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The Washington Post takes a look at gay GOPers and their fight for the soul of the Republican Party.

Meanwhile, anti-gay Congressman Edward Schrock (R-Va.), married and a father, is outed for allegedly trolling gay sex lines and ends his re-election bid, also reports the Post. In 2000 Schrock said when opposing gays in the military, "You're in the showers with them, you're in the bunk room with them, you're in staterooms with them. You just hope no harm would come by folks who are of that persuasion. It's a discipline thing."

The Washington Post editorializes on the latest bit of anti-gay venom to come out of the Old Dominion, where a state judge has ruled that Virginia's recently passed Marriage Affirmation Act nullifies a Vermont court's recognition of parental rights on the part of a lesbian who is now de-civil unionized from her former (and now ex-gay) partner, the child's biological parent.

Illegalities aside (you can read the Post editorial for the scoop), what a nightmare it must be not only to break up with a former spousal-equivalent with whom you've been co-parenting from the get-go, but then to have her custody jump to the most anti-gay state in the union and bring in lawyers from religious right "family" groups to ensure you can never see the child again.

When love is gone, it's gone.

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8/22/04 - 8/28/04

Remember when the Human Rights Campaign used to portray itself as nonpartisan? Now, following on the heels of the group's decision to oppose the re-election of incumbent Sen. Arlen Specter (R-Pa.), one of the GOP's most consistently gay-supportive members, HRC has garnered attention for its high and unstinting praise of New Jersey Gov. James McGreevey. Unethical he may be, but he's a gay Democrat, and they're not admitting to any concerns.

And then there's the presidential race, in which HRC's involvement included a "Fahrenheit 9/11 Audience Outreach Campaign." And, at its Dupont Circle storefront in the nation's capital, HRC's placards, stickers and shirts proclaim "George W. Bush: You're Fired!" rather than much about gay issues. Moreover, HRC has hired billboard trucks to troll around New York City during the GOP convention, again promoting the same, now cliche "You're Fired" message.

HRC may bill itself as "the nation's largest gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender political organization," but it's getting harder to see any difference between the group, which in the past has made unequivocal support for abortions without restrictions and for race-based preferences into candidate "scorecard" items, and other liberal-left Democratic Party affiliates such as Moveon.org.

As noted earlier, EMILY's List may have no compunction about supporting an anti-gay rights but pro-abortion rights Senate candidate, but HRC is determined to make itself the leader of a grand coalition of the left, even as its mission of bipartisan gay advocacy gets lost along the way.

At the request of the Republican National Committee, New York City's tourist bureau has pulled the off-Broadway show "Naked Boys Singing" from a list of discounted offerings to visiting Republican delegates, the AP reports. The gay-themed musical revue "celebrates the splendors of male nudity in comedy, song and dance." But the Republican bluenoses complained after about a dozen people, presumably delegates, had purchased tickets using the special code offered on the tourist bureau's Web site.

Meanwhile, the Log Cabin Republicans note, the GOP platform committee was busily at work making sure that, contrary to recent remarks by the president and veep, not only gay marriage but civil unions and domestic partner benefits would be condemned in the party's official platform. Red meat to the hard-right social conservatives upset over the moderate lineup of convention speakers, but just the sort of reactionary obtuseness that drives away fair-minded swing voters.

As the San Francisco Chronicle reports, "Vice President Dick Cheney, whose daughter Mary is a lesbian, drew criticism from both proponents and foes of gay marriage Tuesday after he distanced himself from President Bush's call for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage." Cheney said:

"Lynne and I have a gay daughter, so it's an issue our family is very familiar with. With respect to the question of relationships, my general view is freedom means freedom for everyone ... People ought to be free to enter into any kind of relationship they want to.

"The question that comes up with the issue of marriage is what kind of official sanction or approval is going to be granted by government? Historically, that's been a relationship that has been handled by the states. The states have made that fundamental decision of what constitutes a marriage."

Having made it clear he, personally, doesn't support federalizing marriage, as the failed anti-gay Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA) sought to do, Cheney went on to provide some cover to President Bush, a strong FMA supporter, remarking:

"I think his [Bush's] perception was that the courts, in effect, were beginning to change, without allowing the people to be involved. The courts were making the judgment for the entire country."

As the Chronicle notes, Cheney's comments drew a rebuke from the religious right's Family Research Council, while doing little to mollify anti-Bush activists, such as the Human Rights Campaign.

But it's significant, I think, that Cheney's remarks follow on the heels of Bush's own, under-reported statement earlier this month that regarding civil unions, "That's up to states. If they want to provide legal protections for gays, that's great. That's fine. But I do not want to change the definition of marriage."

It sure looks like the administration is moderating its stance, trying to recapture some of the gay/gay friendly votes in the all-important swing states. And while it doesn't, and can't, make up for unleashing the FMA in the first place, it's certainly a welcome change of tone -- especially as the Kerry camp moves in the other direction, denouncing gay marriage and backtracking on gays in the military.

While LGBT activists continue to praise James McGreevey, New Jersey's embattled Democratic governor, despite the mounting evidence of political corruption and charges of sexual harassment, another newly out Garden State official explains why he's ashamed of the state's highest official "gay American." Reports the New Jersey Journal:

Hudson County Freeholder Ray Velazquez is so offended by the governor's handling of his legal troubles and so worried that the gay community will be hurt by the scandal that he is publicly acknowledging that he, too, is a gay elected official. Most troubling, he said, is the allegation that Gov. James E. McGreevey put his lover on the public payroll.

"It's not enough to say, 'I'm sorry, I'm a gay man,' to cover up those things," Velazquez said this week at his Downtown law office. "It sends the wrong message, and as a gay man who has worked his entire life and who feels an obligation to the gay community, I think it's best that he resign his office immediately. Being gay does not give you the right to abuse your public office.

And, writing in the Washington Post, novelist Francine Prose observes:

I keep finding myself more concerned about the $110,000 annual salary that McGreevey paid his lover for a job as a homeland security adviser -- a position for which the aspiring Israeli poet apparently had few qualifications -- than I am about the governor's sexuality, or the fate of his marriage.

And I am left wondering whether the governor may have been trying to use the American obsession with sex and celebrity gossip to his own advantage, hoping perhaps that the sympathy he would gain by declaring his lifelong identity crisis might outweigh the censure over the financial irregularities that were already beginning to blight his record.

No kidding. On the other hand, a letter published in our mailbag takes on McGreevey's critics.

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8/15/04 - 8/21/04

The Cherokee National Tribal Council voted to define marriage as only between a man and a woman, reports the AP. "If we don't address this, we'll have a flood of same-sex marriages," an advocate of the ban asserted, adding that same-sex matrimony would otherwise "be a black eye on the Cherokee Nation. Even the state of Oklahoma doesn't allow same-sex marriage."

Nope, not even gonna attempt to parse those comments. But I did refrain from heading this item "Anti-Gay Cherokees on the Warpath."
--Stephen H. Miller

The fight over same-sex marriage has so overwhelmed other gay issues that neither the gay activists' surrender over ENDA nor John Kerry's retreat on gays in the military has gotten much attention. On the latter, the Washington Blade takes a closer look in a report headlined "Kerry hedges on ending 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell': Senator expresses concerns over 'unit cohesion' -- This puts into context the Kerry campaign's decision earlier this month to delete any reference to ending the gay ban from the candidate's website, wherein all manner of promises are made to groups that Kerry actually thinks he needs to bother with.

The "gay votes for free" card that LGBT politicos and activists gave Kerry will come back to haunt them.

The lover's gay; no, he's straight; no, he's gay...It was a feather-bedding quid pro quo; no, it was sexual harassment. What it is, indisputably, is a big juicy mass media sex scandal, generating lots of cheap copy and, here and there, some thoughtful analysis about gays, marriage, and the closet. In addition to Jonathan Rauch's valuable insights, posted herein, Salon has run a clever piece by Dan Savage, who writes:

If it does nothing else, the McGreevey marriage highlights the chief absurdity of the anti-gay-marriage argument: Gay men can, in point of fact, get married - provided we marry women, duped or otherwise. The porousness of the sacred institution is remarkable: Gay people are a threat to marriage, but gay people are encouraged to marry - indeed, we have married, under duress, for centuries, and the religious right would like us to continue to do so today - as long as our marriages are a sham. ...

But how does this state of affairs protect marriage from the homos, I wonder? If an openly gay man can get married as long as his marriage makes a mockery of what is the defining characteristic of modern marriage - romantic love - or if he marries simply because he despairs of finding a same-sex partner, what harm could possibly be done by opening marriage to the gay men who don't want to make a mockery of marriage or who can find a same-sex partner?

Despite the sensationalism, it's possible the McGreevey affair will lead more straight people to think the issue through, and then come to the right conclusion.

Jenna and Barbara Get an Invite.

A New York Daily News gossip item has it that "Bush Gals to See Gay Vows." In other words, the first daughters have reportedly been invited to the same-sex wedding of their beautician and his long time partner (though the marriage won't be recognized by the state, or their father). The item says Jenna and Barbara are ethusiastic about attending, but whether they go or not (and I'm betting NOT, even if the story is legit), it points out how stark the generational contrast is on the issue of gay marriage. The future is ours, but it's not here yet.

Washington Blade editor Chris Crain takes aim at the Human Rights Campaign and its allies over their decision to oppose any version of the proposed federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that doesn't also bar private employers from discriminating against the transgendered as well as gays and lesbians. As Crain notes, "Courts have already ruled that existing federal and state laws that protect against gender bias protect transgendered people. Those rulings aren't universal, but they offer more federal protection than gays currently enjoy."

I'd add that a sweeping federal prohibition against "gender identity and expression" workplace discrimination arguably forces employers to alter dress codes to allow any manner of gender discordant attire (i.e., a bearded man wearing a dress to work). Anyway, that's how it will be perceived, and it will make ENDA unpassable.

I'm no fan of ENDA -- federal anti-discrimination laws have opened the gates to a flood of frivolous lawsuits, forcing employers to pay off plaintiffs because defending themselves is prohibitively expensive. But HRC and liberal-left gays do think ENDA is significant, and they've just made sure they'll never get it.