Ann Coulter wasn't even brave enough to directly say it.
She didn't call presidential candidate John Edwards a faggot, not exactly.
At the end of the speech she was giving at the American Conservative Union Political Action Conference, she said, "I was going to have a few comments on the other Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, but it turns out you have to go into rehab if you use the word 'faggot,' so I - so kind of an impasse, can't really talk about Edwards."
She was probably pointing to actor Isaiah Washington, who referred to Grey's Anatomy co-star (and gay man) T.R. Knight as a faggot. But Washington, at least, apologized to the community and met with gay leaders. He checked into rehab because-well, because that's what stars seem to do when they commit big social gaffes.
Ann Coulter, though-Ann Coulter, when confronted, just continued making jokes. On her website, she says, "I'm so ashamed, I can't stop laughing."
Really, Ann Coulter? Really?
I mean, come on.
Sure, you're a right-wing pitbull who has made her name by attacking anything and everyone to the left of fascist. And yes, you once said Al Gore was a fag, though because you did it in an almost gentle half-insider kind of way, it came across as a fag hag's idea of a joke instead of a venomous attack like this one. And indeed, your crowd of young admirers cheered you on as you said it, laughing, as if they had never heard anything as funny as a serious candidate for president, a former United States Senator, being deeply insulted by a cheap throwaway line.
But-Ann Coulter. Really. Is this what you want the future of politics to look like? The future of democracy? The future of America? Do you really want serious debate about a very serious issue-the issue of who will be elected to lead our country-do you really want this debate to be hijacked by a round of playground bully-type name calling?
It seems to me, Ann Coulter, that someone with your brains and quick wit could certainly do better than saying, "Nyah, nyah, your guy's a faggot!" to a national audience.
But maybe Ann Coulter can't do better, not any more. Maybe she's bought her own hype. Maybe she thinks she is the woman she plays on TV. Maybe she thinks its enough, now, to be outrageous instead of outrageously smart, or outrageously pointed.
Ann Coulter, after all, is theater. She's not even a real person. She's like those World Wrestling Federation guys in tight shiny, skin-revealing outfits who pretend to be fierce and powerful but really have to plan out all their moves beforehand so they won't get hurt.
Maybe she felt that her influence is fading, that the Republican party is slowly but surely pulling away from the social conservatives who are weighing them down until they are almost drowned.
Her influence is fading. There is no question now. Her influence faded right before our eyes as, one by one, Republicans lined up to denounce her. The Republican presidential candidates denounced her. The Christian Defense Coalition denounced her. Even the Right half of the blogosphere, led by RedState, called for an old fashioned shunning, to let Ann Coulter know she was no longer one of their own.
In fact, the Red State recall of Ann Coulter has been amazing. They have made it clear that this sort of name-calling has no place in our national debate.
Good for them.
And good for us.
Because we gained something from Ann Coulter's gaffe. We saw Republicans and conservatives of all stripes come forward to say that calling someone a faggot is wrong. We saw them realize that in fact they can't say anything they want about marginalized people. That there is a line and they don't want to cross it. We witnessed our Red State brethren take a step back from the precipice of Coulter-Hannity-Limbaugh insanity, and instead say, "Wait a minute. This is not what we want. This is not who we are."
Welcome back to the table, Republicans.
Ann Coulter, you should listen to your party. You should apologize. Calling someone a faggot to get your audience to laugh doesn't just hurt gays and lesbians and their families, and doesn't just hurt John Edwards. It hurts Republicans. It hurts the political debate. It hurts Democracy. And it hurts America.