Bob Barr’s on Our Side (Gasp).

There's an important op-ed in Thursday's Washington Post by former Congressman Bob Barr of Georgia -- the author of the federal Defense of Marriage Act. It's titled Leave Marriage To the States. In the battle against efforts to amend the U.S. Constitution to deny same-sex couples any and all the civil benefits of marriage, Bob Barr has turned out to be an unexpected ally.

Barr, in fact, was something of a conservative libertarian suspicious of federal overreaching. He writes in his op-ed:

Make no mistake, I do not support same-sex marriages. But I also am a firm believer that the Constitution is no place for forcing social policies on states, especially in this case, where states must have the latitude to do as their citizens see fit.

However Barr's Defense of Marriage Act -- barring (as it were) the federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages even if legally valid at the state level (as none were, or are, to date) -- was rightly seen among gays as an unfair denial of federal benefits such as a deceased spouse's Social Security, or tax-free inheritance of a spouse's estate. The overall effect was to treat our relationships as permanently "second class."

But the proposed Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA) is far worse, wiping out even state-level civil benefits for gay couples. You take your allies where you find them, and Barr's public opposition to the FMA should be welcomed and used.

Episcopalian Independence?

Washington Post columnist Colbert I. King notes that some of the African Anglicans so vehemently opposed to blessing committed gay couples and ordaining openly gay bishops (and with whom anti-gay Episcopalians are now aligned) have defended polygamy in their own neck of the woods, arguing the need to show respect for African culture. Moreover, the Church of England mother church has an heir apparent to the pivotal role of "Defender of the Faith" who is an avowed adulterer (Prince Charles, of course). But gay couples and gay bishops are somehow beyond the pale.

The Empire Strikes Back.

Yes, the religious right is making its top priority passage of an anti-gay constitutional amendment to ban not only same-sex marriage but also same-sex civil unions, the Washington Post reports.The effort is led by "Christian family groups" such as James Dobson's Focus on the Family, which has more than 1,300 employees -- including 150 people who answer more than 15,000 calls and letters daily.

Coalition Politics (1).

New York Democratic State Senator Ruben Diaz Sr. of the Bronx has filed a lawsuit to block funding for New York City's Harvey Milk High School for gay (lesbian, bisexual, transgender ") students, reports the New York Times. Diaz claims the school discriminates against heterosexuals and takes money away from black and Hispanic students at other public schools.

Coalition Politics (2).

The big Aug. 23 rally at the Lincoln Memorial to commemorate the 1963 civil rights march on Washington led by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. has adopted a platform that endorses the federal Employee Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and a federal hate crimes law, but is silent on supporting same-sex marriage rights or opposing the proposed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment. "This is a coalition march for jobs, peace and freedom," Atlanta gay activist Lynn Cothren told the Washington Blade. "This is not a gay march, although we've had involvement at every level."

But considering that past gay marches on Washington have devoted seemingly unlimited space to endorsing all aspects of the civil rights "social justice" agenda, including such un-gay related issues as support for race-based preferential treatment and opposition to welfare reform, might our national gay lobbies have expected just a wee bit more from the civil rights establishment in return?

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08/10/03 - 08/16/03

Episcopalian Independence?

Washington Post columnist Colbert I. King notes that some of the African Anglicans so vehemently opposed to blessing committed gay couples and ordaining openly gay bishops (and with whom anti-gay Episcopalians are now aligned) have defended polygamy in their own neck of the woods, arguing the need to show respect for African culture. Moreover, the Church of England mother church has an heir apparent to the pivotal role of "Defender of the Faith" who is an avowed adulterer (Prince Charles, of course). But gay couples and gay bishops are somehow beyond the pale.

The Empire Strikes Back.

Yes, the religious right is making its top priority passage of an anti-gay constitutional amendment to ban not only same-sex marriage but also same-sex civil unions, the Washington Post reports.The effort is led by "Christian family groups" such as James Dobson's Focus on the Family, which has more than 1,300 employees -- including 150 people who answer more than 15,000 calls and letters daily.

Coalition Politics (1).

New York Democratic State Senator Ruben Diaz Sr. of the Bronx has filed a lawsuit to block funding for New York City's Harvey Milk High School for gay (lesbian, bisexual, transgender ") students, reports the New York Times. Diaz claims the school discriminates against heterosexuals and takes money away from black and Hispanic students at other public schools.

Coalition Politics (2).

The big Aug. 23 rally at the Lincoln Memorial to commemorate the 1963 civil rights march on Washington led by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. has adopted a platform that endorses the federal Employee Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and a federal hate crimes law, but is silent on supporting same-sex marriage rights or opposing the proposed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment. "This is a coalition march for jobs, peace and freedom," Atlanta gay activist Lynn Cothren told the Washington Blade. "This is not a gay march, although we've had involvement at every level."

But considering that past gay marches on Washington have devoted seemingly unlimited space to endorsing all aspects of the civil rights "social justice" agenda, including such un-gay related issues as support for race-based preferential treatment and opposition to welfare reform, might our national gay lobbies have expected just a wee bit more from the civil rights establishment in return?

August 14, 2003

The Marriage Backlash

Why we must tread carefully at this historic juncture. According to a new Washington Post poll:

public acceptance of same-sex civil unions is falling. Fewer than 4 in 10 -- 37% -- of all Americans say they would support a law allowing gay men and lesbians to form civil unions that would provide some of the rights and legal protections of marriage.

That is a precipitous, 12-point drop in support found in a Gallup Organization survey that posed the question in identical terms in May, before the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a Texas law against sodomy and Justice Antonin Scalia argued in his dissent that the court was on a slippery slope toward legalizing gay marriage.

The number opposing religious ceremonies blessing same-sex couples is even greater, with three out of four against us. How strongly held is that sentiment: "Among Americans who attend church at least a few times a year, 47% said they would attend services elsewhere if their church blessed same-sex unions," according to the Post poll. There is nothing to calls this but what it is -- a reactionary but widespread backlash. And we'll have to work hard to try to prevent it ending up with passage of an anti-gay constitutional amendment barring any legal recognition of gay couples.

The new (yes, NEW!) articles posted at right are worthy additions to this dialogue.

Forget backlash: We're just another American family, convincingly argues columnist Craig Wilson in USA Today. But is straight America listening?

Assessing Arnold.

Writes Michael Barone in U.S. News & World Report, "As a Republican who supports abortion and gay rights, [Schwarzenegger] might have trouble in a Republican primary." But, of course, there is no Republican primary in California's gubernatorial recall free-for-all, which cramps the power for the "wingnuts" of the right (though that hasn't stopped arch anti-gay Lou Sheldon from claiming that a Schwarzenegger Candidacy Would ''Terminate'' Moral Leadership In California ).

On the contrary, Barone argues that a Schwarzenegger victory could save California's GOP. "Republicans have become a minority in California because of their conservative stands on cultural issues and because they have turned off Latinos," he writes. "Schwarzenegger, who would be eligible to run again in 2006 and 2010, gives them a different image."

Gay syndicated columnist Rex Wockner reports
that:

in an October 1999 interview with Talk magazine Schwarzenegger said that the Republicans have to become a party of inclusion and show they "love the foreigner"as much as the gay person and lesbian person."

But most gay activists are sticking with incumbent Democrat Gray Davis, who never met a special interest spending bill he didn't like. And then there's this bit of ridiculousness being brought up. Back in
1992, Schwarzenegger said: "We don't talk about those Democrats. I watched that debate and they all looked like a bunch of girlie men." Which led the far lefties of Queer Nation to denounce him as a "bigot" and a "blatant homophobe," and charge that his attitude underscored "the anti-gay agenda of the Bush/Quayle campaign."

Actually, you'd have thought The Terminator had called for extermination camps, given QN's charge that "Once again, Bush's henchmen divide the nation by promoting hatred of a minority -- the queer community"It sickens me to see the president of the United States endorse homophobia and advocate anti-gay violence," in the words of the group's then spokesqueer.

Despite the angst of the lesbigay left, then and now, a gay-welcoming GOP governor for California who gives the anti-gay right stomach pains would be a very fine thing indeed.

Scandalous.

Here's yet another sordid scandal involving a leader of the Christian right's "ex-gay" movement who, it turns out, wasn't so "ex" after all. This time the culprit/hypocrite is Michael Johnston, the organizer of "Coming Out of Homosexuality Day" who even, allegedly, misled his sex partners about his HIV-positive status. The gay press has been covering the story , but so far the mainstream media hasn't followed suit.

Mike Airhart's Ex-Gay Watch blog, as always, is also on top of things.

School Daze.

The NY Daily News editorializes on why a Harvey Milk High is needed, in School's Gay, That's OK.
More takes on whether the school is a safe environment or self-segregation in our Mail Bag.

Marriage "Jitters."

Writing in today's New York Times, Elizabeth Bumiller looks at "Why America Has Gay Marriage Jitters." In short: It's the "M" word, stupid. Bumiller writes that after the Supreme Court's Lawrence ruling:

President Bush was pressured by his conservative supporters to oppose gay marriage publicly". This declaration put him in agreement with 70% of Republican voters. But most of the Democratic presidential candidates oppose gay marriage, too, as do 50% of Democratic voters.

The concluding quote is given to liberal CNN commentator William Schneider, who puts it bluntly: "Look, if you don't call it marriage, you'll get more support."

Recent Postings

08/03/03 - 08/09/03

Conservatives Gripe: Bush Too Compassionate.

Rich Lowry, editor of the conservative National Review, has a Washington Post op-ed titled "The President Keeps His Distance," complaining that George W. is missing in action on the culture war front -- especially in not being more vigilant in opposing gay marriage. As I've written before, liberal Bush haters just don't see the pressure that Bush is facing, and often resisting, from his none-too-happy social conservative base. As Lowry writes:

when Bush was asked about gay marriage, you got the feeling he would have preferred not to be asked at all. His statement against it was an assertion and expression of personal preference, that "somebody like me" believes "a marriage is between a man and a woman." Well, okay. But why? Explaining that requires argument, requires making moral distinctions among sex acts, in ways that are likely to make some people very angry. Requires, in short, everything Bush would rather not do -- because it probably feels too "judgmental" to him, because he (like most conservatives of his generation or younger) has openly gay friends, and because it will inflame voters both pro and con.

This is a loss for those of us who are conservatives. It means that, on important issues, a crucial player isn't fully engaged.

Lowry and his conservative kind wish Bush would be more like anti-gay big-mouth Sen. Rick Santorum. The gay left refuses to see any distinction between the two. Maybe they should start reading the rightwing press.

Marriage versus Civil Unions.

No less a conservative than Attorney General John Ashcroft appears to be leaving open the prospect of a system of civil unions for same-sex couples as an alternative to same-sex marriage. As the right-leaning Washington Times reports:

Mr. Ashcroft said in an interview on "Fox News Sunday" that he supported President Bush's call to define marriage as the union of a man and a woman. But he declined to comment on the Bush administration's stance on civil unions, which would grant same-sex couples many of the same rights enjoyed by married couples.

"That's a very complex question that I'm not going to make a recommendation on. We're doing research on that now," Mr. Ashcroft told the television program.

This is an interesting development, as a clear distinction could emerge between conservatives who oppose any legal recognition of same-sex relationships and those who would accept civil unions in which states grant couples the same (state) benefits as under marriage, though other states needn't recognize such arrangements, and no federal benefits are conferred.

The public also seems more open to a "marriage lite" approach:

A poll released Friday by the Human Rights Campaign conducted by the Democratic polling firm of Peter D. Hart Research Associates and Republican firm American Viewpoint showed that 63% of respondents who are registered voters support or would accept gay and lesbians receiving the same rights and protections as heterosexual Americans.

The Hart/American Viewpoint poll also showed that 50% of respondents support or accept granting civil marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples with the same rights, responsibilities and protections given to other married couples, as long as religious institutions do not have to recognize or perform these marriages. 47% of respondents opposed.

Other polls, however, find much higher numbers opposing "gay marriage." Lesbigay activists will have to weigh whether they should settle for anything less than full marriage -- and the risk that such a strategy could trigger passage of the anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, which would obliterate any hope for gay marriage in our lifetimes.

Personally, I"m becoming more inclined to go for civil unions. As Americans become more familiar with legally recognized gay relationships, I think their resistance will weaken. The go-slow state by state approach also would mitigate the worst reactions from the most conservative regions, which fear being forced to recognize gay marriages performed in Massachusetts or Canada.

Others argue that if we demand marriage, we will be more likely to at least get civil unions in the near term as a compromise. They may be right; or we could find ourselves trapped by a Federal Marriage Amendment juggernaut. It's a tough call, but I increasing hope the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court goes with the Vermont civil union approach in its upcoming ruling.

Let the Schism Begin.

The AP reports that Election of Gay Bishop Prompts Walkout. And here's the British take, from The Guardian.

And, from the NY Times, Anglican Leaders Warn of Global Schism Over Gay Bishop, which reveals the depth of homo-hatred by the good Anglican Church leaders of Africa, as well as Asia and South America. But why would giving in to their bigotry by good for Christianity?

addendum: As to Bishop-elect Robinson's alleged ties to porn links on a youth website -- allegations publicized by conservative pundit Fred Barnes on the Weekly Standard website -- here's the lowdown from Tony Adragna's blog "Shouting 'Cross the Potomac."

By the way, wasn't Barnes among those conservatives who criticized the last-minute sex charges leveled at then Supreme Court nominee Clarence Thomas? What hypocrites these ideologues of the right (and left) can be!

Episcopalians’ Fight Turns Ugly.

Here's the Washington Post"s lead:

On the verge of a historic vote, a convention of Episcopalian leaders was thrown into sudden disarray today when opponents raised allegations involving inappropriate touching and pornography against the Rev. V. Gene Robinson, who is awaiting confirmation as the first openly gay bishop in the worldwide Anglican Communion.

Well, it certainly sounds like an 11th hour smear. In any event, it reinforces my view that a schism among Episcopalians wouldn't be such a bad idea. You may recall that in the mid-1800s many American protestant denominations split into anti- and pro-slavery bodies (the genesis of today's Northern and Southern Baptists, for instance). Given the tactics of the anti-gay Episcopal faction, let them follow the example of the pro-slavery churches -- and let history stand in judgment.

Update: Robinson is confirmed. And yes, it was a last-ditch smear:

David Lewis of Vermont accused Robinson of touching him inappropriately at a convocation. -- Investigators questioned Lewis and determined Robinson touched his arm and back momentarily during conversation in a public room with more than 300 people present.

As for Robinson's opponents, thus by their actions shall you know them.

Church and State.

The Vatican last week labeled support for gay marriage (and even lesser types of same-sex unions) as "gravely immoral":

"There are absolutely no grounds for considering homosexual unions to be in any way similar or even remotely analogous to God's plan for marriage and family. Marriage is holy, while homosexual acts go against the natural moral law," the Vatican declared.

Conservatives embraced the Vatican statement, somehow ignoring the complicating fact that the Vatican also considers divorce to be highly immoral, and Catholics who divorce and remarry to have entered a permanent state of adultery (i.e., hello hellfire). But we don't see headlines about that. And let's not even get into the grave sin of artificial birth control!

Meanwhile, there's the impending schism in the Episcopal Church over the election of an openly gay bishop in New Hampshire. Rev. V. Gene Robinson told delegates to a church convention this weekend that his relationship with another man is "sacramental," just like marriage.

I'm not an Episcopalian, but as on outsider it does appear that the opposing views of the gay-affirming and gay-hostile wings of their church, and the same but larger conflict within the worldwide Anglican Communion, means an unavoidable split. And maybe that's not a bad thing. If conservatives are going to block equality for gay people within their respective denominations, then let them have their own churches of prejudice, while other congregations joint together and show that confirming gay pastors and blessing gay unions is spiritually affirming, rather than spiritually destructive.

This is, of course, aside from the issue of civil marriage, which concerns the state's treating all citizens as equal under the law. The fight for equal civil marriage takes place in the public polity, but the fight within each denomination against homophobic policies should not involve the government.

It's important to keep this distinction in mind, as anti-gays try to suggest that legal civil marriage for gays would somehow force churches to change their dogma. Thus is fear and ignorance spread.

Recent Postings

07/27/03 - 08/03/03

The Mote in Their Eye.

It's fair enough to criticize the president for, like Bill Clinton before him, supporting efforts to outlaw government recognition of gay marriage. But the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force missed the boat with their latest press release. "It is unbecoming of the President of the United States to characterize same-sex couples as 'sinners,' -- said Matt Foreman, Task Force executive director. But what Bush actually said was this:

"I am mindful that we're all sinners. And I caution those who may try to take a speck out of their neighbor's eye when they've got a log in their own. I think it's important for our society to respect each individual, to welcome those with good hearts, to be a welcoming country. On the other hand, that does not mean that somebody like me needs to compromise on the issue of marriage."

So Bush says we're ALL sinners, and then castigates critics of gays for not focusing on their own sinfulness and for their lack of respect toward others.

Foreman's conclusion that Bush is "obviously desperate to keep the country's focus off the war in Iraq and the dismal state of the economy, and he's willing to do it on the backs of gay men and lesbians, even if it means proposing legislation that already exists as law" is overwrought. NGLTF hates Bush so much they just couldn't hear the criticism of the religious right in Bush's remarks!

Meanwhile, says the GOP's lone openly gay congressman, Jim Kolbe, "The vast majority of the Republican Party is going to try very hard not to get into this [gay marriage]
debate." I hope he's right.