Defending Gay Marriage (and the Constitution).

Out congressmembers Barney Frank, Tammy Baldwin, and Jim Kolbe are circulating a letter urging their congressional colleagues not to support the proposed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment. Their letter, reports the Boston Globe, quotes Vice President Dick Cheney from his VP debate in 2000 against Joe Lieberman, when Cheney said that ''people should be free to enter into any kind of relationship they want to enter into,'' and added:

''That matter [marriage] is regulated by the states. -- I think different states are likely to come to different conclusions, and that's appropriate. I don't think there should necessarily be a federal policy in this area.''

The letter signed by Frank, Baldwin, and Kolbe argues that lawmakers should reject the constitutional amendment as an intrusion on states' rights: The Globe reports:

''While we acknowledge that we do not find ourselves in complete agreement with the Vice President on all public policy issues,'' the letter said, ''we believe that [Cheney's statement], given one month before the presidential election, makes a very strong case against a Constitutional amendment which would establish precisely `a federal policy' of the sort that the Vice President opposed.'

Of course, one could question the last time Barney Frank had a kind word for federalism, but that would be churlish.

Interestingly, the anti-gay group Focus on the Family, when denouncing the letter on its website under "Gay Lawmakers Assail Marriage Amendment," weakly asserts "Cheney's words during the debate don't lead everyone to the same conclusion."
Guess they decided it would be too much of a political hot potato to take on the VP directly.

In other marriage developments, Virginia's Richmond Times-Dispatch reports that Senator George Allen, who is reliably conservative and a member of the Senate Republican leadership, "has taken a separate tack from Majority Leader Bill Frist and has declined to endorse a constitutional amendment that would ban gay marriage," at least for now. A good sign.

Oh, Politics!

In other congressional news, during the brouhaha between House Democrats and Republicans over whether a) the Demos were being obstructionists over a pension reform bill by demanding a line by line reading and then leaving the room, or b) the GOPers went bonkers by calling the Capitol police to force the Demos back to the chamber, the Washington Post noted that:

one Democratic member of the panel called a Republican colleague "you little fruitcake" in the midst of the standoff.

Finally, ABC News correspondent Jeffrey Kofman's story claiming low morale among U.S. soldiers in Iraq led, it seems,
to someone in the Bush White House (think gung-ho West Winger) to have conservative webmeister Matt Drudge link to a story about Kofman in the Advocate -- a story that reveals the ABC reporter is both openly gay and a Canadian. Drudge's link to the Advocate piece was headlined: "ABC News Reporter Who Filed Troop Complaint Story is Canadian."

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07/13/03 - 07/19/03

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly.

With the Massachusetts marriage decision on hold for who knows how long, and Pat Robertson urging his flock to pray for God to remove three justices from the U.S. Supreme Court, the culture wars continue unabated. Yes, there's always something to write about here at Culture Watch.

Another look at why conservatives should support gay marriage, by Rondi Adamson in the Christian Science Monitor:

true conservatives ought to support gay marriage, particularly those partial to family values. It's difficult to argue that society doesn't benefit from stable relationships. And what better way to encourage stable relationships than to support gay marriage? It is hard not to snicker at the idea that same-sex marriages would threaten straight ones. We straight people in Canada and the US have done a good job of bringing the divorce rate close to 50 percent all on our own.

Meanwhile, Mark Leibovich at the Washington Post sees the Human Rights Campaign's presidential candidates forum as pander bears on parade. Worse, most of the Democratic candidates' views on gay marriage aren't that much better than Senate leader Bill Frist's, though maybe they don't want to re-write the constitution to make their point.

Frist, by the way, is quoted in the Wash. Post's Reliable Source (scroll down) commenting on the prospects of gay marriage in Massachusetts thusly:

"Marriage is very simple: one man and one woman. Not two men or three men or four men or one man or one woman or two women and three women or three women and three men. It's not that. It's one man, one woman."

The Post says he held up various fingers to illustrate his points. He should have added, "I'm as big a bigot as Trent Lott, yes I am!"

I guess there'll be no free makeover for Frist from the gay guys on Bravo's new "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" show, which appears to be a ratings hit (at least by Bravo's standards), with the network's new "Boy Meets Boy" reality show soon set to launch. But then political change always seems to trail behind popular culture by about a decade.

Just One of Those Things.

Chicago Sun-Times columnist/humorist Mark Steyn writes:

Personally, I'm relaxed about sodomy, which isn't the same as being relaxed during sodomy. --

I've hung around the theater most of my adult life, and I love the likes of Cole Porter and the eccentric English composer and painter Lord Berners. These are the fellows who thought homosexuality was one of those things ''Too Good For The Average Man,'' in the words of Lorenz Hart's sly lyric--too special for the masses. These days, the gay movement insists it's as average as any man, if not more so. Watching the two chubby gays being wed by a gay vicar on the steps of the courthouse in Vancouver the other day, Cole Porter would have wondered what on earth was the point of being homosexual.

Steyn's bio reveals he's a straight Canadian who writes books on Broadway musicals. Go figure.

Not So Long Ago.

In a Washington Post op-ed titled Evolution on Gay Marriage, Fred Hiatt asks:

At one time most states banned marriage between races, and courts upheld such laws many times. Does our evolution -- today we read those decisions with horror -- provide a template for where society is heading with respect to homosexual marriage?

I guess we'll know soon enough.

Hypocrite of the Week.

Democratic presidential contender John Kerry told the Washington Post: "I have a belief that marriage is for the purpose of procreation and it's between men and women."

Reality check: While Kerry has two daughters from a first marriage that ended in divorce, and his current wife, Teresa Heinz, has children from her prior marriage (she was widowed), Kerry and Heinz have failed to live up to their sacred obligation to procreate children together and thus validate what they refer to shame-facedly as their "marriage."

The Escalating Debate.

As we await a ruling from Massachusetts on whether the state must grant marriage benefits to same-sex couples (the anti-gay Family Research Council is already freaking out), it's clear that marriage will be the defining issue of the gay rights struggle for the years ahead. Given that most of the leading gay political groups have made lobbying for local, statewide, and federal anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws their highest priority while downplaying the marriage issue (with the noted exception of Lambda Legal Defense), this has required a fairly significant change of focus.

Gay groups were caught off-guard by the Defense of Marriage Act that Bill Clinton signed (allegedly after leading activists told him that marriage wasn't that big a deal). Can they manage to put together a credible effort to block the proposed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment, which requires a two-thirds majority in both the House and Senate before being sent to the states? Let's hope so.

Virginia Postrel, a libertarian writer, offers her take on the same-sex marriage debate. She asks, "Do we think it's a terrible thing for the law to break up loving couples? Or do we think that gay couples aren't real couples (or, perhaps, real people)?" Someone should ask John Kerry.

Several commentaries of late have been referencing David Boaz's argument to "privatize" marriage, published in Slate back in 1997 and well worth revisiting.

Syndicated columnist Deroy Murdock confronts Justice Antonin Scalia head on, making the "presumption of liberty" case that many libertarian-minded constitutional scholars share: that is, "The Constitution is no ceiling of liberties. It is a floor of freedoms." Murdock writes:

Social conservatives often demand to know where the Constitution enshrines freedoms they oppose. "

What if the elected city council of West Hollywood (a potentially majority-gay jurisdiction) prohibited heterosexual acts within city limits? Would Scalia -- support such a law provided a legislative majority approved and the mayor signed it? "

The rights to sodomize, fornicate and use sex toys can be assumed under the Ninth Amendment. Citizens need not scour the Constitution for a vibrator clause. Government must demonstrate why such a liberty should be curbed, namely to shield the lives, competing liberties or property of other citizens.

Clear enough?

Recent Postings

07/06/03 - 07/12/03

“Cultural Contradictions” on the Right.

Andrew Sullivan argues that the proposed anti-gay marriage amendment isn't going anywhere. Aside from the hard-core religious right, he contends:

conservatives rightly view the Constitution as a sacred document to be messed with only very carefully. Many conservatives will oppose such an amendment on those grounds alone. They should. --

Wouldn't that be a wonderful use of conservative resources: going around the country actually trying to break up committed couples. And all under the pro-family banner!

For more evidence on the anti-gay, pro-family right's ideological confusion, check out the vignette below. It's a few weeks old, but I just came across this piece by the Washington Post's Hank Stuever on an "abstinence convention" in, of all places, Las Vegas:

Amy Stephens, a former Focus on the Family counselor from Colorado Springs, who now works full-time as an abstinence consultant, chipperly describes her enthusiasm for the movement's success in schools. When asked if the movement will ever teach gay teens to wait until they too can get married, she smiles, blinks twice, as if her brain reboots, then says she doesn't see how abstinence-only programs are going to be able to do that. "But isn't that an excellent question," she gushes, then proclaims: "Whew! I need a Starbucks!"

Eventually the rightwingers will have to confront their cultural contradictions, or they'll totally short circuit!

Defending the ‘Big Tent’.

Former Wyoming senator Alan K. Simpson, who serves as the honorary chairman of the Republican Unity Coalition, spoke with Newsweek's online edition about gay Republicans, the religious right and the 2004 election, saying:

The difference between 10 years ago and today on the gay-lesbian issue in this country is an eon apart. And if we"ve moved this far in just 10 years, in the next 10 years it will be just as dramatic.

On Sen. Rick Santorum likening homosexuality to bigamy and incest., Simpson remarked: "I thought [those comments] were sad. I know Rick and I respect him, but I think that view was a little bit bizarre." And on Sen. Bill Frist calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriages, Simpson said: "I don't think that's appropriate. I think that minimizes the Constitution." But is the party listening?

The Real Revolt Against the Constitution.

Conservative commentator and attorney Bruce Fein takes on Roy S. Moore, the chief justice of the Alabama Supreme Court, in the Washington Times for blatantly disregarding the Constitution. He writes that the fact Moore:

revels in seeking to unravel the rule of law shocks. And what multiplies the shock is the deafening Republican silence over Justice Moore's rebellion against the Constitution despite their characteristic celebration of law and order.

How bad is Moore? The Texas Triangle reports Moore's calling homosexuality "an inherent evil against which children must be protected." Guess this is Scalia's kind of justice.
--Stephen H. Miller

More Marriage-Go-Round.

First, a celebratory moment as Michael Demmons, the DiscountBlogger, shares a photo and some thoughts on his wedding in Ottawa.

Now back to the culture wars. While Republicans face a problem catering to the anti-gays in their party without seeming so intolerant as to alienate the independents, the Democrats don't quite have it all figured out, either. As Deborah Orin writes in the New York Post:

Key Dems just don't want to, er, commit themselves and now Bill Clinton's office won't even say whether he still backs the "Defense of Marriage Act" he signed into law in 1996 - it says wedlock means a union between a man and a woman. Hillary (D-N.Y.) won't take a stand on the law her husband signed, nor will Sen. Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) even though he voted for it back in 1996.

And speaking of DOMA, this story from The Telegraph (in New Hampshire) reminds us that:

Of the five Democratic candidates [for president] then in Congress, three voted for the measure: Rep. Richard A. Gephardt of Missouri and Sens. Joe Lieberman of Connecticut and Bob Graham of Florida. Sen. John F. Kerry of Massachusetts opposed it, but said at the time he also was against same-sex marriage. --

When Democratic contenders roundly praised the Supreme Court ruling last week, the issue of gay marriage was conspicuously absent. Lieberman's statement was typical: "The court,"" he said, "moved us a step closer to giving gays and lesbians a full, fair place in our society."" But he did not say what the next step should be. A spokesman declined to elaborate.

Not exactly profiles in courage.

Sodomy Potpourri.

For the legally minded, the National Law Journal offers some in-depth analysis of the likely ramifications of the Lawrence decision.

By the way, it's not just gays who fell prey to sodomy laws. The Roanoke Times reports that:

For the past 5-1/2 years, Trey Gregory has lived the life of a convicted felon who is not in prison, yet not entirely free. He cannot vote. He must list his crime on job applications. He cannot buy a gun for his son because firearms are not allowed in the home of a felon. Gregory's crime? He and a woman engaged in consensual oral sex in the privacy of his home.

And they say "Virginia is for lovers!"

IGF contributing author Rick Rosendall wonders why some gays can't admit we're winning.

And columnist Larry Daughtrey in The Tennessean ponders what Bill Frist's recent outburst is all about when "The spokesman for the get-government-out-of-our-lives party wanted to get government into the bedroom, cutting off that bunch of known liberals at the Supreme Court before they legalize even more sodomy."

Meanwhile, Neil Steinberg's column in the Chicago Sun-Times only appears to be about James Joyce. Stay with it.

Recent Postings

07/06/03 - 07/12/03

Liberty Weekend.

As we approach the long Independence Day weekend, let's give a nod to Great Britain. Tony Blair's Labor government proposes to create a civil partnership register for same-sex couples, and Conservative leader Iain Duncan Smith has given his members of parliament a "free vote" on the matter, rather than whipping them into opposition. As one conservative MP writes in the Daily Telegraph, Tories must stop pretending that gay couples don't exist. Bill Frist take note.

Writing in the Washington Post, liberal Harold Meyerson takes aim at what he terms the Grand Old Gay Bashers,
but more thoughtfully than most Bush-bashers. He notes:

Of course, plenty of Republicans welcomed last week's decision (beginning, I suspect, with Vice President Cheney). -- Plenty of Republicans sicken at the hatreds expressed by their legislative leaders. But plenty or not, try to find a national Republican who speaks out for equality of sexual orientation or condemns the expressions of bias.

Let's see how big a hole Republicans are willing to dig themselves into, or whether they'll realize that appeals to fear and prejudice aren't going to be a winning strategy in the long run.

On the other hand, it was Bill Clinton who signed the Defense of Marriage Act and then bragged about it on radio spots airing in conservative markets.

The AP reports in a story headlined Bush: Gay Marriage Ban May Be Too Soon that the White House is pulling back from the support given to the anti-gay amendment by the Senate majority leader. A welcome development, if you're into reading tea leaves and making guesses about what's being talked about in the (real) West Wing.

Finally, Chicago Sun-Times columnist Mark Brown writes Gay marriage is in our future, like it or not. He opines:

Most people are still opposed to giving a same-sex couple the same legal rights as a marriage between a man and a woman, but those beliefs are evolving. It won't happen quickly, and if anyone tries to move too quickly, there will be a backlash. There already is a backlash. "

Even as I pulled my kids out of the Boy Scouts for discriminating against gays, I couldn't accept the concept of gay marriage. It was the gut reaction of a recovering homophobe. But as time keeps passing, I no longer see any reason to be afraid. Gay and lesbian couples already have loving partnerships that qualify as marriage by every standard other than the one we have codified into law. They deserve the legal protections the rest of expect from marriage as it relates to property rights, health care and other issues.

And that's how progress gets made, one pundit at a time. Happy 4th of July!

Springfield vs. Shelbyville.

Johah Goldberg has an engaging piece at the National Review site titled Springfield vs. Shelbyville: Gay marriage, incest, and The Simpsons. In the end, he endorses a federalist approach -- don't bar states from recognizing gay marriages, but don't force them to recognize them, either, or risk a huge backlash that will reinvigorate the religious right. It's a compromise that Andrew Sullivan says he'd be happy to live with.

Past or Future?

A Reuters story, headlined "White House Mum on Amendment Banning Gay Marriage," reports President Bush has stopped short of endorsing the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment after Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist said he "absolutely" supports altering the Constitution to prevent states from recognizing same-sex marriages. In the words of White House spokesman Ari Fleischer:

"The president believes that marriage is an institution between a man and a woman," Fleischer told reporters. "We have a law on the books right now that ... passed with massive, overwhelming bipartisan majorities in 1996. The president supports that legislation and that's where he stands right now."

Who knows if this is a coordinated strategy to have Frist placate the religious right while Bush stands back, but it apparently signals that the prestige of the presidency won't be deployed to rewrite the Constitution to please the "wingnuts" (at least for now).

According to a USA Today/CNN/Gallup poll:
55% of American said same-sex marriages should NOT be recognized with the same rights as traditional marriages between a man and a woman, while 39% said they should be valid. When the same question was asked in March 1996, 68% said homosexual marriages should not be recognized by law, while 27% believed they should.

But significantly, 61% ofAmericans 18 to 29 years old said same-sex marriages should be valid. So tying the party to a constitutional amendment that cements a gay-marriage ban for the remainder of our lifetimes could push away the upcoming generation of voters that the GOP needs to attract. Once again, the choice is a politics of the past that appeals to the most reactionary forces in the GOP, or to embrace a future-directed politics built upon the foundation of individual liberty that we'll celebrate this July 4th weekend.

Safire's Sure-Fire Advice.

New York Times columnist William Safire, who has a conservative foreign policy bent but leans libertarian on social issues, writes:

Rather than wring our hands and cry "abomination!", believers in family values should take up the challenge and repair our own house. Why do too many Americans derogate as losers those parents who put family ahead of career, or smack their lips reading about celebrities who switch spouses for fun? Why do we turn to the government for succor, to movie porn and violence for sex and thrills, to the Internet for companionship, to the restaurant for Thanksgiving dinner -- when those functions are the ties that bind families?

I used to fret about same-sex marriage. Maybe competition from responsible gays would revive opposite-sex marriage.

Fair-minded former critics of letting us wed are starting to come around, and more will do so. Their support will be needed.

Whoa! Canada!

The Washington Post reports that Canada's recognizing same-sex marriages and decriminalizing small amounts of marijuana has some U.S. conservatives singing (to the tune of South Park's "Blame Canada" song):

"It seems like everything went wrong / Since Canada came along."

Republicans Must Decide.

Yes, it's disappointing that Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist, in an effort to firm up the support of the religious-right bloc, has come out in favor of a proposed constitutional amendment to ban states from recognizing gay marriages. As I noted in yesterday's posting, so much for the right of states to pass their own legislation! It's unclear whether Frist and the Republican leadership genuinely intend to pursue such a divisive strategy, or whether it's just lip service. But it shows the GOP still believes it must kowtow to the most reactionary elements in America.

Of the six justices who voted to overturn the Texas law criminalizing sodomy, four were Republicans, appointed by Republican presidents. This is the other face of the GOP -- moderate, live-and-let live, opposed to government intrusion. At some point -- and it may well be the gay marriage fight -- it's possible the GOP coalition of the libertarian-minded and the religious-right theocrats will implode. Or maybe the theocratic faction will continue to decline as a bloc and the leadership will feel freer to ignore its threats. But abandoning the GOP to the "wingnuts," as some progressives argue, is just the kind of self-defeating politics that the left too often specializes in.

Addendum: The Federal Marriage Amendment was introduced in Congress by a bi-partisan group of co-sponsors, notes the Log Cabin Republicans, and "even liberal icons like Senator Ted Kennedy (D-MA) and Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton (D-NY) oppose gay marriage." True, but perhaps not the the degree of muddling up the Constitution (I hope!).

Changing Times.

A nice bit of analysis on why the Lawrence decision won't be a boon to the far right is provided by Jacob Levy over at The Volokh Conspiracy website. Surprise, the decision might even help the GOP since sodomy laws were:

the most absurd and embarrassing face of social-cultural conservatism -- absurd always, and embarrassingly for the past several years, and increasingly embarrassing as time went on. For social-cultural conservative Republicans to be able to appeal past their base, they couldn't defend the laws. For them to avoid alienating their base, they couldn't attack them. For social-cultural conservatism to avoid looking increasingly anachronistic and foolish, sodomy laws had to be taken off the table and the subject had to be changed to other fights.

Of course, it now appears that one of those "other fights" is gay marriage, and it won't be pretty.

Recent Postings

06/22/03 - 06/28/03