How Not to Write an Editorial

I can recommend, sort of, that you read National Review’s recent cover editorial, “What Marriage Is For” (online, “The Case for Marriage“). It’s a good example of how not to make a case.

The article is a mass of non sequiturs. It assumes that if marriage is “for” something—regulating procreative sex—then using it for anything else must be “against” marriage, which is like saying that if mouths are “for” eating, we mustn’t use them for talking or breathing. It claims (conjecturally) that marriage would not have arisen if not for the fact that men and women make babies, from which it concludes that society has no stake in childless marriages.

It argues that marriage, and a culture of marriage, are good and important, a point on which thoughtful gay-marriage advocates enthusiastically agree. But, of course, our whole argument is that including gays won’t stop marriage from doing the good things it now does, and will probably strengthen marriage and the marriage culture. Maybe we’re wrong. But the editorial doesn’t even bother to engage. It proceeds as if “gay marriage is bad” follows obviously from “straight marriage is good.”

Confronted with the obvious fact that no society has ever excluded sterile heterosexual couples from marriage, and that excluding them would be absurd, the editorial simply baffles. “An infertile couple can mate even if it cannot procreate.” It can mate? If “mate” means “have heterosexual intercourse,” the argument merely assumes the conclusion, and “procreativity” has gone right out the window. The article notes that the inclusion of sterile straight couples does not prove that marriage “has nothing to do with” procreation. Right! But it also does not prove that marriage has only to do with procreation. In fact, it quite strongly suggests the contrary.

I could go on. The public, thank goodness, is thinking more seriously and clearly about marriage than are the editors of National Review, which is why the public is coming around.

No to “Lie and Hide”

To David Link’s eloquent plea to the U.S. Senate, below, I’ll add these thoughts. Regarding the district court ruling that “don’t ask, don’t tell” is unconstitutional, I agree that if barring openly gay people from serving in the military (that is, requiring that they lie and hide, subject to discharge if the truth about their orientation should be learned) is based on societal hostility and the presumed (or even real) prejudice of heterosexual troops, then the policy is in violation of constitutional protections ensuring due process, free speech, and (more generally) equality under the law.

But that’s a different question from whether it would be a better political course to reverse “don’t ask, don’t tell” via congressional action rather than by court ruling. A legislative death to the policy would be less likely to provoke a backlash by those claiming judicial overreach. (Of course, if the judiciary did not, in fact, so often overreach to advance a political agenda not grounded in ensuring constitutional protections for all, then such claims would be less effective, but that’s another story).

So here’s hoping that Log Cabin’s to-date successful lawsuit may light a fire under a recalcitrant Senate.

Dear U.S. Senate

The Usual Suspects have made the Usual Statements about the new court opinion concluding that Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell is unconstitutional.  The gays, including the Log Cabin Republicans (who brought the suit) think it’s great, and the Christianists think it’s a horrible act of judicial overreach.  The political universe remains in balance.

To that, I’ll add my own entirely predictable comment.  Whether you agree with the opinion or not, yet another judge has spent a lot of time listening to the evidence of one side, and doing her best to balance that against virtually no evidence on the other.  As in Perry v. Schwarzenegger, the side supporting a law that openly discriminates against lesbians and gay men relies on a majority vote and pretty much nothing else to justify exclusion of an extremely small minority.

In the 85 page DADT opinion, there are 54 pages devoted to laying out the evidence that DADT is unconstitutional.  Weighing against that is a vote of Congress, ratified by a president’s signature.  No judge would or should take that lightly, but neither is a judge obligated to ignore what the law actually does.  And once again, a court has found that the hard evidence of unconstitutionality is more compelling than the vaporous political pretexts rationalizing a majority’s prejudices.

Did the court blithely dismiss concerns of national security?  Well, the administration defending the policy doesn’t think that’s at issue, and the court quotes the Commander in Chief to that effect.  So it’s unfair and incorrect for anyone to criticize the court for ignoring such concerns.

But in the end, everything returns to politics.  And congressional repeal of DADT is exactly what lesbians and gay men, and their allies, are vigorously pursuing.  But the problem of politics, the fundamental lack of rationality that drove passage of this miserable law in the first place, still plagues the Senate.  Harry Reid is not unaware of the evidence the court considered here, and found convincing.  He knows that 80% of Americans now say they support repeal of DADT.  I would not be surprised to learn that 80% of Senators think repeal is probably the right thing to do.

But the fear, the sheer panic that some people still feel about homosexuals, remains the decisive factor in any politician’s calculation.  It takes more than courage to get past that very irrational and very real fact; it takes independence.  Court after court after court is now exercising its constitutional independence, and after laying out all of the real evidence, the genuine facts, they are more consistently finding that our politics still is not ready to face up to its obligation to ensure the equality of homosexual citizens, which means the courts have to correct the deficiency.

The Senate now has to confront a double challenge to its political fears.  It has a public vote of confidence larger than any I’ve seen on any other issue in modern times, and it has a court decision saying that fairness is constitutionally required.  Is the Senate really willing to let the incoherent distress of about 20% of our population continue to form the basis of an unconstitutional, unpopular and unwise policy of naked discrimination?

Just A Fact

One of the reasons antigay opinion has been eroding in this country is that the (primarily) religious opponents of equality have become so melodramatic and quixotic in their rhetoric, driven by what looks like a maniacal sense of persecution that reasonable observers can’t possibly take seriously.  The distance between observable reality and the comic overcharacterization of that reality is leaving decent people who might not otherwise have made up their mind giving us the benefit of the doubt.  Lesbians and gay men may not all be models of rectitude and moderation, but at least we have some respectable arguments to make that seem to reflect a recognizable real world.

A good example of the self-dramatized hyperbole comes from Tony Perkins.  He has been peddling this line recently, about the danger of the Prop. 8 ruling:  “If this case stands, we’ll have gone, in one generation, from 1962, when the Bible was banned in public schools to religious beliefs being banned in America.”  I heard him make this case at TheCall in Sacramento last weekend, and he is now selling it on religious broadcasts as well.

His grievance is with Judge Walker’s 77th Finding of Fact, which Perkins correctly quotes:  “Religious beliefs that gay and lesbian relationships are sinful or inferior to heterosexual relationships harm gays and lesbians.”  Perkins doesn’t add that the finding is accompanied (as any proper trial court finding of fact would have to be) by citations to the record at trial – 18 of them – supporting the conclusion.  Perkins does complain that Judge Walker ignored all the facts presented by his side, but his real argument is with the lawyers and witnesses who defended Prop. 8, who didn’t exactly offer up a buffet of evidence for the judge to pick from.

Fact #77 doesn’t stand alone (there are 79 other findings of fact, every one also supported by numerous citations to the evidence at trial), nor would its absence make any difference in the conclusions of law the judge reaches.  Perkins cherry-picks that one fact only because it is the one that can be massaged to fit into his persecution.

Even if you believed that civil marriage equality would somehow affect religious believers (because some of them might see the conflict more clearly between what their religion professes and what the civil law accepts), or would even undermine some religions (to the extent that opposing homosexuality is part of the infrastructure of their morality), it is hard to see how this would lead to “religious beliefs being banned in America.”  The same first amendment that prohibits the teaching of particular religions in public schools (without “banning” Bibles, by the way — yet more of the melodrama) also protects religious believers in the exercise of their religion, however much those beliefs differ with civic policy.  Just because Perkins would not be able to prohibit same-sex marriage laws does not mean he is not allowed to believe, preach, or even ban within his congregation same-sex marriage or divorce or abortion or eating meat on Fridays.

It is, I’m sure, a disappointment for these religious believers to hear that their beliefs about the sinfulness of homosexuality are viewed differently by others.  But how insular would your worldview have to be to be surprised by that?  Certainly, they believe they are loving us by trying to steer us to an inner heterosexuality (or celibacy) that will better serve our long-term spiritual needs.  But is it such a shock to learn that non-believers could find that presumptuous and condescending, and even a little bit injurious?

Harm alone doesn’t amount to a constitutional violation, and people who think they’re helping me are as free to hurt me in this way as I suppose I hurt them by saying that I think they hold wrong and harmful positions.  The only reason they’re losing support is because they have so successfully blinded themselves to the idea that differences of opinion – even, and maybe especially religious opinion – is OK.  That’s just a fact.

More Signs of the Tea Party Times

According to a report posted by Jon Ward at The Daily Caller:

Mississippi Gov. Haley Barbour issued a subtle rebuke Wednesday to conservative and Republican leaders who have focused on religious and social values issues this year, saying they were taking the GOP off message in an election year when voters care overwhelmingly about economic issues. . . . When asked about comments by Indiana Gov. Mitch Daniels, a Republican, that said the GOP should call a “truce on the so-called social issues” to focus on fiscal matters, Barbour said he supported the sentiment.

Elsewhere at the Caller, Alex Knepper posts that Montana’s Big Sky Tea Party gave the boot to one of its leaders over anti-gay statements. Writes Knepper:

The Tea Party has shown itself, time and time again, to be a force against those who would seek to focus on abortion and homosexuality. In fact, it has been an unmitigated blessing for those who were exhausted with the religious right’s veto stamp over Republican Party behavior. It has truly brought the party back to basic, bread-and-butter issues: size-of-government issues are unquestionably its key concern.

But read here about how “With the smug incomprehension in which it takes so much pride (can’t understand – won’t understand!), the BBC sets about the American Tea Party Movement as if it were a cross between the Klu Klux Klan and the German neo-fascist brigade.” The same could be said for MSNBC, or course.

‘Tea-Baggers’ in Texas

A  footnote to David’s post on the hysterically anti-gay, and anti-limited-government, 2010 Texas Republican Party Platform:
 
“Joe My God” characterizes the platform as “tea-bagger influenced.” I’ve been doing a deep dive on the Tea Party, and this seems wrong, and another example of a knee-jerk anti-Tea Party reflex that will do gays no good at all.
 
When I talk to Tea Party people, they are firm on eschewing the social issues, which they regard—rightly, imho—as snares and delusions that Republican politicians have used to distract conservative voters from GOP complicity in ever-expanding government. Tea Partiers tell me they have wised up to the fact that politicians use the social issues to divide the country and empower themselves.
 
I talked to three leaders of the Dallas Tea Party, and they were very much on that page. Typical comment (from a Dallas TP leader): “We do not touch on social issues. We believe the biggest danger to our country is the fiscal irresponsibility that’s going on in Washington.”
 
And I was pointed to this interesting fact: Tea Partiers recently kicked out a Schlaflyite culture warrior as state party chair, replacing her with a fiscal-conservative lawyer who de-emphasized social issues. In fact, this was done at the very same state GOP convention that adopted the rabid anti-gay platform—which apparently was recycled from 2009.
 
So the real story seems to be, if anything, a swerve toward the libertarian branch of the Texas GOP (though this article sez it’s too early to be sure).

I don’t know much about Texas state politics, but the more I see of the Tea Party, the more convinced I am that it is good for gays, not because it is pro-gay (its members are mostly socially conservative) but because it is anti-anti-gay. To whatever extent they succeed in shredding the overdrawn “moral values” political credit card, more power to them.

Nowheresville, Texas

They really don’t like the gays down in the Lone Star State.

  1. Governor Rick Perry takes good old boy pride in his state’s reputation for gay-hatin’.  His taped comment to some supporters creatively suggests that homophobia actually attracts and possibly creates the kind of jobs the state needs and wants:  “We’re creating more jobs than any other state in the nation.  Would you rather live in a state like this or a state where guys can marry guys?”  I recommend listening to the audio, where you can best hear his parochial incredulity.  I, of course, would rather live in a state where guys can marry guys, but more important, I’d rather live in a state where my governor wouldn’t feel comfortable saying things like this.
  2. The Republican Governor is living down to his party’s standards, though.  The Texas GOP platform is so chest-thumpingly heterosexual, it urges its members to make it a felony to so much as perform a gay marriage in that state, thus ensuring heterosexuals are fully accountable for any defections in orthodoxy.  Remember, this is a felony that even straight people would go to jail for.  It’s not just enough to want to punish gay people in the Texas GOP; you can’t have any of the regular folks wandering off the ranch either.
  3. The Texas courts, as a wholly owned and operated subsidiary of state politics, are also careful to remain in line.  This week, the Texas Court of Appeals for the Fifth District overturned a lower court’s decision to grant a divorce to a same-sex couple who had been lawfully married in Massachusetts. Texas buttressed its constitution back in 2005 to make damn sure no same-sex couples slipped through any cracks in the law and got their relationships recognized in the state.  The trial judge had gotten squishy and started feeling things, like sympathy for a couple whose relationship went sour, and ended up ruling that the whole scheme violated the U.S. Constitution.  The appeals court judges reined him in, and gave the U.S. Constitution a little bit of a Texas working over.  All is back in order now, with the gay couple’s relationship still in the proper legal limbo of Kafkaesque nonexistence.  That’ll teach ‘em.

Texas, of course, also had a starring role in the U.S. Supreme Court decision of Lawrence vs. It.  That little smackdown did not hinder the appellate court’s opinion one little bit, and it certainly is an open question whether Lawrence applies to marriage or just sodomy.  But it appears Texas is once again ready to storm the barricades of the loose morals crowd, and stand up for a tough love so rigid it’ll cut your head off for infractions.

I’m sure there are some wonderful people in Texas, even some intrepid gay people and a cohort of nervy heterosexuals who are willing to stand up to these cowboy-booted thugs.  But I’m just as happy to steer clear of the whole church.

Cheney and Obama: Nowheresville

There is a long and growing list of people – and specifically Republicans — who are said to be to the left of President Obama on gay marriage.  Our high-profile GOP supporters include Laura Bush, Elizabeth Hasselbeck and, most recently, freshly-out Ken Mehlman.

But the grandest of the Party’s Old Grandees is, of course, Dick Cheney, whose support for same-sex marriage is the most valuable scalp gay marriage supporters have been able to secure.  He’s even been characterized as “more progressive” on this issue than Obama.

Let’s get a grip.  I won’t argue that Obama’s well-documented flips and flops, ducks, weaves, hedges, caveats, little white lies, obfuscations and desperate dives underneath the desk in the Oval Office are any profile in courage.  Despite the fact that I think he will still be one of our finest presidents and may yet show some spine on real equality, what we’ve gotten from him so far is a savvy exhibition of three card monte.  While we know he can demonstrate leadership on issues he finds compelling, on gay equality he is more sheep than shepherd.

But Cheney hasn’t exactly been our Martin Luther King.  The pinnacle of his oratory has been this: “I think freedom means freedom for everyone.”  To my knowledge, he has never yet publicly used the phrase “same-sex marriage,” or even “civil unions.”  Here’s as close to explicit as he has ever gotten:

I do believe that historically the way marriage has been regulated is at the state level. It has always been a state issue and I think that is the way it ought to be handled, on a state-by-state basis. … But I don’t have any problem with that. People ought to get a shot at that.

Now I won’t look this gift horse in the mouth, but it’s not exactly support for equality – it’s a plea for state’s rights.  And that would appear to include the right for states to give same-sex couples nothing.

Perhaps I’m wrong about that, but from Dick Cheney’s extremely rare public utterances, I can’t find any reason to believe he would have as little problem – i.e. “no problem” — with same-sex couples having no rights as he would with them having full equality.

But he can clarify that.  Specifically, he could put his money where is mouth is, and join Mehlman, Ted Olson, and so many other leading national Republicans at the AFER fundraiser (even Mary will be there).  Or he could actually say something clearly:  “I support same-sex marriage” would be nice, but I’d even take something like, “Both of my daughters deserve the same respect and rights under the law, and my party ought to make a commitment to that fundamental principle.”

At that point, I would be willing to put him beside Obama and find Obama wanting.  But for the present, the two are about even in substanceless avoidance; Cheney avoids the issue by saying too little, while Obama avoids the issue by saying too much.

Wheeling and Dealing

Stephen Miller barely scratches the surface of the shift in support for same-sex marriage.  While there is no doubt that full marriage equality gets more popular with each passing year, some of that support bubbles up from the marriage-lite group, which is, itself increasing.

In fact, the only segment of the population that is getting smaller with time is those who don’t want same-sex couples to have any legal recognition at all.

That fact could not be more important.  Marriage is, and always has been, the simplest and most fair of all the political solutions to the problem of the law’s blindness to the existence of same-sex couples.  Up until the middle of the 1980s when Berkeley and West Hollywood became the first government entities in the nation to pass laws formally and explicitly recognizing same-sex couples, same sex relationships were invisible in the law, and to most people incomprehensible.  Domestic partnerships, reciprocal beneficiaries, civil unions and other separate but (roughly) equal relationship categories are political compromises.

I don’t prefer compromises, but what I like less is the status quo (in most states) where same-sex couples have no legal rights at all.  That’s why I’ve been supportive of marriage-lite for about twenty-five years.  Marriage is (as conservatives say), the ideal I think we should fight for, but when the chips are down, sometimes it’s better to settle for something rather than nothing.  A whole lot of people just don’t like the idea of homosexuals existing, much less having the government acknowledge their sinfulness and lack of good breeding.

But the ranks of people who think that way are thinning.  It is harder and harder to dismiss a homosexual coworker, family member, politician or even a popular celebrity from television, movies or sports, as some kind of heterosexual-gone-astray.  Even the Republicans, a party whose brand includes resistance to any rights for homosexuals, are beginning to see the façade of homophobia developing cracks.  If you believe there really are people who are homosexual, does it make any kind of sense to think they won’t fall in love with someone, won’t want to share their lives with someone, maybe raise children together?  Is that so terrible?

A large majority of heterosexuals don’t think so.  And compromise is the least the law can do.

But does the constitution’s equal protection clause permit compromise?  Is equality a negotiable promise?  That is the question at the heart of the Prop. 8 case.

Ideologically, I think not.  But constitutional opinions, with all their pages of reasoning, are seldom free of wiggle room.  Even the most absolute-sounding of constitutional rights (“Congress shall make no law . . . abridging the freedom of speech. . . “) have footnotes and disclaimers.  Federal judges are theoretically independent of the political realm, but they all breathe the same air we do.

As I said in an earlier post, Ken Mehlman and Karl Rove took most of our political options away when they urged states to amend their constitutions to prohibit same-sex marriage and, in many cases, any other legal recognition of same-sex couples.  That political decision prematurely forced the issue into the federal courts, because that is the proper forum for a determination of whether a state constitution violates the federal charter.  They could have made their crusade less consequential if they’d deployed their torches and pitchforks on statutory prohibitions, but it was constitutions they decided on, so it’s now fully a federal issue.

That leaves compromise in the hands of federal judges.  And despite the doomsayers, there are ways for federal judges to effect compromise.  The most effective is stalling.  The Ninth Circuit could both uphold and overturn Judge Walker’s opinion, saying that same-sex couples are entitled to equal protection, but that there is an inadequate record in the case on whether domestic partnership is fully and constitutionally equal to marriage. This is certainly a question that came up at trial, but as I mentioned, judges can sashay with the best of the politicians if they need to.  It’s a bit unseemly, but you’d be surprised what contortions black robes can conceal.

Californians were not voting on a compromise proposal; Prop. 8 was about full marriage rights.  It did not affect domestic partnership, and if it had removed that compromise, it is extremely unlikely it would ever have passed.  That political fact will inform any decision from the federal courts.  No matter what the court decides, it is extremely unlikely that we will get a lowest-common-denominator opinion.  It is no small majority any more who think that same-sex couples are entitled to no rights at all.  Even the most politically immunized judge will not be ignorant of that fact.

Nor will he or she be insensitive to the fact that it was not lesbians and gay men who abandoned the political process, but very high ranking Republican politicians who chose, in their wisdom, to throw this political hot potato into the federal courts.