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According to reports about a new study, mixed-race students are more likely to feel depressed, have trouble sleeping, skip school, smoke, and drink alcohol. Not all that long ago, mainstream (not extremist) social conservatives would have demagogued such findings to denounce mixed-race families. But no self-respecting conservative would question "race mixing" these days. That's progress. And after the gay equality struggle is as complete as the civil rights revolution, they'll somehow forget they ever complained about gays, too.

UnCivil Marriage

The discountblogger explains how "social conservatives have blurred the line between civil and religious marriage -- but only when it concerns gays and lesbians." For instance:

Civil marriage...is not rooted in religious belief -- or, at least, it's not supposed to be. After all, a man and a woman who reject all forms of religious belief can still be married in this country. All they need to do is sign a piece of paper. Similarly, a Jew and a Christian -- even though they have fundamentally different religious beliefs -- can marry. And even then, with the blessings of the Right. Yet, two gay men, two completely religious gay men, both of whom have accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior, cannot.

The proposed Federal Marriage Amendment is not about protecting religion, he writes. It's about keeping gays out.

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Ronald Reagan was painfully slow to respond to the AIDS crisis, yet close friends swear the man was never homophobic. Still, a new CBS miniseries on the former president, by openly gay executive producers Craig Zadan and Neil Meron, is stirring up controversy. As gay.com reports:

In one scene, Ronald and Nancy are having breakfast when the subject of AIDS comes up. Reagan, in the script, says "They that live in sin shall die in sin" and refuses to discuss the issue further. Elizabeth Egloff, a playwright who wrote the final version of the script, acknowledged there was no evidence such a conversation took place.

The Reagan record is open to criticism, but using slander to bolster one's case smacks of cheap leftwing propaganda. And the fact that defenders of the series cite Edmund Morris's biography "Dutch" without noting that this book was roundly castigated for mixing fact with totally fictitious dialog and characters (and phony footnotes) certainly doesn't inspire trust is what the series presents as "truth."

They're Going to Sue Science?

The socially conservative CNSNews.com reports:

A coalition representing former homosexuals is
developing a legal strategy to litigate on behalf of people who
challenge the proposition that individuals are "born gay."

Next up, perhaps, will be a suit against the claim that the earth isn't the center of the universe.

Bush Expands Marriage . . . in Iraq.

One upside of deposing Saddam, the Washington Post reports, is that "Freed of an onerous Baath Party bureaucracy that sought to regulate even the most fundamental aspects of Iraqi life -- such as who married whom -- Iraqis lately are tying the knot in numbers not seen in recent memory." Now, if we could only get rid of some of our own "onerous" government regulation that tries to limit who can marry whom right here in the U.S.! After all, it would be nice to be at least as progressive as Taiwan on this matter.

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10/19/03 - 10/25/03

Some GOP strategists are urging the party to take up the religious right's banner and make opposition to gay marriage -- and support for a constitutional amendment banning government recognition of gay relationships -- into a major campaign issue, the Washington Post reports. I think the article overstates the likelihood of this, as Bush is well aware that the social right's "culture war" help undo his father's re-election. But if "activating the base" comes to be seen as crucial, it could happen. As they say, those who do not learn from history...

Social Security Reform: Good for Gays.

The Cato Institute's Social Security Project website explains how incorporating personal retirement accounts into Social Security would "create clear property rights for individuals in which they can bequeath contributions to their family members, regardless of state or federal legality of their union." Currently, only legal spouses can inherit your accumulated benefits, regardless of any civil union or domestic partnership relationship. Kudos to Cato for recognizing how reforming the system, which is fiercely opposed by most Democrats and liberal-left activists, would be a boon for gays.

Openly gay Detroit News columnist Deb Price explains why Schwarzenegger is good for Republicans, and good for gays. She writes:

The numbers are indeed telling. With little known about his views except that he is a fiscal conservative who supports abortion and gay rights, Schwarzenegger captured 50 percent of the votes of self-identified moderates, compared with 31 percent for Democratic Lt. Gov. Cruz Bustamante. "

A ballot box smash hit in California, Schwarzenegger is now a leading actor on the national political stage. If he follows his best instincts, he'll force both parties to rewrite their scripts.

Price, whose column is also syndicated, often hews close to the typical liberal-left gay advocate's worldview. But occasionally, as in this piece, she shows some welcome independence of mind.

For more views on the impact of the California election, take a look at our newly posted columns by Dale Carpenter and Paul Varnell!

If You Build It (High Ratings), They (Advertisers) Will Come.

Corporate America is now clamoring to secure product placements and endorsement deals with the producers of "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy," the NY Daily News reports. NBC and its Bravo cable network are now considering spinoffs as well. Quite a change from just a few years back when gay content routinely caused advertiser flight. But ratings speak louder than the religious right's ubiquitous, but toothless, product boycott threats. Yes, capitalist consumerism really is our ally!

A few weeks ago, IGF contributing author Andrew Sullivan wrote this piece
for the Wall Street Journal, taking conservatives to task for opposing gay participation in our society's "integrating" institutions, such as marriage, the military, etc. Among other questions, he asked:

On what grounds do conservatives believe that discouraging responsibility is a good thing for one group in society? What other legal minority do they or would they treat this way?

Last week, conservative David Frum responded, also in the Wall Street Journal.
You can read Frum's arguments for yourself but basically, as Sullivan and others have accurately noted, it is a nonresponse - conservatives of Frum's sort are fundamentally opposed not just to gay marriage, but to any form of domestic partnership recognition. They have nothing positive to say about integrating gay people more fully into society, because they would rather keep us permanently beyond the pale.

But you can't whistle down the wind, and the more the social right digs in its heels against changes that expand individual liberty (rather than focusing constructively on the many left-wing nostrums that expand intrusive government and constrict individual liberty), the more marginalized the social right will become.

Sullivan, by the way, also has an excellent op-ed in Sunday's New York Times about the Catholic Church's ongoing attacks against gay Catholics.

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10/12/03 - 10/18/03

With much hoopla, Elizabeth Birch's 9-year tenure as head of the Washington-based Human Rights Campaign, the nation's largest - and wealthiest - lesbigay lobby, is coming to an end. But all the accolades leave me uneasy. True, under Birch HRC grew substantially. But too many of the group's efforts seem to have been on behalf of itself: growing HRC's staff, improving HRC's employee benefits, and - most impressively - buying and renovating a big (and expensive) HRC headquarters building in D.C.

Despite all the cash raked in through swanky fund-raising dinners, what of the group's actual accomplishments? Their beloved Bill Clinton signed the anti-gay Defense of Marriage Act, believing (correctly) that his gay supporters would swallow it without a murmur, and also signed legislation making "don't ask, don't tell" the military's policy, after raising too early - and then quickly dropping - support for ending the gay ban.

OK, there were symbolic gestures, such as Clinton's recognizing gay pride month and making a number of lower-level gay federal appointees as payback for gay support. But what of the Employee Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), HRC's long-ballyhooed big goal? Even with a Democratic House and Senate during his first two years, Clinton and House-leader Dick Gephardt didn't move on it.

Before Birch, HRC had only made endorsements in congressional races. Under Birch, presidential politics became key, not only providing big support for Clinton, but endorsing Al Gore early in the primary season, well before the GOP had even settled on a candidate (which explains Al and Tipper's appearance at Birch's big farewell dinner). These moves made HRC seem more partisan, an adjunct of the Democratic National Committee, as it were. Moreover, in some years during Birch's tenure HRC's well-publicized candidates' "scorecards" took into account votes in favor of the federal government's racial-preference mandates and unrestricted government funding for abortions, among other not-so-gay issues.

Still, compared to the radical poseurs at the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, HRC was a model of moderation - not wacky leftists, just partisan Democrats with an extremely flimsy "nonpartisan" veneer.

Discrimination Against the Unwed.

This week's cover story in Business Week looks at "Unmarried America" and how the new demographics of the non-traditional family ("singletons" living alone, unmarried straight co-habitators, single parents, and gay couples) are changing America. The news peg:

The U.S. Census Bureau's newest numbers show that married-couple households -- the dominant cohort since the country's founding -- have slipped from nearly 80% in the 1950s to just 50.7% today. -- Also fueling the demographic change: More people are coming out of the closet and setting up same-sex households.

The unmarried, however, often find themselves getting the short end of the stick. They:

are often subjected to discrimination in housing and credit applications. They pay more for auto and homeowners' insurance" In the workplace, unmarried people wind up making an average 25% less than married colleagues for the same work because of the marriage-centric structure of health care, retirement, and other benefits".

As the reality of unmarried America sinks in, CEOs, politicians, and judges will be challenged to design benefits, structure taxes, and develop retirement models that more fairly match the changing population.

These include corporate domestic-partner benefits, which, however, are fully taxed under federal and state law (unlike spousal benefits). Business Week concludes: "No matter how the politics play out, the demographic convulsion is certain to cause a collective reexamination of what it means to be full-fledged members of society."

From this week's issue of Time magazine:

It's tempting to think there are two gay Americas, one frightened and one fabulous, a merely gay America and a fully Queer America. An America where the gay bars darken their windows to hide ashamed patrons, and an America where straight people stand in line to get into gay clubs. An America where the June 26 Supreme Court decision legalizing sodomy had more than symbolic consequences, since gay sex was still a crime in 13 states. And an America where instead of arresting gays, the police help clear the streets every June for pride parades, which of course include contingents of gay cops.

The article is "The New Face of Gay Power" by John Cloud, who takes a revealing look at what's happened in the state of Wyoming in the five years since Matthew Shepard's murder.

The Miami Herald takes a look at the so-called ex-gay movement and quotes Randy Thomas, communications director for Orlando-based Exodus International, the nation's leading ex-gay group. He's 35 and single, and says he is still a heterosexual virgin because:

"If I were sleeping with a woman, that would be as much sin as sleeping with a man," he said. "It is possible to live without an orgasm. You won't find a death certificate anywhere that says, 'Died of lack of orgasm.' "

Yes, it's another great success for the ex-gay movement!

An Option for Anti-Gay Episcopalians?

The Russian Orthodox Church has demolished a chapel where a priest conducted an unauthorized marriage ceremony between two men.

Another Republican Against the FMA.

The former head of the Nevada Republican Party speaks out against the proposed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment.

More Recent Postings

10/05/03 - 10/11/03

Leave it to the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force to brag that "Gay, lesbian and bisexual people"were among the most ardent opponents of recalling Governor Gray Davis," as NGLTF put in a post-election press release. Here's a reality check: 42% of gay voters favored recalling Gray Davis, and some 32% of gays voted for Schwarzenegger (plus 4% for the other Republican, Tom McClintock). In a state that's overwhelmingly Democratic, Schwarzenegger and McClintock between them got 60% of the overall vote, including an unexpectedly high number of women, union members, and Hispanic voters. So what does NGLTF think it gains by claiming we're a steadfastly liberal-left voting bloc that's happy to be out of step with mainstream voters?

Skewed News.

The popular website gay.com delivers its own perspective on the news. The story "Rights Groups Hail Defeat Of Anti-Gay Prop" refers to California's Proposition 54, which would have barred the state from collecting racial data on individuals in most circumstances (it was conceived by Ward Connerly, an African-American business leader opposed to race-based preferences). Gay.com reports, however, that the measure was "anti-gay" since "It would have disproportionately affected lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of color" ." By that logic, I suppose that tax increases are also "anti-gay" because they confiscate a higher proportion of LGBT taxpayers' income, but you won't see that argument on gay.com!

Also, gay.com's report on "How Gays Voted," which draws heavily on the NGLTF's press release, somehow fails to mention that 32% of the gay vote went to Arnold. Sadly, this type of bias is all too common in much of the gay media.

Arnold Schwarzenegger's capture of California's governorship creates the possibility that the GOP in the nation's most populous state could finally be wrestled free of the religious right's stranglehold. After all, social conservatives such as the Traditional Values Coalition spent big bucks trying to defeat Arnold (one TVC press release was titled "Schwarzenegger Candidacy Would 'Terminate'' Moral Leadership in California"). And Schwarzennegger was endorsed by the California Log Cabin Republicans, who noted the Terminator is on record supporting domestic partnerships and gay adoptions.

Incumbent Democrat Gray Davis came to be viewed as a politician who put liberal special interests groups -- government employee unions, the trial lawyers lobby, eco-extremists, minorities who want the rules everyone else follows bent in their favor (as in drivers licenses for illegal aliens) -- above the common good. As California spent itself into near bankruptcy on megagovernment, Davis kept signing into law burdensome new mandates and regulations on businesses, stalling economic growth and new job creation as the rest of the nation began to recover from the post-bubble recession.

Yet gay liberals gave their enthusiastic support to Davis, who signed pro-gay legislation -- including an expansion of domestic partners rights (probably more encompassing than a bill Schwarzenegger might have backed). Yet in the end, does it benefit gays to be seen as just one more group of special interest pleaders in the liberal-left's coalition? Could it be that a fiscally responsible centrist who is 80 percent behind our issues is ultimately better than an out-of-the-mainstream liberal who supports 95 percent of our agenda? These are long-term strategic questions that ought to be considered.