IGF CultureWatch

Here's what happens to gays who think the Democratic Party should do more for them than just take our money.

And no, I'm not saying the party we don't fund (i.e., the GOP) is better. Just that we expect more from the party we are guilted, incessantly, into opening our wallets for.

As for the GOP, Mary Cheney's story, as told to ABC's Diane Sawyer on Thursday primetime, shows that while incremental progress has been made, there's still a long, hard road ahead. Giving all of our money and labor to ungrateful Democrats won't help us get there.

Update: Well, I thought Mary Cheney did just fine with Diane on Thursday night, explaining her strong disagreement with the national GOP on gay marriage but also making clear why she would remain a Republican even if her father wasn't veep.

It was also interesting that she referred to herself as "gay" several times, while her gay-male critics called her a "lesbian." It reminded me of Ellen's famous "Yep, I'm Gay" Time magazine cover story. Yet this site has taken some heat for being the Independent Gay Forum and not the Independent LBGT&etc Forum.

I feel strongly that "gay," while far from perfect, is an inclusive term and that if lesbian feminists want to self-segregate (and often work for women's and lesbian issues in organizations dedicated to that purpose), so be it. But it doesn't turn "gay" into a male-only category. Mary Cheney, Ellen DeGeneres, and many other gay women would seem to agree.

Still more. I found Elizabeth Birch and Hilary Rosen's Washington Post op-ed a bit smug and condescending. They write:

This week we've debated each other over the wrongs we feel her family and their allies have perpetrated on the gay and lesbian community and what the impact of her current activities will be.

I'm not quite sure what wrongs the Cheney clan per se have done (the veep has distanced himself from the Federal Marriage Amendment).

Also, following on my point in the update above, Birch and Rosen insist on calling Mary Cheney a lesbian when she herself uses the term gay. Apparently, the demand to respect the nomenclature that an individual favors only works in one direction.

A case in suburban Washington, D.C., shows how over-reaching "anti-bias" laws can achieve illiberal results by overriding the exercise of free conscience. As Walter Olson writes at overlaywered.com:

Bono Film and Video has an announced policy of refusing to duplicate material that owner Tim Bono regards as contrary to his Christian values. Now the Arlington County (Va.) Human Rights Commission has held a public hearing and investigated Bono on charges that he discriminated against Lilli Vincenz by refusing to duplicate her Gay Pride videos.... Various social-conservative pressure groups have taken up Bono's cause, and this would appear to be one of those instances where they have a point.

Note that this is not a matter of job discrimination. And it is not a case of discriminating against a customer based on her group identity. It's the owner of one little film shop in Arlington declining to produce materials that violate his values, while others want to force him to do so-and if he refuses, to fine or even jail him.

Lillian Hellman once famously refused to "cut my conscience to fit this year's fashion," but that is exactly what liberal authoritarians want to require of Tim Bono. One wonders, are only liberals allowed to have consciences? If Tim Bono were refusing to duplicate White Power tapes, would they then defend him? Is it a matter solely of who can use the state to force ideological fealty to their ideas?

As gay people, we often protest against what some see as manifestations of creeping,Taliban-like theocracy from the right. But in the case of Tim Bono, just who is insisting on imposing their values on everyone?

In short, it is not in our own long-term interests, which are grounded in liberty and respect for individual autonomy, to use the state to force others to reproduce content of which they disapprove.

More than 80 percent of companies in the Fortune 500 now ban discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. And some 249 of the Fortune 500 offer health and other benefits to the same-sex partners of their employees. That's up from just 28 a decade ago, writes Fortune magazine columnist Marc Gunther. He also notes the efforts of the Human Rights Campaign to rate companies on their gay-friendly and gay-equitable policies. HRC head Joe Solmonese even seems to get it right (not left) this time, when he states that "Corporate America is ahead of government in providing equal treatment for GLBT people because it knows that fairness is good for business."

Last year, Wal-Mart, America's biggest employer and a frequent punching bag for anti-free-market activists, agreed to support a network for its gay (and lesbian, and bisexual, and transgender) workers, joining such firms as Citigroup, DuPont, and IBM. "All these trends are moving in one direction-towards more rights for gay and lesbian people," writes Gunther, adding, "This is remarkable, given the setbacks that gay rights have taken in the political arena, especially around the issue of gay marriage."

Gee, maybe the market really does know more than ego-inflated politicians.

The column also notes that the religious rightists are attempting to instigate a backlash, via shareholder resolutions seeking to reverse corporate domestic partner benefit policies that, as they so charminly put it, "pay people who engage in homosexual sex acts." Do these people ever think about anything other than what gay folks do in bed?
--Stephen H. Miller

I've been on the road, so blogging has been light and will remain so through the start of next week. But the ballot situation in Colorado is worth taking note of. Signatures are being collected for an array of pro- and anti-gay ballot initiatives. So, instead of just opposing (1) an anti-gay-marriage, man-woman-only state amendment and (2) a related initiative that rules out any legal status "similar to marriage" for same-sex partners, activists, backed by the Gill Foundation, have gone proactive. They're supporting (3) their own ballot initiative that says domestic partnerships are "not similar to marriage." That's important, because while a majority of voters have consistently opposed same-sex marriage, increasing numbers (and in many locales, majorities) do not oppose domestic partnerships. Plus, (4) another gay-supported ballot measure would legalize domestic partnerships.

Any combo of these could get on the ballot and pass, but even if anti-gay (1) and pro-gay (3) were to win, for instance, the situation would still be noticeably better than a simple victory for the marriage-banners.

More. Let's recall that in Nov. 2004, 11 states passed ballot initiatives banning gay marriage. That year, the Human Rights Campaign, the largest lesbigay lobby, gave only token support to opposing these referendums, and instead put its big dollars behind the Kerry/Edwards campaign. Kerry/Edwards, of course, gave their backing to passing these anti-gay amendments. We forget this bit of shameful history at our peril.
-- Stephen H. Miller

"Bigotry is bad for business," said Alan Hawse, vice president of information technology company Cypress Semiconductor, in remarks directed at anti-gay Gov. Ernie Fletcher of Kentucky. But I've long felt that many (most) politicos in both parties aren't primarily concerned with the general well being. Their energy is focused on themselves and the maximization of their own position and power, and so appeals to bigotry, however hurtful of economic growth, prosperity and dynamism, thus serve their primary interest.

This is evident on the left, too, with anti-globalization and pro-protectionism. Simply terrible policies, economically speaking, that nevertheless appeal to the fears and prejudices of the uninformed.

And as for some religious "leaders" organizing in favor of constitutionally banning same-sex marriage, I can only quote the Bible: "Alas for you, lawyers and Pharisees, hypocrites that ye be."

And let's not forgot our very own gay "leaders." In the Times story linked above, catch the quote from HRC's clueless Joe Solmonese, who intones that the amendment is an unwanted distraction when (among other things) "we have an economy barely hanging on." Apparently, he agrees with John Kerry that this is the worst economy since the Great Depression, but most Americans see low unemployment, moderate if slowly rising interest rates, low inflation (excepting gas), very solid economic growth and an up stock market as, well, not "barely hanging on."

More. Some commenters defend the Kerry/Solmonese/Democratic "talking points" line on the economy, but even the New York Times business section can't abide it. An April 28 report was headlined "U.S. Economic Growth Continues Its Rapid Pace; Consumers Are Upbeat," while a companion story reported that "With unemployment in March at 4.7 percent, the nation is still adding about 200,000 jobs a month-a fairly robust pace."
-- Stephen H. Miller

The Houston Voice reports (scroll down) that in Saskatchewan, Canada, gay activists are worried about "gay bashing" following a decision by the province's highest court:

The complaint pitted religious freedom of expression against the rights of gays to protection against hatred and ridicule. On April 13, the Saskatchewan Court of Appeals ruled Hugh Owns did not violate the Human Rights Code when he placed an ad in the Star-Phoenix in June 1997 that reflected his anti-gay views. The ad cited the Bible verses condemning homosexuality.

And here's how one of the gay activists responded:

"Im very disappointed," said Gens Hellquist, one of three Saskatoon gay activists who initiated [the] human rights complaint against [Owen].

Could there be a better example of how illiberal and censorious some activists are? And of course, the Christian right is making hay of it all. As the Mission News Network puts it (again, scroll down):

It is debatable whether Mr. Owen's ads were an appropriate means of communicating the Biblical teaching on homosexuality. What makes the [earlier, now overturned] Saskatchewan ruling so disturbing, however, is that the adjudicator, Ms. Watson, concluded that it was the Bible verses that pushed the advertisement over the line that separates questionable judgement from intolerance.

The Christian rightists couldn't have hoped for a better example to buttress their own claim of being the party that's victimized (by gays).

Relatedly. Beth Elliot weighs a 9th Circuit Court of Appeal decision upholding the high school disciplinary action against a senior who wore "a snarky, gay-dissing t-shirt." On this, I'd agree that freedom of expression for students on school grounds is expected to be restricted, to a degree.

Still more. Hans Bader of the Competitive Enterprise Institute says "no one has a right not to be offended." But James Taranto of the WSJ writes (scroll down):

This is one of those situations in which everyone involved is wrong. The school should have concentrated on reading, math and the like and not gotten involved in issues of sexual orientation. If Harper insisted on protesting, he should have done so in a less obnoxious way. When he failed to do so, school officials should have shown some tolerance and let it go.

The U.S. Supreme Court should not have ruled, in Tinker v. Des Moines School District (1969), that minors have a First Amendment right to engage in political speech at school. But since that is the law, the Ninth Circuit should not have carved out an exception for, as Judge Stephen Reinhardt put it, "speech that attacks high school students who are members of minority groups that have historically been oppressed, subjected to verbal and physical abuse, and made to feel inferior."

I agree that Tinker was one of those '60s "power to the students" rulings that led to constitutional contortions in matters such as restraining students from wearing offensive T-shirts to school. High school kids are not adults, and public schools are not public squares. But school choice would be a better option, giving parents more say in the sort of school envirnment (protective or permissive) their kids are suited for.
-- Stephen H. Miller

In the Bay Area Reporter, Bob Roehr pens an excellent account of how the Gill Action Fund is getting it right. Set up by Denver gay entrepreneur and philanthropist Tim Gill to support results-oriented gay activism on the local level, that's just what the fund is doing.

Ted Trimpa, who advises the fund, and Rodger McFarlane, executive director of the Gill Foundation, shared their insights with Roehr, who reported:

The foundation and action fund also have learned to play both sides of the political aisle. "Part of Tim's giving strategy on the Republican side has been, let's help Republicans take their party back, rather than change them into Democrats. There are reasons they are Republican, and we have to respect that," said Trimpa.

McFarlane adds in a conspiratorial whisper, "And many of us happen to agree" with some of those reasons.

That alone gives you a clue of why the foundation has been successful. As Roehr continues:

McFarlane has joined the growing chorus of those within the LGBT community calling for "actual legislative wins," and accountability. "In the past it was we've gotta elect a Democrat, we've gotta elect a Democrat. And the Democrats haven't done very well, nor have they responded to our adversaries."

"I think they're just scared of our issues. They're stuck [back] 10 years ago and think this is a negative, when in fact, if you look at the data and if you get on the offensive, it is not a negative," McFarlane said.

"Tim has said, passing money through the Democratic Party and letting someone speak for us has not worked. We always end up as the piece that is negotiable-we always fall off the end. Bill Clinton would make speeches that would inspire you to walk across the desert, and then every time we came to getting something out of committee or actually voting on something, we were the ones that were cut," McFarlane added.

And here's another "on the money" quote:

The pair criticizes much past political spending for piddling away money to support "friends" who are going to win anyway; many of whom may vote the right way but do not exercise leadership on LGBT issues. Trimpa said money has to be concentrated for maximum impact, both "to punish the evil," and "to create an environment where there is reward for people who actually lead, who take those risks."

Can't argue with that.
--Stephen H. Miller

Are drugstores that keep condoms behind the counter in high-crime areas enforcing "puritanism" in an attempt to "stigmatize safe sex"? Is this another sign of "America's terrifyingly conservative climate"? David Boaz says no.
-- Stephen H. Miller

The constitutional amendment to nationalize marriage law by forbidding states from recognizing same-sex matrimony (whether by judicial decree or legislative vote) won't win the necessary supermajority in the Senate this year. But the Republican leadership will likely bring it back before every election. That may be politically advantageous for now, at least in terms of keeping the GOP "base" of social conservatives well stoked. But as more Americans become more comfortable with spousal rights for gays, being on the side of reaction won't bode well for the party.

The conservative Washington Times reports that amendment supporters are courting "liberals," by which they mean African-American and Hispanic religious organizations typically on the left regarding wealth redistribution and big-government pork-barrel spending. That's called being "progressive" on the left. But it's in fact reactionary support for the dysfunctional status quo. Add in homophobia and you've got a very bad political mixture all round.

More. In the D.C. neighborhood of Shaw, African-American parishioners oppose allowing a gay bar to open near their Scripture Cathedral. "Don't they understand that there is a day-care center in the church?" asks one woman.
-- Stephen H. Miller

As the Washington Blade reports, a new study by an associate of controversial researcher Michael Bailey claims, in Bailey-like fashion, that same-sex sexual orientation is an outgrowth of gender confusion at an early age. Other researchers dispute this as a causal factor, while still others find there may be an association in some instances but not enough to form a general rule. Confusion reigns; though many believe homosexuality is hard wired in the brain (pick your cause-genetics or hormones in the womb).

Interestingly, many simply ignore effeminate but clearly heterosexual men, and masculine but clearly heterosexual women. Such factors tend to mess up perfectly clear theorizing.
-- Stephen H. Miller