Elton John is planning to wed his partner of 12 years, David
Furnish, according to news headlines. Yes, even the
Voice of America and CNN"
say John and Furnish are "to marry."
But the United Kingdom doesn't offer gays what American
activists call "full marriage equality"; instead, Britain has a
civil partnership act which allows same-sex couples to register
their unions and receive most of the legal rights and
responsibilities that married couples enjoy. A separate religious
ceremony is optional and at the couples' discretion. (The
AP story does seem to get this.)
Here in the U.S., a far larger number of voters (and political
leaders) seem ok with civil unions or domestic partnerships, but
not ok with same-sex marriage. That's a big reason why so many
states have recently passed constitutional amendments which ban gay
marriage (and which increasingly have also banned civil unions,
too, though that's sneaked into the language).
Some have argued that rather than demanding full marriage
equality right now, a better strategy would be to work for civil
unions in the belief that (1) people will soon treat civil unions
as if there were, in fact, marriages, which seems borne out by the
Elton John coverage, and (2) after that happens and Americans get
used to the idea, merging civil unions into full marriage won't
seem like such a big deal.
But domestic gay activists are now firmly ensconced in the "full
marriage now" movement, which seems more likely to lead to no
same-sex marriages outside the most liberal states (Massachusetts
and perhaps California) for a very long time, and may bring down
civil unions in the backlash as well.