With more of us each day living our lives openly within our communities and marriage on the horizon, what are some progressive "queer" activists worried about? Losing their "outcast culture," as recounted in this broadcast NPR story.
According to reporter Tovia Smith, it pains some to see gays want to marry or join the military instead of "challenging the underlying premises of those organizations." It's "selling out." Smith characterizes this as "Angst over the end of the edginess, excitement and radical chic that has made gay culture distinct."
But what other minority gets asked by the liberal media, to paraphrase, now that you're not oppressed, aren't you worried that you'll no longer be fabulous? Fortunately, for balance, our own Jonathan Rauch tells Smith that being fabulous is not what most gay people worry about on most days.
Nostalgia for the glories of marginalization aside, denunciations of gay ordinariness are mostly about politics, specifically the left's attempt to corner the market on gay authenticity.
More. A Washington Post column contrasts marriage vs. "community":
Sarkisian and Gerstel believe that de-romanticizing marriage might provide a caution to gays and lesbians who seek equal rights to marriage as heterosexuals. "Gays and lesbians," they wrote, "once noted for their vibrant culture and community life, may find themselves behind picket fences with fewer friends dropping by."