IGF contributing author David Link has
an op-ed in the Los Angles Times that finds President Bush, in
avoiding the word "gay" (or any reference to gay people at all) is
trying to define same-sex marriage as a hetero-only issue.
On the other side, conservative columnist Jeff Jacoby
opines that calling same-sex marriage opponents "bigots" is
uncivil and forestalls, rather than encourages, dialog and debate.
It's an interesting question: Are they bigots if they don't know
they're bigots? And if they don't know they're bigots, does calling
them "bigots" simply fuel their bigotry?
How about when Sen. James Inhofe (R-OK) says:
I'm really proud to say that in the recorded history of our
family, we've never had a divorce or any kind of a homosexual
relationship.
That's not bigotry?
Sarcasm aside, believing that gays should not have the right to
marry their life partner, whether founded on deeply held religious
beliefs or not, does suggest you aren't exactly viewing gay people
as your equal. But I would agree that such folks are not moved to
be less prejudiced by calling them "bigots" who seek to perpetuate
"discrimination." It would be far better to make a
positive case for same-sex marriage, which most of our
Washington-based gay leaders, following Howard Dean's talking
points, simply won't do.
On a brighter note (kinda, sorta), the conservative Washington
Examiner, known for its close ties to the Bush White House,
editorializes:
By bringing up the proposal now, when it is certain to be
defeated, and making it clear in comments to the media that they
are doing it only to "bring out the base" in November, Bush, Rove
and company are also laying the groundwork for permanently shelving
the initiative after the ballots are counted. Let the marriage
amendment fail now and odds are overwhelming that there will be
many other "more winnable" goals for Bush and the GOP leadership to
push. (hat tip: Right Side of
the Rainbow)
See, they're not "bigots," are they?