amazing. They have made it clear that this sort of name-calling has no place in our national debate.

Good for them.

And good for us.

Because we gained something from Ann Coulter's gaffe. We saw Republicans and conservatives of all stripes come forward to say that calling someone a faggot is wrong. We saw them realize that in fact they can't say anything they want about marginalized people. That there is a line and they don't want to cross it. We witnessed our Red State brethren take a step back from the precipice of Coulter-Hannity-Limbaugh insanity, and instead say, "Wait a minute. This is not what we want. This is not who we are."

Welcome back to the table, Republicans.

Ann Coulter, you should listen to your party. You should apologize. Calling someone a faggot to get your audience to laugh doesn't just hurt gays and lesbians and their families, and doesn't just hurt John Edwards. It hurts Republicans. It hurts the political debate. It hurts Democracy. And it hurts America.

Coulter’s Outburst, HRC’s Outrage, and Politics as Usual.

Ann Coulter was her usual despicable self when she called John Edwards a "faggot," and HRC takes the opportunity to express its outrage at Republicans. But Gay Patriot shows that a good many conservative and/or Republican bloggers are also unhappy with La Coulter's antics. And we can now even add some on the Christian right.

If HRC hadn't transformed itself into a Democratic Party fundraising arm, then its reacton to something like Coulter's imbecility might not seem like such a knee-jerk, rouse the base, operation. But then, fostering meaningful dialog with those on the right is the last thing on HRC's to-do list, and so it has no credibility when it issues a response to incidents such as this.

Speaking of HRC, if you think I've been hard on their ultra partisanship of late, just read Chris Crain.

More. Andrew Sullivan blogs:

"HRC, the organization, is now fully integrated into HRC [Hillary Rodham Clinton], the campaign. It is the Clinton campaign.... What matters is what's in the best interest of the Clintons and the Democrats."

Still more. One of Coulter's themes during her CPAC address was her dislike for Rudy (she said she's likely to support Romney). Meanwhile, Rudy surges among Republicans, not all of whom are intolerant bigots, it seems. And Rudy shares is vision of the GOP as the party of freedom.

Worth noting. In her March 3 Wall Street Journal op-ed (WSJ subscribers, only), the very politically astute Peggy Noonan writes that:

In 2000 [McCain] felt he could take on Christian conservative leaders in the South. Bad timing. In 2000 they were at the peak of their 20 years of power. Now their followers are tired and questioning after a generation of political activism. And many leaders seem compromised-dinged after all that time in the air. Mr. McCain could rebuke them now and thrive. Instead he decided to attempt to embrace them.

McCain is re-fighting the last political war. I don't think Rudy is going to make that mistake.

Update. The GOP big three sharply denounce Coulter's remark.

So Lame.

A snapshot from the Culture War: Anti-gay Mormon parents sue the Santa Rosa City (Calif.) School District for giving their daughter a written reprimand for using the put-down "That's so gay." The parents, long-time opponents of the school's diversity program, consider the reprimand part of a homosexual agenda.

To be fair, the article suggests the daughter was teased about being a Mormon and that similar reprimands did not follow. That's a problem with diversity initiatives. They can't and shouldn't be neutral (no equal time for the Klan), but letting bureaucrats decide what's acceptable can mean only politically incorrect teasing gets the stick, leaving everyone to compete over who has been more "victimized."

Truth Comes Out.

The very first soldier wounded in the Iraq war-a marine who lost his leg- comes out. Retired Sgt. Eric Alva also wears a wedding ring to signify his relationship with his partner, Darrell.

Meanwhile, Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice is considering hiring at the State Dept. at least some of the Arabic-speaking gay linguists discharged from the military under "don't ask, don't tell" (also known as "lie and hide").

How much longer can this increasingly antiquated and just plain wrong policy last? I dunno, although renewed efforts for repeal are underway in Congress. But the arguments against it that will be most effective will draw on examples such as Sgt. Alva, and not the kinds of anti-military protests now popular at our elite liberal universities, which seek to hamper armed services enlistment and oppose the war while incidentally citing the gay-exclusion policy.

"Stop the War!," "End Campus Recruitment!" and "Let LGBTs Serve!" is not a winning message.